Imlie Sirf Unki Najayiz Aulad Hai - Page 20

Originally posted by: Apudip

Chop hone se dd thakti nehi hai na hi unwanted feel karti hai !! Self respect bechh khayi hai aaj breakfast mein 🤢Jab dekho muh uthake chali sati hai 🤷🏽‍♀️She can never solve any problem because of her short-sighted ness of the future .She never did any good for herself so can't expect that she can do it for her so called sister! Bahot huya ab maafi de do dd !!🙏

Wow Apuji, looks like DD has really done a number on you today. Maine kabhi aapko itne strongly react karte kabhi nahi dekha.

I agree wholeheartedly though. She just does not understand that she is not wanted, yet makes it a point to land up there coz she wants to show she is nibhaoing rishta with her ex in-laws after separating from their son, coz 7 yrs ka rishta tha.

I don't get it how the T's are willing to whitewash all her and her mother's sins. I mean AC sent them to jail on behalf of Malini for god's sake. How is that neither of them want to acknowledge that and just move on with getting her back as their ladli bahu. This one point is sticking to me like a sore thumb.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Apuji, how was she tolerated in the OG. Was she as bad as this🤢. And I second your thought of seeing less in the future epis, as she is starting to become an eyesore.

As for the T's, this is still more tolerable than some of the other stuff I have watched, so honestly nothing shocking for me. Achanak ek din pyaar phir se jag jayega and all will be a happy family again, pichla sab bhulake.

My only hope is that they do not dilute Adi & Imlie's character any more in trying to show Imlie as bechaari. I expect that she will not retaliate much, but atleast try to put her points across to tell what exactly happened and why they hid it for so long.

IK had a real life sketch of malini unlike this . She was a human there but here she becomes a clown whose open beijjati is done by her ex - husband ! In IK ,komolika used to come in t house every other day so May expect the same here as well . Will she ever stop coming T house ever !!

Originally posted by: nim_var

For a marriage to work, both partners have to be together.. In AM case, it was Malini always running away to her maayka at the drop of a hat or a silly spat... like the fight over going to college in the car sent by Anu... then discussing them with your mom, taking her advice...etc.. not cool. Any sensible parent knows not to interfere in their child's marriage and when to step in.

Imlie does not have an example of a successful marriage,only her amma ki seekh on which she has full bharosa.. and Sita Maiyya. Adi is not going to let her leave and she will stay and FIGHT, just as she echoed when she confessed her ILU to Adi.. taught me to fight, always been supportive.. Hope the makers keep this in mind as we certainly DO..

Married and a mom too, seen a bit of life. It is not beyond reality to imagine what the T's are saying is true... just that words hurt and once said can never be taken back. Adi has said many hateful things to Imlie and Imlie has forgiven him for that. Same she will do once the T's embrace her fully.

If she moves in with Adi, good for ITV, that is P for Progression.

Nim, well said.

@Bold: Married with two kids myself. I think in initial phase of a marriage, family interference always remains..but from what I have experienced, when you and the family gets the confidence..it starts to dwindle. I have never lived in a joint family and have been a very independent person myself. When you establish some boundaries and respect others boundaries too, I think it just becomes very mutual. Is it easy to do, no. Arguments,, conflicts and friction always prop up in any kind of relation dynamics. It is with age and education you learn to use the right words.

Having said that I think that any inherently good at heart person, will not be as vile as T's are being right now. And again I think that is where it is difficult for me to comprehend. Makers and script writers ki galti hai yeh toh. They are nice, they are shown to be nice and now the language they are speaking is nothing less of trash. They are an upper middle class family who probably have seen struggles themselves so their actions and the lingo they are using is what an inexperienced, nasty and un-polished person would speak. Has age and life not taught them anything? Is the first time they have seen a crisis? Oh well, jaane do yaar...T's ne itna hungama macha rakha hai ki haye tauba ho rakhi hai...😆 There are some other lovely things that the past episodes have reflected on- how the younger generation is more open minded and compassionate, Sundar's uncomplicated yet cherishable friendship with Imlie...and more so AKT being the voice of morality!

I am just seeing this as the representation of what probably still exists in some societies in India, a way to spice up the drama albeit in a very loud and sour way and get TRP, maybe! As for how this reflects on the next progression for Imlie- well sometimes you have get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand up taller than you ever were...and that is probably what they are doing right now. Imlie will rise, has to rise!

@Bold2: Oh I will rejoice if that happens..but the director and the makers are now confused..p se progression dikhaya jaaye ya fir R se regression kyunki T se trp chahiye aur D se drama, Baki toh T's ko GMO ingredients bana rakha hai...toh organic ki toh lagi padhi hai! P se platonic ka toh bol bala hai hi! 😆

Sorry for not tagging other's who would like to be involved or were involved in this discussion..just catching up and saw Nim's tag for me...thanks Nim for the discussion 🤗

Update: IF being a dhokebaz to my tagging...aint working for me! sorry!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/imlie/5237488/congratulations-josupra

pease wih josupra on her status change :)

double post sorry!

Originally posted by: Loony_lovegood

Makes sense Aps. But I am not disappointed with Imlie's response to the T family. This was expected of her. She had faced worse and she is still ready to face even worse for others. Afterall she is crafted as a sefless person. Agreed.

What I am wondering is that how did the Ts turn this way? There should be some base to such turn of events. These accusations, the gestures they are puting forth today were never anticipated. We knew they will be crazy mad at her for hiding the truth but we also rooted for them for the fact that we knew they were not hypocrites and they would eventually accept Imlie.

The way these taunts are put forward, even if the writers go with a redemption, they are never deserving forgiveness from Imlie. They are proving time and again that they had always been classists under their skin. Totally unexpected! If they are genuine people then writers just butchered those characters!

Agree LL. I don't know abt others but for me it's really hard to love senior T's anymore. I know they r hurt bcoz they thought imlie their apnaa. What adi n imlie did was unforgivable for them. But what I don't understand is t's calling malini n begging her to return. Nothing going to happen with malini's return. They know imlie's illegitimate status before and never questioned her. Suddenly now saying these things to reject her showing their double standards. I was 😡 when Apu told imlie can't be equal to malini. They told Imlile having EMA with adi but never acknowledged Dev n malini EMA. They never tried to talk with their son Adi. In real life also parents will be angry with their children for 1 or 2 days after that they will try to talk n make them understand but here they r talking with Malini n accusing Imlie. Is it really hard to talk with their own son?

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Panchhiji, Aparna is his mother and both are same same. Both assume that the other will bend down to their zid, coz they are right from their perspective. Also, Aparna is the mother, who will perpetually think that uska beta doodh pita bachcha hai, jise koi bhi control karke use raah bhtka sakta hai.

It is just very difficult for them to belive that their son who never wanted to get married, was aloof at home and was so much involved in his work is now ready to "chod chad ke duniya saari bas tere peeche pad gaya" that too for someone like Imlie, who they feel that she is no hoor pari, so why is he so hell bent on sticking with her. Like they say, T's sirf upar ki chamak ko dekh judgement pass kar rahe hai, and that is going to cost them their son.

Yup they don't know him fully 😆 waise bhi har maa baap ko apna bacha bhola hi lagta hai 😆 particularly male child ..ladki be fansaa Liya types.

Originally posted by: Apudip

IK had a real life sketch of malini unlike this . She was a human there but here she becomes a clown whose open beijjati is done by her ex - husband ! In IK ,komolika used to come in t house every other day so May expect the same here as well . Will she ever stop coming T house ever !!

Lagta toh nahi. And now that the OG also had her, yahaan pe toh aau zyada usse ghusaenge.

I get that Aps! Totally! This is the unfortunate situation of our society and they are just representing a part of that. What I am concerned is that as a viewer, the T's ceased to be genuine. They are being real but at this point we cannot justify them or root for them as a viewer. May be because they set a very unrealistic expectation in our minds that I am not able to connect with them.

Taking example from Malini's character and how it was portrayed we always had a hint that this is not a genuine character, because makers showed us that. But for T's it came totally as a blow. May be them not letting their own daughter file a divorce were indications, that obviously I missed. 😅

@apsvenky

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

There is going to be a tug of war that will be played in the T house and winner will get to decide where Imlie will stay. Currently looks like Adi is winning so many bets are in his room, but lets see. We cannot discount the jr T's, so Rupi di's room will also be suggested. The T's are hell bent on sending her out, but will settle for either the kona or kitchen. All this will be done while Imlie will be standing like the audience in a tennis match.

Do u really think makers will show imlie staying with Adi? Will imlie accept that? But what I was thinking is before this room drama makers should clear Adilie marriage's legality. There r so many doubts regarding their marriage. Atleast they should clear this first.