Would Raavi have realized her mistake if she wasn't married to Shiva?

Just imagine if she were not married to Shiva (say she was maybe married to Dev), but they had just become more civil towards each other and were "friends" (maybe not in the conventional sense, but like they are sort of friends right now).

What do you guys think, would she have realized why she was wrong?

I personally think she would have. Today when I watched the episode I felt she understood exactly where she went wrong. She did realize it was wrong to call him those names (or anybody for that matter), it wasn't just because Shiva is now her husband.

But if I go with the promo, she yet again, still calls him those names. So I am confused😕. Was that a momentary thing? Or something else?

Would like to know your opinions❤️

Tbh, she would have changed her opinions over time.

All that she says to him or fights with him begins when he starts fighting, all the things she must have shared with her friends are most probably told like a rant out of anger or irritation. Even before she got married she mentions Shiva as family multiple times, she knows and aknowledges his good nature multiple times..

She might still call him names, because she is probably in anger, and it comes as a force of habit. But I think she genuinely felt she did wrong. These things take time to change- it's not an on-off switch. You don't just have an epiphany and change how you react, especially under stress. You would need to train yourself to not say things that hurt the other person, because the stakes have changed.

And I feel she would have got this realization if she had married Dev too. If she can care for and be civil to Rishitha after all that has transpired, I am sure she would have loved Shiva as her dewar( yes, it sounds weird, but had Rishitha been 10 minutes late, this would be the truth 🤷‍♀️). Just as she stands up for Krish, she would have told Sneha- "woh mera dewar hai, aage se kuch mat bol" ( something more smooth but definitely assertive)

Originally posted by: Madheart

Tbh, she would have changed her opinions over time.

All that she says to him or fights with him begins when he starts fighting, all the things she must have shared with her friends are most probably told like a rant out of anger or irritation. Even before she got married she mentions Shiva as family multiple times, she knows and aknowledges his good nature multiple times..

I agree with some parts and disagree with some parts.

I think pre-marriage she really did judge him very harshly regardless of their equation. But I do agree that she would have realized over time.

This however just my opinion of course, and I respect yours.

Thanks for sharing your views.❤️

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

She might still call him names, because she is probably in anger, and it comes as a force of habit. But I think she genuinely felt she did wrong. These things take time to change- it's not an on-off switch. You don't just have an epiphany and change how you react, especially under stress. You would need to train yourself to not say things that hurt the other person, because the stakes have changed.

I agree, that is probably just a momentary mistake made in anger (I mean, Shiva did turn up drunk suddenly)

And I feel she would have got this realization if she had married Dev too. If she can care for and be civil to Rishitha after all that has transpired, I am sure she would have loved Shiva as her dewar( yes, it sounds weird, but had Rishitha been 10 minutes late, this would be the truth 🤷‍♀️). Just as she stands up for Krish, she would have told Sneha- "woh mera dewar hai, aage se kuch mat bol" ( something more smooth but definitely assertive)

Glad to know you felt the same!❤️

Thanks for sharing your views🤗

I chose option 1 ❤️

Marriage or no marriage Raavi as a person is pure, innocent with no malice in her heart. She is a giver of love and happiness. All the name calling is not out of hatred....she has actually never hated him...its more of a frustration and a momentary outburst..If you remember she has accepted Shiva as her apna pre marriage itself..one of her mission was to make Shiva love and respect her after her wedding with Dev. So for me she has always loved Shiva not romantically but he was in her family always. Even when Mami tells to throw Shiva out of the house after her wedding she denied saying Shiva is her family.

We finally got a glimpse of Raavi's thoughts today and I am so glad she has realised why Shiva is hurt....As for the name calling in the promo...I would wait to see how it plays out in the episode as promos are misleading mostly...All said I am sure Raavi will make amends and win Shiva back❤️

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

I chose option 1 ❤️

Marriage or no marriage Raavi as a person is pure, innocent with no malice in her heart. She is a giver of love and happiness. All the name calling is not out of hatred....she has actually never hated him...its more of a frustration and a momentary outburst..If you remember she has accepted Shiva as her apna pre marriage itself..one of her mission was to make Shiva love and respect her after her wedding with Dev. So for me she has always loved Shiva not romantically but he was in her family always. Even when Mami tells to throw Shiva out of the house after her wedding she denied saying Shiva is her family.

Yes, I agree here. Ravi definitely did not have any malice in her heart, not even for Shiva. It's just that pre-marriage she had this judgemental thought process that less educated people are somehow inferior and don't deserve respect (I mean, I felt so, others might not agree). That was the only thing I disliked about her, but yesterday's episode again, it seemed to me she has genuinely realized her mistake, so I am very happy with this progress❤️

We finally got a glimpse of Raavi's thoughts today and I am so glad she has realised why Shiva is hurt....As for the name calling in the promo...I would wait to see how it plays out in the episode as promos are misleading mostly...All said I am sure Raavi will make amends and win Shiva back❤️

Yeah, that is true. Promos can be misleading😆

Thanks for replying🤗