Arey yr even I am very upset.
In the episode spoiler thread also people are like Raghav’s pain and even if they don’t intend to side with Raghav and are trying to stay neutral they are still ending up siding with Raghav saying he was in pain drunk and crying over Pallavi etc etc but he did behave in a cold calculating way with Pallavi again by pretending to be drunk she got worried for him looked after him put him to bed and what did he do ??
Pretended to be drunk so he could steal the recording
I am not bashing Raghav, it is indeed a very difficult situation for Raghav but instead of confronting his sister and making her beg for forgiveness from Pallavi and the Deshmukhs he is giving her a free pass which is further empowering Keerthi to go as far as insulting Pallavi and encouraging sunny to insult her as well.
Moreover people are like from 10 years he has been burdened comparing grief really?? And if you really want to compare hardship then please please do not ignore the fact that Raghav is a man who would have faced nothing compared to Pallavi.
Whatever pain Raghav has is deep profound grief of losing his family and his guilt but he hasn’t had to face the external hardships that Pallavi would have faced simply because she is a woman.
And compare karna hai toh don’t forget Pallavi is an orphan, she opened her eyes in her brother’s arms meaning her parents died when she was born which means she literally suffered her entire life she has no memories no experience of a happy family. All she has had all her life is pain and misery and struggle alongside her brother. All her life before marriage also people must have bashed her saying you are so inauspicious that you parents died after you were born. And then getting married and all her dreams crashing down in a day the sheer pain would have been enough to make the strongest of people give up on life.
And don’t even get me started on her struggle as a widow. I really think people don’t understand the extent of the problems a woman faces in the society because they don’t know such people and if they do then they aren’t close enough to them for them to share their true struggles with them.
Society literally turns against you taunts bashing and saying you shouldn’t wear colour etc etc all this on top of finding yourself utterly alone in each and every situation and all responsibilities are only yours to shoulder and no one to support you. As if this isn’t enough men literally see you in a different light. It’s as if a respectable woman gets transformed into a prostitute overnight. Even people you know co workers who respected you and whom you respected think the worst of the woman arey she is alone usko help toh chahiye hi hoga life mein seeking sexual favours and what not and this is just people whom you know. Then there are those on the street arey yeh toh widow hai sex ki zaroorat hoti hogi isko Akeli kese hum help kr de type behaviour, this is the treatment to middle aged widows. Imagine how many times worse it must be for a 22 year old widow who is still very young.
So when Raghav says I understand your pain then to him I will say “sweetheart you really don’t and in fact you don’t even have an inkling of how difficult it is”
And in all fairness all everyone has done is use Pallavi all the time and even if Raghav is apologetic and guilty etc and cares for her etc he is still using her. He has still not stopped using her. Despite understanding how nice a person she is and realising how truly innocent she really is, he still used her and played on he niceness the way he has always done. He wants her in the house because she healed his family and now he tricked her pretending to be drunk playing on her innocence again and like the time he signed over the shop and used it to defame her in the same he did put her in jeopardy and her character got maligned in a different way when she was proven wrong in front of Amma. Even though Amma is sensible and all but Raghav’s actions made Pallavi fall in Amma’s eyes even if for a little while and this is the same woman who helped you reconcile with your mother after 10 years when your mother wouldn’t even see your face much less listen to you.
And in doing so he effectively snatched her family away from her yet again, this time her new one like he did with her previous one.
This is what happened with Pallavi in today’s episode if one sees everything objectively. Pallavi could see Jaya losing respect for her in jaya’s eyes. And then Pallavi will be disrespected and disparaged in her own home by Keerthi and an outsider. And her husband already made it clear he will choose his sister.
So after Raghav is out of prison I really want Pallavi to distance herself from Raghav and ignore him as much as possible and talk to him only about the mystery solving when absolutely necessary.
Sorry about the rant but I was just very angry.