Originally posted by: Diya2021
I’m not saying I don’t understand Raghav’s perspective. His guilt still weighs on him and Pallavi had done her best to ease him but some things take time. I don’t think Amma is so weak. She will be shocked but she will survive because from what I can see of her, she also stands for the truth. That’s why after her initial shock, she asks Raghav to help Pallavi. So what Raghav is doing is solely to protect his family and here Kirti because that’s what he has always done. He will keep protecting them irrespective of whether they are right or wrong. Why can’t we bash Raghav if he is wrong ? If Pallavi can be bashed so can be Raghav. When Pallavi supported Sanki irrespective of whether he was right or wrong, she got bashed badly but if Raghav does the same, he is right ? I know here Kirti’s life will be ruined and that’s why I have never blamed Raghav for his intentions nor will I. I have been understanding his perspective from day 1 of this track and I feel equally for both of them. It’s not his intentions which I have problem with but his execution isn’t right. What do you mean by manipulating enough, hasn’t he been doing that all these years ? He has done everything to cover up the case until now while Pallavi has been searching for the truth. Raghav knows he is hurting Pallavi badly and him supporting Kirti or surrendering himself is equally hurtful for her. Neither of this is going to give her any closure and he knows that but he is bound by his responsibility and love to his family. Even if Kirti had shown 1% of remorse and accepted her mistake, Pallavi would have tried to help in some way because that’s how she is. But Kirti is been hiding things and trying to put the blame on others knowing well that what she did was a crime. Raghav could have opened up to Pallavi and trusted her to find a way in this together, knowing well enough how much this meant for her. But he left her to fight this alone only because he was protecting his sister. Can Pallavi live a happy married life with Raghav knowing that he hid a criminal who apparently hit and run her ex ? She was married to that man and went through all the taunts of being a widow, so if we think from her perspective she has also suffered a lot and she also lived through it. She wants to move on closing her past and into a future where the person she is with, cares for her feelings and supports her. Didn’t he manipulate her today to switch the recordings, he did. He would go to any extent to defend Kirti even knowing that it is hurting Pallavi. This is close to reality and if it actually happens to someone in real life, this is an extremely delicate scenario which is bound to shake up the relationships but then doing the right thing is the only way however hard it is. Kirti didn’t do it deliberately, it was hit and run but the result ended up in a person losing his life. It might be a thing of the past but for that family, they lost a son. I would agree with what Raghav thought at the start that this should never have come out. It isn’t appropriate for the family but sometimes unknown things are better off than known but now since it’s in open, he needs to stand up for the truth. From the start I have been rooting for Raghvi because it’s equally difficult for both of them but what Raghav is doing will never change anything. If it takes a man of character to sacrifice this much, it takes a woman of character to stand for truth knowing her family will be in shambles because we are talking of a criminal offence which is illegal by law. I’m sorry but I hope you don’t generalise 80% not understanding Raghvi just because we bashed Raghav for a day. Bashing Raghav & Pallavi shows our love for Raghvi and we are all in this because we love this show.