@bold: initially I thought Thakuma loves Bonditha, reluctant to take any risk and go against society rules. But no, she only cares for her pride. If she really loves Bonditha, during preleap she would had at least spoken softly and explains the harsh realities. If she really loves she would not have emotionally blackmailed Bonditha. Now regarding marriage with Chandrachur, Tupur had not given child to him(I really doubt if he is doing any conspiracy regarding it) she may convince for Tupur sake marry him or because she was abandoned by Anirudh as per their view, she also spoiled her another marriage before it would be difficult to get matches. If she is not married it will be a problem for Tapur. In this way also Thakuma may try to convince Bonditha. I also doubt to gain Bonditha cc may even try to kill Tupur.
@bold- there's no way Bondita would ever get convinced by this argument. She is way too sensible and sorted for that. And she isn't emotional like Ani who would just give in to any emotional talk. And she loves Ani. She would never agree to marry anyone else. Zyada se zyada bol degi ki if you all have so much problem main chali jati hun, phir Tapur ki shaadi kara dena. She didn't even feel bad when she heard Tupur got married to CC, she just seemed surprised there. Emotionally sirf Ani ko hi manipulate kia ja sakta hai not Bondita. Even as a kid usko manipulate karna bohot hi mushkil tha abb toh badi hogayi hai