Aaj yeh pyar humari zindagi ka sabse badaa sach hai - Page 9

Originally posted by: Lodestar

"Teri patni Malini hai" is going to act as trigger words for Adi going forward.

As soon as he hears this in anyway he is going to transition from Bucky Barnes to Winter Soldier🤣. Phir he will do all that is possible to prove how irrelevant Didi is to him. Side main token apologies deta rahega Didi ko & Didi will be ghuming with constant Dil Toots expression if she continues to insert herself in Adi-Imlie matters🤣.

Hai becahara KC abhi se Balti leke ghumna start kar de ..caz uska kaam didi ke tasve sametna hi hkga ab se..🤣 and her dare sambahalna..poore oaagal khane se Paala pada hai woh bhi kahega kis manhoos ghadi mere Mata pita ne mera naam KC rakha🤣.

Didi ki sadi shaklein can be amusing but nit for too long.. I am sorry but I just want a break from her atleast for a month Yantra oe jaaye on a healing trip give us a break while these 2 settle down and strengthen their bonds and sameto the raaite

Originally posted by: Happysoul17

I know aap bohut optimistic person ho still I didn't like their behaviour. They crossed their limits even if you say it's for temporary. Jo baat ek baar muh se nikal jaati hai woh dobara wapas nahi le sakte that too sab sach janne baad. I was disappoint with their choice of words they threw on her. Gussa ho theek hai but tehzeeb na bhulte qnki they are elders of the house. Words have the power to break someone's self esteem. Those words were too strong for me to digest. Whatever I said is totally my opinion, that's why I put my answer on your last line. Baaki I respect your views you can keep your faith on them and not to jump on the hate train.

I feel you should give them more time/episodes to evolve & retrospect this truth. Reality has hit home & how they process the information is imperative factor here. AC is just a gone case at this point because she's just thirsty for vengeance whereas the Ts are more accepting of the truth with passing time. One-two episodes aren't enough to show that process & retrospection in terms of accepting the flaws. We saw Adi had his share of flaws but the guy wholeheartedly accepted them. 😊

At the end of the day, it is completely your choice & perspective.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I simply cannot with how his eyes melt and turn so soft in middle of all this volcano erupting when he looks towards her..what brilliant transitions without making them so obvious.. when he looks at her he is so tenderly watching almost requesting her in those samjhaooing looks while otherwise he is fire jisko chua toh bhasam ho jaayege.. the tenderness he has for her in this entire thing.. the way he softly takes her hand ke chalo and repeats the journey.amazed

Word. If there was a personification of the “jo hoga, saath mein hoga” emotion, it would be this exact look….his eyes soften with emotion when they turn towards her but there is still a steely determination underscoring everything ❤️

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Word. If there was a personification of the “jo hoga, saath mein hoga” emotion, it would be this exact look….his eyes soften with emotion when they turn towards her but there is still a steely determination underscoring everything ❤️

I am so blown away by how well GM.plays with his eyes.. it is so rare to see them for half the job..every look thrown has a totally different emotion..thisnis my fav moment and cap.. the way he has almost that childlike quality to it that we always hail that deep deep deep love and respect and Narmi hai kya karte ho babusahib.. aap aise kyon ho..matlab dil karta hai ke jaa ke khudse inhe zamane se bacho when they give us this kind of stuff. The different shades of determination was 8ndeed what should have been the title..Masterclass it was in how to execute and enact such major sequences..

Originally posted by: Lodestar

There is just so much to comment on in today's epi yaar☺️. Itna mast rapchik epi tha ki we will be rewatching & analysing it the whole weekend😆. Thank god it is a Saturday epi🤣.

De Nile is not only flowing in Egypt but in T house as well😛. Elder Ts ka stance was strong denial of the existence of any rishta between Adi-Imlie. First they denied the shaadi as zabardasti, illegal & bhool jao. And when Adi declared he can't forget it nor will he let anyone forget it inka fuse aur udd gaya🤣.

Phir aaya Adi ke pyaar ka declaration. Phir pyaar ko deny karne ke liye the elder Ts fevicol ke jod se jud gaye to his shaadi with Malini & Imlie's status as naukrani. They also know that Imlie is not just a naukar to them but abhi they don't want to have any personal relationship with her. So they clung on hard that Imlie is a nuakrani & Adi cannot fall in love with her😆. Malini is his rightful wife. She is the alpha & omega....toh Adi should remain with her only. Adi has already told them ki Malini se shaadi is his galti. Ab aage aur kya reply karega Pankaj ko I am very excited.

It was painful to hear Apu, Pankaj & BK maligning Imlie. Radha ji ka toh roz ka hai😆. Apu baar baar called her a naukrani to keep her at a distance. She also called her benaam & begairat ladki. We all know that Apu has better values than that. But she is just lashing out in hurt. Pankaj was straight up denying that Adi-Imlie have any kind of rishta between them. BK feeling that Imlie is not sacchi & maasoom because she has relationship with a married man was hard to bear.

Adi was also shocked by his elders hypocrisy. When Aparna latched onto the naukrani tag, he expressed his disappointment in her. He expected at least BK to speak up for Imlie. He himself went to BK with the hope that he at least will defend Imlie as always. But BK also is reeling in shock. He is also not ready to accept the truth that Adi-Imlie are married. For him any relationship between Adi-Imlie is wrong & immoral.

@bold1: Word about De-Nile flowing strongly through T house in this epi😆….the elder Ts were literally grasping at straws from one point to the next to keep the denial going cuz the shock was too much for them. So the instinctive need was to negate the stark truth in front of their eyes. To try to pretend that Imlie is just a naukarani so Adi can’t be in love with her and consider her his wife. lol and jab bataya gaya that shaadi happened at gunpoint so they jumped to that ki toh phir toh invalid hi hai, saath mat chalo, bhool jaao it happened 😆…..they were desperately trying to turn back the clock when so much water has already flown under this bridge. But they were beyond applying logic there 😆

@bold2: Lol at Adi ka shock over their hypocrisy….it again ties into Adi ka general presumption of considering his family waale to be better human beings than him since they are so warm and loving 😆….khud ko toh yeh baar baar paapi bol chuka hai and sabse sun chuka hai ki he’s so mean and bura 😆…..so he’s like main bura hoon par aap log toh achhe ho na. Toh achha banke dikhaao 😆….lekin his naive hope is being dashed now ki jin logon ke dil woh khud se bade samajhta tha, woh bhi Imlie ko aise disrespect kar rahe hain. Lol

Ultimately Babusahib ka idealism runs into the harsh reality of the flaws in human nature and his loving family is also not above falling prey to those flaws.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

It is funny that they say ke bhool jao.. kya bhool jao you cannot make someone forget something life altering just like that.. for you guys it may be nothing and just what you are hearing now as a happening somewhere but they have LIVED it and they will never be able to fully recover from it.. on some days it will coem tot hem harder on others they will not pay much attention.. you cannot delete it there is no way to erase it from their minds.. what they can do is heal each other and that they are in process off and now it is about Pride even more.. Pride in your partner.. Keechad main kamal kanton ke beech phool that is their rishta that emreged from the ashes and now is turning into the most beautiful thing..

+1000👏…..Word to the bold. The way their trauma gets dismissed as if people forget that these two alone LIVED it. How do you forgot something like that? And then against all odds, managing to discovering a beautiful love that heals you through that trauma and makes you discover your true inner self? Why would you bhool jaao that?

Ts ko idea bhi nahin hai that this is a soul connection forged in the fire of that trauma. That is why it is too deeply rooted within both of them now and is the greatest truth of their lives.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold1: Word about De-Nile flowing strongly through T house in this epi😆….the elder Ts were literally grasping at straws from one point to the next to keep the denial going cuz the shock was too much for them. So the instinctive need was to negate the stark truth in front of their eyes. To try to pretend that Imlie is just a naukarani so Adi can’t be in love with her and consider her his wife. lol and jab bataya gaya that shaadi happened at gunpoint so they jumped to that ki toh phir toh invalid hi hai, saath mat chalo, bhool jaao it happened 😆…..they were desperately trying to turn back the clock when so much water has already flown under this bridge. But they were beyond applying logic there 😆

@bold2: Lol at Adi ka shock over their hypocrisy….it again ties into Adi ka general presumption of considering his family waale to be better human beings than him since they are so warm and loving 😆….khud ko toh yeh baar baar paapi bol chuka hai and sabse sun chuka hai ki he’s so mean and bura 😆…..so he’s like main bura hoon par aap log toh achhe ho na. Toh achha banke dikhaao 😆….lekin his naive hope is being dashed now ki jin logon ke dil woh khud se bade samajhta tha, woh bhi Imlie ko aise disrespect kar rahe hain. Lol

Ultimately Babusahib ka idealism runs into the harsh reality of the flaws in human nature and his loving family is also not above falling prey to those flaws.

It all ties back to the core ke yahan sab hi insaan hai sabka time.aayega of being acha and bura depending on situations..something that we all do almost on daily basis ....sab hi extreme hote hain kisi na kisi matter main and overreact karte hi hain..depends ke kis baat ka ktina farak padta hai.. I think this is one rare show that shows everyone from A to Z having their fair share of flaws 😆 and that itself makes it so worth it .. yeah it is frustrating but we know we cannot put them in buckets..ke yeh positive hai yeh negative hai yeh bura hai yeh acha hai..caz koi bhinfukly ek.bucket main nahi aata.. except maybe 1 dimensional didi and unke Abba.

HAHA At adi ka main bura but aap toh ache..😆 so true hence his plea to BK too ke meri toh sun nahi rahe aap hi try kar lo aapka lihaaz kar lein shayad.. and BK ka ab main kya boloon main toh khud confuse hoon..I just found it so endearing how adi went to BK ..I think I have said it before too that I live this tauji Bhatia dynamic too and I see so much of BK ke values in adi it is like BK was responsible for Intilling Sanskaar and adi really looks upto him and it shows bohat baar his first point if contact in any such situation at home is badke kaaka he always asks him to control the situations.. ..I am still not over his aao aisa sochte hain..and the shock he had at BK ka response the way that tear fell from his eye and he did the little nod oh yeah right wala. God so much to notice and go over .. the more you watch the more you see the detailing..

And yes ofcourse it remains funny how they ask them to forget as if morning alarm band kia and bhool gaye and not life altering for them chahein bhi toh kabhi nahi bhool sakte kabhi bhi nahi

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol waise toh main kuch bolungi bhi toh it feels like it hardly registers on most people cuz sabko apne hisaab se specific characters ko write off karna hota hai 🤷‍♀️😆

But I’ll just repeat what I already said two pages back. Aparna is not an AC no matter the hurtful things she’s saying right now cuz the context and tareeka matters.

Again, it’s fine if some people feel Aparna has reached the point of no return for them over this. To each their own. But the same way I didn’t write Adi off over the hurtful things he said when he was confused and upset, Aparna doesn’t get written off yet either.

There is a deep, ROOTED love Aparna has for Imlie that is going to weather this haze of darkness and hurtfulness she is lashing out about right now. To me, her mean words can’t overshadow all the love her actions have demonstrated. Again, it’s not to say she’s some perfect mom. She clearly has her own selfish and class conscious side too. But she is an inherently good person who loves Imlie and that will prevail ultimately.

She hasn’t ever really lowered Imlie’s worth over being the house help. She is only saying all this to push Imlie away in her hurt. That is why it’s not getting to me that much 🤷‍♀️

+100 Bold so true.

There is so much to write and catch up on... can I say the buildup towards the revelation was totally unexpected.. that was a nice move from the makers. some thoughts below on Apu's words.. and her reaction.

Imagine yourself as Apu and suddenly one day, your son introduces the girl who has been living in your house as a maid is called her bahu, saying he is married to her.. the shock that she received along with the others is huge... no way she can accept it at face value. Normally when the son gets married, all the naam, khoon, khandaan is looked at and then marriages are fixed. Even if the son is dating someone like Malini, they knew the family bg etc and approved of the shaadi, even tolerated all the insults etc from Anu as they are khandaani... etc.. I know that folks cannot digest this.. but trust me real life..aisa hi hai...

Next up, how come Apu forgot all that Imlie has done for them... she has not forgotten them but in light of what has just been revealed, the deception is a far bigger thing. She showered Imlie with affection and in return Imlie deceived her, that is all Apu can focus on right now. She is very hurt and in that hurt, she is lashing out at her son/bahu in pain, calling her names, that are difficult to hear.. but that is exactly how a person would react in real life.. they all know that Imlie does not have a father's name or know nothing about her bg, just that she is from a village.. they know she is intelligent n smart.. simple.good. etc

This is same with Apu, as long as Imlie was the maid, they are ok with things and will shower her with love.. when it affects them directly, then it is a diff issue, they are answerable to society n relatives.. we have seen that they are concerned about that.. Imlie is a 3rd person, easy to dismiss whereas Malini checks all the boxes on paper. She is accepted by society and has the pedigree too.

Unless we judge a person purely on their actions and not by naam, khoon, khandaan, this vicious cycle will keep repeating. That is what the makers want to show here I think.. change in the mentality of the Tripathis from denial to acceptance, the journey of Adilie together too

Looking forward to the discussions 😃

Superb gifs and caps from both of you as always @AY, @NM 👍🏼

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Nice post as always AY. What a good episode after so long.

Aditya had been waiting for so long for Imlie to support him and once she did in the last episode it was as though he was set free. The kind of clarity he provided today to every single person in his vicinity about what Imlie is to him was so long overdue. To the characters and to the audience.

Aparna and Pankaj’s words today did feel unnecessary but Aditya and Imlie’s relationship has always been poised to be perceived the exact same way. That of having dragged in the dirt but being the purest form of love in reality. But for some reason I think that even if the humiliation amps up, Aditya will now be with Imlie all the time bearing those insults equally unlike instances in the past when he was kept out conveniently.

I’m actually not too surprised by BKs reaction. The last time I wrote something about the truth, I mentioned that it is especially hard when it has even been just hidden and one has not explicitly lied which is the case with Imlie and BKs equation. I felt he was more disappointed that she felt she could not tell the truth to him than anything else.

But let’s see. It sure looks like some hard days of Malini prem is on the horizon 🤢 but I’m a lot more interested to see Aditya and Imlie facing these battles together.

@bold: Word. Perfectly summed up.

Also agree about Adi just waiting to get that support from Imlie to provide this long overdue clarity to the family as well as the audience. Every word felt BANG ON 👏

And yes I also feel that Adi will no longer be kept isolated from all the incidents of Imlie being disrespected. It is her honor and respect that he will now get to OPENLY fight for compared to the indirect zimmedaari bhaashans used earlier as cover 😆

BK is hurt cuz his perception of Imlie has been shaken up by learning about the love between her and Adi. It’s a lot to adjust to in one moment since they did lie about it and hid their relationship while letting the AM marriage continue publicly. So he has to learn the nuances and context to process this and realize ki Imlie wohi pyari maasoom Imlie hi hai unki.

Lol Malini bhakti karte rahein Ts. I can zone it out as long as Adi keeps his focus and priorities on Imlie. Oh and also don’t want useless Didi trying to claim woh acceptance dilva rahi hai. Yeh kaam Adi and Imlie ka khud ka hai to repair their relationship with Ts. Didi can do her useless mewling to her loser parents and spare us for a bit 🙏

Originally posted by: AreYaar

+1000👏…..Word to the bold. The way their trauma gets dismissed as if people forget that these two alone LIVED it. How do you forgot something like that? And then against all odds, managing to discovering a beautiful love that heals you through that trauma and makes you discover your true inner self? Why would you bhool jaao that?

Ts ko idea bhi nahin hai that this is a soul connection forged in the fire of that trauma. That is why it is too deeply rooted within both of them now and is the greatest truth of their lives.

Amazing tendencies people develop in their need to live in denial..it again just takes us back to the basic point ke sab shor hai jitna dhindora utna real sab..7 saal ka beean itna Baja doa hai ke 8 Mahine ka real dikh nahi raha caz Shor nahi kar rahe.. they know it at their hearts .. their souls are so intermingled they do not even need to say a word to get what other must be feeling yet caz hype nahi hai toh bhool jao..amazing na ke forget fiction as main bhi yehi chalta hai..shows offs matter caz somehow wohi sabko realigned lagta tha the need to validate and stamp that as real when none of that actually is.

@ bold this sounds all fiction to them..as didid said Story.. nobody will actually be able to process that until they are taken to that point..and feel that helplessness. Yeah it was traumatic but that gave them the best gift life could ever give them hence they are trying to move past it.. but it still doesn't take that hurt away..it still comeuppance comeuppance intensely in the way adi says he felt his whole existence was made a joke uski aatma samaan ki dhajiyaan udh gayi and that doesn't just implies at him it is a collective thought in many ways too caz she went through the same..what makes it even more cool for me is this is the guy who otherwise doesn't even do nonsense about being a guy or have any kind of chauvinism. They have so beautifully placed his ego his gurrir being ripped caz it is not your typical marking types cliche.. it is so delicately handled and well weaved in that it is more as a person him thinking about him actually having the power with him being journalist sach ka saathi but actually being so helpless and nothing being able to save his pride that day until now.. ahh man on days like this I want to write essays but then I feel so tired and bummed down by crap all around