Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#25 Mose Chal Kiye jaaye Saiyaan Beimaan - Page 44

You know what I thini, Alakh - they must have tried. At least Ahaan must have. Sonu se koi hope nahi hai. At least for a while, he must have. How can he not? How can any kid not? It's when your repeated questions get no answers and after a while jab thodi samajh aati hai and your mind is constantly fed with lies you have no clue are lies - you tend to grip those taught lies that you believe are true so tightly that you stop digging it deeper.

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

You know what I thini, Alakh - they must have tried. At least Ahaan must have. Sonu se koi hope nahi hai. At least for a while, he must have. How can he not? How can any kid not? It's when your repeated questions get no answers and after a while jab thodi samajh aati hai and your mind is constantly fed with lies you have no clue are lies - you tend to grip those taught lies that you believe are true so tightly that you stop digging it deeper.

What you are saying is right.

But I think it’s natural to look for your parent just to SEE how they are doing without you.

Main toh apne ex bf ko bhi sometimes stalk karti hu on FB even though I have no feelings and I am not even there on Facebook.. just out of curiosity.. and then I end up looking at many other people… and I will never admit it to anyone . 😆

yahan toh baat mummy ki ho rahi hai, the core of our existence.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Also sort of bugs me that Ahaan or Sonu never tried to find out the truth or look for their mom.

It’s kind of unrealistic IMO, even if they hated her missed her or whatever.. a child will still try to look for their mother.. they would want answers from her.

Yeah that part also didnt make sense,but i think they have blind trust on dadi which made them not to think on their mother and maybe they did but they didnt get any answers..chachi knew the truth but kept her mouth shut because of dadi,if she wanted she could have said it one thing for sure the revelation of savvys truth will give a blow to ahaan and sonu

I thought they performed her ‘barsi’ before sonu wedding… do they believe savvy is dead??!!

Originally posted by: netflicks

I thought they performed her ‘barsi’ before sonu wedding… do they believe savvy is dead??!!

Yes they performed her barsi before Sonu's wedding.

It's like they show that they have no feelings left for Savvy. They feel that Savvy has nothing to do with them. Even if she might be alive, but will always be dead to them for her betrayal.

Originally posted by: netflicks

I thought they performed her ‘barsi’ before sonu wedding… do they believe savvy is dead??!!

No.. the know she’s alive.. melodrama 😆

Originally posted by: jacinta_91

Yeah that part also didnt make sense,but i think they have blind trust on dadi which made them not to think on their mother and maybe they did but they didnt get any answers..chachi knew the truth but kept her mouth shut because of dadi,if she wanted she could have said it one thing for sure the revelation of savvys truth will give a blow to ahaan and sonu

Even adopted kids or kids jo poori life dhakke khaate h in foster homes.. they try to find.😕

Ahaan is pretty resourceful to not be able to trace his mother.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

What you are saying is right.

But I think it’s natural to look for your parent just to SEE how they are doing without you.

Main toh apne ex bf ko bhi sometimes stalk karti hu on FB even though I have no feelings and I am not even there on Facebook.. just out of curiosity.. and then I end up looking at many other people… and I will never admit it to anyone . 😆

yahan toh baat mummy ki ho rahi hai, the core of our existence.

Just finished my happy meal. 😆

Coming back to this

That's true, Alakh. For a lot of people, that is. However, some folks just can't get past the trauma. Plus age factor makes it even more suffocating.

I believe people handle losses better after a certain age but kids - not always. It's hard af.

With Ahaan - I think the hatred must have come much later. Initial years must have been tormenting - helplessly sulking in a corner - looking for his Mum's lap and not finding it. Slowly with Dadi's venom going into his system- it stuck in his mind that his Mum left him to be all on his own and never turned baxk - for someone else. His heart must have shattered to accept that his mother didn't love him enough to at least check upon him once. Or heck the insecurities must have drowned him - that his Mum probably didn't love him at all.

Quite some times- such ones might weep alone but wouldn't look for the one who has wronged them in such a horrific way.

He hates her mere mention because it brings back the memories of vulnerable him. Now the hatred is so deep-rooted that he would rather dig his own grave than to see her again.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CRBWOP8h9Os/?utm_medium=copy_link

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Even adopted kids or kids jo poori life dhakke khaate h in foster homes.. they try to find.😕

Ahaan is pretty resourceful to not be able to trace his mother.

Actually i know someone in real life similar to ahaan....they hate their mom because influence from grandmother, grandmother accused the siblings mother to hv mental issues,but actually nothing like that so the person and his sister refused to acknowledge her till the grandmother died...now they hv patch up but they still hold grudges against their mom...i mean they know the mom side of truth but because of too much influence by their grandmother that has made the siblings hv bitter feelings for their mom