Episode spoiler - 5 July 2021 - Page 16

So Finally watched the complete Epi and I was happy with the flow. Episode ke good qualities baad mein but first something about the Characters.

Sharda

Don't even get me started on her. I had a good mind to shake her up through the screen itself.

There's a way to frame a question and she really needs to learn that even after she's been a mother to '3 kids' as such😡

What's with the 'Pallavi, Tu aarahi hai na?' instead of 'Pallavi, kya tu aaj aapegi' ?....Gosh her tone as if she's admonishing her when she said 'Aaj Mandar ka Janmdin hai' - Kaise bhool gayi Tu types

It irked me so bad. Sharda's character has always been neither here nor completely there for me. Somedays this woman just wants to be throttled. Like she was the one who wanted Pallavi to get married & move ahead in her life. Didn't she already realize by then that most typical In-laws would actually not want Pallavi to be in proper contact with her previous in-laws.

A real Mother would understand what's the best for her child & start letting go of her. She's settling in with her in-laws where everyone adores her instead of just 3 members of your house.

Let her Finally be happy. To me, it sounds like she finally got Her Own Daughter after 2 Sons & she isn't willing to let go of her by any means. Makes me assured that when Mandar's back, she'll be the first one yapping that 'Pallavi, I'm your Aai. Wapas Aaja. Kya Tu itna nahi karegi apni Aai ke liye'🤦

Seriously, Pallavi needs to swap her Aai role model immediately to Jaya !! She needs to realise that just cos Sharda was her 1st Mom doesn't mean that she's capable of being the right Mom for her. She needs to start looking up towards Jaya on quite a few matters. Definitely not all but some.

Bina kuch bhi kiye Emotional hold rakhna toh koi Sharda Deshmukh se seekhe🤷

Jaya

And I would love to see Jaya to also get irked by how Pallavi went in guilt mode cos of one phone call from Sharda. I think she kinda also did from her expressions but was first trying to calm Pallavi down.

I hope Jaya realizes this & takes matters in her own hands soon.

Afterall, she got Raghav & Pallavi married for them to be a couple. Not today, but I would really want her character to be mature & call Sharda & tell her that she needs to understand that Pallavi is the Bahu of Raos now. And her constant reminders of Mandar affects her life negatively & if u're her Aai... u'll not take what I mean in a negative sense but understand how important it is for Pallavi to actually start disconnecting from Mandar so that she can really in actuality start a new life.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Was the yoga scene conceptualized, written and directed by Sai Ketan Rao 🤣 Certainly looked like it..he must have thoroughly enjoyed doing that scene knowing very well how his fan girls are all gonna go🤪☺️Poor Pallu🤣Koi nahi beta! Chun chun ke badla legi🤣

Another epic moment today- Pallavi bajaoing Lion. She really did call him "gobar sa muh" 🤣 so now he is gali ka kutta with a gobar face 🤣

Precap- How did Sanki allow Raghav to attend a havan/puja organized to commemorate Mandhar's birthday?? Outnumbered and sidelined in his own house? Way to go team Sharda-Milind

Ermmm and why has Raghav kept Mandhar's ring like some sovenir in the house? Or has Ved planted it through his insider?

Ok lemme just go and enjoy the yoga scene again. All Sai/Raghav fans balle balle ho gayi hai aaj to!!😆

All the FB’s of Pallavi were so cute today. Desi boys was so funny. It was so cool to see Sai’s and Shivangi’s strengths in their specific exercise used in a scene. It was all Saishi all the way. Raghav enjoying showing off his dole shole.
Pallavi shouting at Lion, I’m sure he is going to enjoy his interactions with her. Takkar ka bhabhi mila hai 😆

Choti moti baath nahi hai - Mandar ka birthday hai. I’m not sure how to take this statement. And why is hulka rang saree a white saree? Is it just because this day is related to Mandar that she has to wear a white but what do they want to show. A conflict of individuality which Pallavi is still facing between her past and present life? She was never interested in wearing white and after marriage, this saree is punched on us as if to remind us she is a widow. I don’t understand why a married woman should wear a white saree in a puja ? And even I have the same question, why the hell is Raghav having all these souvenirs of his long lost Mandar ?

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Uske paas bacchi kahaan hai halke rang ki sariyan? Usko sirf bright neons diye jaa rahe hain.

Jokes apart, I don't think she intended to dress up as a widow. In fact, there was something poetic about her wearing the same attire she wore when she made a public 'transition' from being a widow to a married woman, with all the symbols of marriage highlighted more than ever against the plain, white sari. (I apologize for my wording here, I know it sounds really technical and insensitive, I'm just not able to phrase it better and still make the point)

I do wish they'd paired it with a colored blouse though. Would have maintained the sobriety of the look, but not looked so in-your-face white.

@bold, I’m just going to take this as a valid excuse 😆 I didn’t mind her wearing it on the reception because that’s where she transitioned to a married woman. Went back and checked, she is wearing her mangalsutra and sindoor in the white. So are they trying to show a conflict of individuality which Pallavi is still facing between her past and present life? Even I wish they had matched with a coloured blouse. This full white is pricking my eyes.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

All the FB’s of Pallavi were so cute today. Desi boys was so funny. It was so cool to see Sai’s and Shivangi’s strengths in their specific exercise used in a scene. It was all Saishi all the way. Raghav enjoying showing off his dole shole.
Pallavi shouting at Lion, I’m sure he is going to enjoy his interactions with her. Takkar ka bhabhi mila hai 😆

Choti moti baath nahi hai - Mandar ka birthday hai. I’m not sure how to take this statement. And why is hulka rang saree a white saree? Is it just because this day is related to Mandar that she has to wear a white but what do they want to show. A conflict of individuality which Pallavi is still facing between her past and present life? She was never interested in wearing white and after marriage, this saree is punched on us as if to remind us she is a widow. I don’t understand why a married woman should wear a white saree in a puja ? And even I have the same question, why the hell is Raghav having all these souvenirs of his long lost Mandar ?

I was a lil miffed at the choice of saree, the white color to be precise but I am going with what Ashi and Jean said, about the makers trying to drive home the point about her being Mandhar's widow, which is playing more on Raghav's mind right now, the way he is hallucinating her in white..its like seeing his worst nighmare right infront of his eyes..Pallavi in a white saree is an embodiment/projection of Raghav's fear and guilt..so in that sense, more of a maker's choice than Pallavi's..she has no idea how it's gonna torment Raghav..

I am digging back the dead body of Saturday’s episode after all the autopsy is done 😆 I managed to catch up on Saturday and today’s episode only now. So Ved and Raghav were racing against each other when the accident happened. Raghav left him behind but apparently Ved was right behind when this happened. Following on our discussions, looks like Ved wasn’t in jail at that time? Can anyone lip read ? I tried to see what Ved was telling Raghav where it was muted and I felt it was “Usse meine hi..” The rest was gone in the movement of his body. Ved is very good in playing mind games. His referring to the blood is really boiling Raghav and he loses his senses when he gets angry. But I liked the fact that he isn’t weak, he will rise back. Murder confession, said aloud by Pallavi does send out the shivers. So looks like Raghav is going to be assumed of killing Mandar.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

I was a lil miffed at the choice of saree, the white color to be precise but I am going with what Ashi and Jean said, about the makers trying to drive home the point about her being Mandhar's widow, which is playing more on Raghav's mind right now, the way he is hallucinating her in white..its like seeing his worst nighmare right infront of his eyes..Pallavi in a white saree is an embodiment/projection of Raghav's fear and guilt..so in that sense, more of a maker's choice than Pallavi's..she has no idea how it's gonna torment Raghav..

I can understand that they want to torment us along with Raghav for the upcoming Mandar track but it’s so against who Pallavi is. yeah, sadly have to leave it with the fact that it’s maker’s choice. She seems to have started digging into things and Raghav saying everything will be ruined gives a sense of foreboding it’s going to go bad.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

I am digging back the dead body of Saturday’s episode after all the autopsy is done 😆 I managed to catch up on Saturday and today’s episode only now. So Ved and Raghav were racing against each other when the accident happened. Raghav left him behind but apparently Ved was right behind when this happened. Following on our discussions, looks like Ved wasn’t in jail at that time? Can anyone lip read ? I tried to see what Ved was telling Raghav where it was muted and I felt it was “Usse meine hi..” The rest was gone in the movement of his body. Ved is very good in playing mind games. His referring to the blood is really boiling Raghav and he loses his senses when he gets angry. But I liked the fact that he isn’t weak, he will rise back. Murder confession, said aloud by Pallavi does send out the shivers. So looks like Raghav is going to be assumed of killing Mandar.

@bold - you mean Ved saved mandhar?

CV's messed up the timeline though..last time Ved said he was in jail for 10 years.. So was he out on parole 2 years back and utilized that time to car race with Raghav?😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

Today's episode also confirmed that Raghav is completely ignorant of what's happening in Keerti's life. He seemed to think she was happy but has no clue what is going on behind the scenes.

Reading this post made me really happy. This is what I wanted . Raghav has done enough for Keerti and I want him to stay away from her life now. He should get involved only if she asks him to. He should assume she is happy with her beintehaa mohabbat and enjoy his life.

She is a grown woman and has taken her decision and will take what comes with that decision.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold - you mean Ved saved mandhar?

CV's messed up the timeline though..last time Ved said he was in jail for 10 years.. So was he out on parole 2 years back and utilized that time to car race with Raghav?😆

@bold no idea Vaishali. Either he saved or he had called Mandar there but I really felt he was saying those words. That’s why I wanted some more eyes to try lip read Ved there 😆

yeah looks like CV’s did mess up the timeline but the way Ved has been confidently talking about the accident did foresay that he was there. I feel Ved’s track was never to be there last time. He was just brought in to cover up the covid situation so all lines told at that time would have to be forgotten 😄Maybe they will try to have some justification to the dates when it is shown.

Originally posted by: Diya2021

@bold, I’m just going to take this as a valid excuse 😆 I didn’t mind her wearing it on the reception because that’s where she transitioned to a married woman. Went back and checked, she is wearing her mangalsutra and sindoor in the white. So are they trying to show a conflict of individuality which Pallavi is still facing between her past and present life? Even I wish they had matched with a coloured blouse. This full white is pricking my eyes.

I agree that the full white definitely pricks the eyes, and just a slightly different styling would have made a world of difference, but ab what to do- they had to make her match Raghav's hallucination, a manifestation of what's been plaguing his mind. She isn't dressed in white because she thinks herself to be a widow. She never dressed in white even when she was a widow- the only two times we've seen her in white was when first, she didn't want to pick a fight with Krishna's mom, and second time when she wanted to make a point on the reception (Both times we've ever seen her in white before, Raghav's added color, intentionally or not).

I don't think the conflict being highlighted is Pallavi's. She isn't confused about her status, she thinks of herself as a married woman. I really don't see her being torn between her past and her present right now, that may come later. She just wanted to wear a light sari to be respectful of the sombre nature of the day, and decided that that white sari will have to do. It actually is possible that she didn't have other sombre colors, some families do have such traditions. For example, on my mom's side of the family, brides don't wear black or white/very light colors in the first year of marriage. She probably didn't even think too much about picking that sari to wear, she just knew she had it and felt it would be event appropriate.

I believe the conflict being highlighted here with this attire is Raghav's, which I guess we'll see when he sees her dressed like this- all in white, but bearing all the symbols of marriage. The conflict of being married to and falling for a woman who's widowhood he holds himself accountable for.