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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Keerthi and her 1 second dragon fire breathing scene at the dining yesterday🤣

Woh tha kya 🤣

Funniest part was, she looked so out of it, and kissi ko bhanak bhi nahi. Raghav apne trip pe tha, Jaya and Pallavi were having their own giggling session. Accha hai, kuch time iske attitude to ignore karein.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Keerthi and her 1 second dragon fire breathing scene at the dining yesterday🤣

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I agree. She's not perfect, but who is? Pallavi is not perfect, Raghav is not perfect, Jaya is not perfect. Flawed, absolutely, she's made mistakes here and there, but tiny ones, and her intentions have been unquestionable. I do think that she needs to act more and say less, and I wish she acknowledged that her anger at Pallavi after the wedding was hugely misplaced. Barring that, she's a sweetheart. She's not comparable to Vijay and Sulochana and Mansi just because woh Deshmukh hai.

Ek toh I don't like judging 'Deshmukhs' as a whole. They're all individuals. And for Ayi, she gets too much hate for hypothetically forcing Pallavi to be with Mandaar in the future, which is confusing. Woh toh itni door ki baat hai!

I do think she'll have to learn to let go of Pallavi a little bit eventually, but I don't understand the hate for her calling Pallavi today. She wasn't calling her son's widow, she wanted her daughter with her on a difficult day. Learning to let go is absolutely needed, but it'll happen gradually na. Overnight, how can she let go, especially after how heavily dependent the family was on Pallavi.

She didn't have any malice in her heart or any dubious intention of stopping Pallavi from ''moving on'' behind inviting Pallavi.. as far as I have understood her character.. If Pallavi and Ayi have decided to keep their relationship as it is, then Mandhar is a part of it..he automatically comes in the loop.. Matlab Pallavi can participate in any occasion, festival, family function except for anything that is related to Mandhar? Why? What's the logic.. Jab uska man saaf hai, Ayi ka man saaf hai.. then why treat this ''Mandhar'' issue as a hush-hush affair that needs not be discussed.. ? Moving on doesn't mean yoi forget somebody.. Pallavi remembers Mandhar as someone who respected her, encouraged her, supported her.. why would she omit his memories from her mind and heart just because she is now married to someone else?

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Woh tha kya 🤣

Funniest part was, she looked so out of it, and kissi ko bhanak bhi nahi. Raghav apne trip pe tha, Jaya and Pallavi were having their own giggling session. Accha hai, kuch time iske attitude to ignore karein.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

She didn't have any malice in her heard or any dubious intention of stopping Pallavi from ''moving on'' behind inviting Pallavi.. as far as I have understood her character.. If Pallavi and Ayi have decided to keep their relationship as it is, then Mandhar is a part of it..he automatically comes in the loop.. Matlab Pallavi can participate in any occasion, festival, family function except for anything that is related to Mandhar? Why? What's the logic.. Jab uska man saaf hai, Ayi ka man saaf hai.. then why treat this ''Mandhar'' issue as a hush-hush affair that needs not be discussed.. ? Moving on doesn't mean yoi forget somebody.. Pallavi remembers Mandhar as someone who respected her, encouraged her, supported her.. why would she omit his memories from her mind and heart just because she is now married to someone else?

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Originally posted by: MistyDawn

She didn't have any malice in her heard or any dubious intention of stopping Pallavi from ''moving on'' behind inviting Pallavi.. as far as I have understood her character.. If Pallavi and Ayi have decided to keep their relationship as it is, then Mandhar is a part of it..he automatically comes in the loop.. Matlab Pallavi can participate in any occasion, festival, family function except for anything that is related to Mandhar? Why? What's the logic.. Jab uska man saaf hai, Ayi ka man saaf hai.. then why treat this ''Mandhar'' issue as a hush-hush affair that needs not be discussed.. ? Moving on doesn't mean yoi forget somebody.. Pallavi remembers Mandhar as someone who respected her, encouraged her, supported her.. why would she omit his memories from her mind and heart just because she is now married to someone else?

I agree. She's married doesn't mean she has to (or should be expected to!) forget her late husband. Just because she said she didn't love him, doesn't mean ki she didn't have fondness for him. She had a lot. And after seeing Sharda's response to seeing Pallavi on vatsavitri, how can we doubt how happy she is to see Pallavi well settled??

Let's forget what we know off screen about Mandaar, and focus on the information Pallavi and Sharda had. A great guy, loving son, with all the potential to be a great husband, taken too soon from both women.

Honestly, why shouldn't she want Pallavi there for Mandaar's pooja? She was his wife. Immediate family. They never divorced, their marriage was dissolved by death. But I also like that Jaya told Pallavi not to feel too guilty about forgetting the day. Pallavi too didn't have any malice in her heart, and it wasn't fueled by a lack of respect for Mandaar or Sharda, she was just caught up in her own life. It happens, itni badi baat nahi hai. That way, I do appreciate Jaya's influence in Pallavi's life. Someone has to tell her ki duniya ke saare bojh usse uthaane ki zarurat nahi hai.

When I say Ayi needs to move on, it's not in context of today, really. Pallavi is well within her rights to attend every Mandaar related pooja for the rest of her life. But I think Ayi needs do something, warna woh ghar sambhalne se raha, and I don't want her to live in such misery forever. Yehi sochte rehna, ki Pallavi thi toh sab accha tha, it isn't going to help. But I'm optimistic to see her, Milind and Amrutha form an alliance. Now, they need to focus on ki ab Pallavi nahi hai, toh sab accha kaise karein? Not just for Pallavi's sake, but for their own.

Originally posted by: RAGHVIFAM

Totally agrees with you... She don't needs to forget him to move on her life and if she wants to maintain her relationship with D family that also OK... But i think it not a big deal to forget about her ex husband bday... All over forgetting bday for any person it's not big deal

Its not..but that was Pallavi's good heart..it was her guilt..Ayi has got nothing to do with it .Had Ayi known that she is beating herself up for this, Im sure she would've told her the same thing Amma did..

Originally posted by: RishiGirl

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They all look so good in this picture!!

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Its not..but that was Pallavi's good heart..it was her guilt..Ayi has got nothing to do with it .Had Ayi known that she is beating herself up for this, Im sure she would've told her the same thing Amma did..