Originally posted by: SexyPotato
Most of the time ayi got bashed faltu mein.. She is 'Deshmukh' that doesn't mean she should be bashed for no reason. In fact I don't get this strong hatred for the ayi character. Not pointing out specifically anyone from here just a general observation. Dislikeness for that character from initial day is totally uncalled for.
I agree. She's not perfect, but who is? Pallavi is not perfect, Raghav is not perfect, Jaya is not perfect. Flawed, absolutely, she's made mistakes here and there, but tiny ones, and her intentions have been unquestionable. I do think that she needs to act more and say less, and I wish she acknowledged that her anger at Pallavi after the wedding was hugely misplaced. Barring that, she's a sweetheart. She's not comparable to Vijay and Sulochana and Mansi just because woh Deshmukh hai.
Ek toh I don't like judging 'Deshmukhs' as a whole. They're all individuals. And for Ayi, she gets too much hate for hypothetically forcing Pallavi to be with Mandaar in the future, which is confusing. Woh toh itni door ki baat hai!
I do think she'll have to learn to let go of Pallavi a little bit eventually, but I don't understand the hate for her calling Pallavi today. She wasn't calling her son's widow, she wanted her daughter with her on a difficult day. Learning to let go is absolutely needed, but it'll happen gradually na. Overnight, how can she let go, especially after how heavily dependent the family was on Pallavi.