Is it Bondita's imagination ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Why do I feel like Anidita's reunion tonight will be a dream? Another imagination of Bondita.

And honestly, I really want it to be one of her imaginations. Considering all that child marriage past, Bondita gravitating towards Anirudh is acceptable but the other way round is a bit weird to me. I hope Anirudh falls for Bondita without actually being aware of her real identity. This way they can actually project on them finding their way back to each other and two adults falling in love won't be an issue either.

Also Bondita hiding her identity will also build up an interesting plot. The revelation track, Anirudh's reaction, Kaka's reaction, a lot can be shown.


PS: I only follow the episodes. I don't follow any of behind the scenes stuffs or news articles so I don't know if this has been discussed or not.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Ani knows that is bon and I personally prefer it that way. The whole trope of I don't know who u are but I am in love with you is so cliched and unrealistic. People who are in love are in love with everything of a person and if u fall in love with someone else's identitiy and later find out who that person actually is, is really shallow . Love isn't just about looks it's someone's personality. So if a person chooses to hide their identity it is not love cuz it is not who they are.

About the reciprocation being weird I don't personally think so bon is matured and an adult. Ani is not romancing with a 12 year old nor did he stay with her for the past 8 years so it Is not inappropriate . As I had said that it is more like meeting an old frnd after a long time and then having a relationship with them. Does that mean you are thinking about romancing their childhood self? Obviously no. Relationships and their dynamics change and it is what it is.

However I respect your opinion.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shirin04

Ani knows that is bon and I personally prefer it that way. The whole trope of I don't know who u are but I am in love with you is so cliched and unrealistic. People who are in love are in love with everything of a person and if u fall in love with someone else's identitiy and later find out who that person actually is, is really shallow . Love isn't just about looks it's someone's personality. So if a person chooses to hide their identity it is not love cuz it is not who they are.

About the reciprocation being weird I don't personally think so bon is matured and an adult. Ani is not romancing with a 12 year old nor did he stay with her for the past 8 years so it Is not inappropriate . As I had said that it is more like meeting an old frnd after a long time and then having a relationship with them. Does that mean you are thinking about romancing their childhood self? Obviously no. Relationships and their dynamics change and it is what it is.

However I respect your opinion.

I agree with the trope being cliche. But hiding their identity doesn't mean someone is hiding their personality though. Just the name. Their actions, reactions and way of approach to situations stays just the same. I also think its a bit essential at this point. Anirudh wouldn't willingly tell Bondita about the past incidents. She has to find it out on her own. So having a hidden identity will help her in her mission.


Yeah about feelings being reciprocated it really varies on how people see it. It's very normal to a lot of people and I see how it is. Like you explained, how you see it. But for me @bold I would consider it so if they would have been classmates. But since Anirudh groomed her childhood (in a positive way, for the better) but it somehow makes things weird for me to accept him reciprocating her feelings. There were a lot of tracks especially Bondta's bed wetting track and Anirudh helping her with it. These makes things difficult.


Anyway, I don't mind them actually falling for each other. But I would prefer if they take it the fake identity way. Just for my peace of mind lol

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: made-in-charms

I agree with the trope being cliche. But hiding their identity doesn't mean someone is hiding their personality though. Just the name. Their actions, reactions and way of approach to situations stays just the same. I also think its a bit essential at this point. Anirudh wouldn't willingly tell Bondita about the past incidents. She has to find it out on her own. So having a hidden identity will help her in her mission.


Yeah about feelings being reciprocated it really varies on how people see it. It's very normal to a lot of people and I see how it is. Like you explained, how you see it. But for me @bold I would consider it so if they would have been classmates. But since Anirudh groomed her childhood (in a positive way, for the better) but it somehow makes things weird for me to accept him reciprocating her feelings. There were a lot of tracks especially Bondta's bed wetting track and Anirudh helping her with it. These makes things difficult.


Anyway, I don't mind them actually falling for each other. But I would prefer if they take it the fake identity way. Just for my peace of mind lol

lol i get what you mean but honestly i want social issues to be at the focal point with the romance being a part of the story.i dont want their love story to be some over complicated story becuase then the social issues wont be highlighted and we would just get montages of them crying with sad bgm playing
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Originally posted by: shirin04

lol i get what you mean but honestly i want social issues to be at the focal point with the romance being a part of the story.i dont want their love story to be some over complicated story becuase then the social issues wont be highlighted and we would just get montages of them crying with sad bgm playing

Guys the way I am seeing si that ani always gives such soft and melting expressions

With choti Bon he gave more than this but we liked it why because we used to go gaga over it as in starting we saw bon and ani had a rocky relationship - he used to scoped ehr and she used to call him rakshas babu

We wanted him to be caring for her

Agar aura hoti u would have loved it as we are used to those special moments that gave us tears he it their first hug , ani smiling and staring at bon remember the scene when in shubra trcak taala and chabhi scene came -

Ani was adoring bon when she said main Ed where ke vaak nahi li he was seeing his choti boj has grown up and embraced her identity

Seeing bon like this confident young girl is itself an achievement for ani whose life and innoncenxe was curbed in childhood -remember ani always knew what wounds bon are getting in her childhood and she was unaware as she was a happy go lucky child

From bon side -remembering ani is showing how much she respects this man who due to his selfless nature did a lot for her

We are seeing Aanchal today and that is why we thought ki scene romantic

Ani always have those expressions and Aanchal is showing how much bon is happy-people bashing this scene saying bon ne isliye kiya as she wanted to romance (disgusting)

See both of them as perception likes in eyes

I want this scene to be memorable as it is clsoeure to the journey of ani finally seeing his nee i ki vajah his masoom

Bon is healed completely and is not lost or clueless or curbed under expectations if relations and elders

Seeing bon she is happy to see his shikshak and sakha babu and must be elevated

Today she wants to thank the man who gave her life and made her like this ,never left her alone when she needed support in her life ,she must be thinking kaash jaisi main aaj hoo kash bachpan mein hoti - toh main sambhalti khud ko but then she felt good ani made her good individual and moreover gave her childhood ,her growing age back

Back then she was always crying why ani broke marriage but studying and realising after that -she herself said he freed me himself form child marriage so koi child marriage ka effects nahi hai

She was crying when she got degree and remembered ani -ani kya proud nahi hoga when he will see the real bon who was suffocating inside social evils in her childhood is now capable to fight for herself and others and show the world now she is no longer dependent on anyone , do u know when there is a person who was so innoncent in ehr childhood given support unconditionally by another person ,that person will be proud to see his girl so happy

Bon ke expressions afeelings bahut mature hai she would never disrespect ani by fantasising over him or expecting anything from him

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: shirin04

lol i get what you mean but honestly i want social issues to be at the focal point with the romance being a part of the story.i dont want their love story to be some over complicated story becuase then the social issues wont be highlighted and we would just get montages of them crying with sad bgm playing

@bold 🤣 I agree let's hope BB doesn't turn out to be one of those shows. Those reunion-third angle-misunderstanding-separation-reunion is a never ending cycle. A lot of social issues can be highlighted especially because the theme concerns Indian Law. Hoping, BB manages to highlight the relevant issues of those times.

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