SAAKK|Episode Discussion Thread #74 - Page 48

Originally posted by: Tashaf_arshi

Haaa khana khate time camera wale bhaiyya zoom kar ke video bhi lete hai🤣🤣

By god maine ek Shaadi attend kia tha usme Mera Paani Puri khaate hue pic click kia hai and vho unke wedding album Mai bhi hai😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ye incident Yaad aaya mujhe

Originally posted by: pj10

Anokhi does not need to be submissive nor does she need to stop supporting the right thing. She just needs to do it with slightly more diplomacy and start listening. But then she is young and has no experience living in joint family where everyone can have different motivations and soch. She will learn and Shaurya is there to help her.

Good news is both of them know and understand what their partner’s desires are and what they need to change. For Shaurya, he needs to continue working in his soch and he needs to set Anokhi free when it comes to her career. For Anokhi, she needs to learn to partner and communicate/listen better and never give up on Shaurya. Everything else is negotiable and will sort itself with time.

Exactly my point! She needs to learn to listen to others. My problem is neither she realises that nor anybody tells her that. Shaurya is mad in love n he is like she doesn't need to change anything

Originally posted by: pj10

I have very mixed feelings about today's episode. A lot happened in the episode but in a subtle way that set up the storyline for next phase of the story. I trust the CVs and the show because they have not disappointed us so far by maintaining pace and keeping the show realistic. However they have to carefully balance all elements of the show on an ongoing basis now because it would not take much for the show to become run of the mill saas bahu show and lose its essence.

I cannot believe the nerve of Tejvi- Devi set out to incite Shaurya against his newly wed wife merely seconds after the wedding ceremony was done. I am glad Shaurya continued to support his wife and her ambitions. The worst was them plotting to break the couple up in the wedding hall like they did with Shastha. They ruined Shaan's life and he spent 25 years drowning in alcohol and self pity. They have to know Shaurya loves Anokhi as deeply as Shaan did Astha and he will probably end up broken too. They still want to risk a broken Shaurya despite their so called love for their foster son is incomprehensible to me.

"Ms Bhalla se Mrs Sabarwal banne ka safar bahut lamba ha aur usme bahut kante hai" Tej was not wrong but the bigger question is does Anokhi want to be Mrs Sabharwal or the matriarch of the family in next generation and follow Devi's footsteps or does she want to stay Mrs Shaurya Sabharwal and usher an era of changes in Sabharwal family. My guess is it is latter. I am not surprised at their reaction though, they have maintained ironhold on the Sab family by quashing any voice of dissent amongst the family members ruthlessly. The fact that they have to bear the addition of a nobody like Anokhi to their prestigious family because their foster son and only heir to Sab family fortune is completely whipped for her has to rankle. He has been openly opposing them since he fell in love and they are unable to do anything about it because they need him.

I found it odd that Anokhi was asked to choose where she wanted to live. Was Shaurya really willing to move out of SM if Anokhi chose Shaan's flat and would rest of the family allow that? There was no good answer to the question- if she chose flat, she would be accused to breaking Shaurya away from his family, if she chose SM, not only will she enter a hostile environment to live in, her choice could easily be misinterpreted as her desire to live in riches and luxury that SM has. I guess they wanted to show that Anokhi chose SM to live in because she knew that is what Shaurya would have wanted. In future if they do move out of SM, it would not be Anokhi who broke the family.

I was disappointed in Shaurya and Shaan today. Shaan keeps insisting that Astha come back to Sabharwal house, does he not understand that she is not comfortable there? I am surprised Shaurya did not speak up even once for Astha while Anokhi rushed into it. Anokhi is making the same mistake yet once again- making assumptions and reacting without knowing the facts or understanding the undercurrents. In many household the eldest or the youngest DIL does the grih-parvesh ceremony so it would have been Devi or Kanchan's right. Without knowing how things work in Sab family, it was impulsive for Anokhi to make requests. All she is doing is riling Tejvi and giving them more reasons to hate her. Shaurya would have been the right person to intervene.

The way I see it, there are tons of reasons for the couple to have conflicts as people around them continue to heighten their insecurities and fears.

Anokhi is flawed in the way that she too self righteous and she mistakes her pride as self-respect and balancing act as compromise. She also tends to choose courage over diplomacy and is over-indexed on her education/career. A career and education can give women confidence, knowledge and means to be independent so that she can have a voice and a will but it is not a magic wand that solves all problems. She still will have to compromise and deal with issues in her relationships. I also feel she was not ready for marriage that Shaurya thrust on her because she has given no thought to how her life would change after marriage and how she is going to balance her different roles- she is now a student, a wife, DIL of Sab family and part of SIAC management by being Shaurya's wife.

Shaurya has changed his soch and feels secure in Anokhi's love but I am curious to see what is his breaking point is when and if all his insecurities come back in full form. At what point he starts to feel frustrated that he is being taken for granted by Anokhi or that he is not getting the support that he needs because she she is being too stubborn. Also having kids could be a point of contention for them. Shaurya would want to settle in his family life while Anokhi is too young and focused on her career

I am ready for whatever they dish out as long as the show maintains their essence and uniqueness and continue to sprinkle it with heaps of romance and tight dialogues.

Yes! I'm going to keep trusting the CVs too. They've been unique in their approach and have kept the pace fast, so I'm hoping that stays true.

Tejvi are disgusting. They would rather have a broken man that stays in their house they can rule over than a happy son. I'm sooo turned off by Devi's mamta.

A great point about Shaurya's insecurities. So far Devi has been unsuccessful, but in the future after many examples, will Shaurya play into her hands?....we'll wait and see. I'm curious to see what the upcoming storylines will be.

Originally posted by: Mona_988

Sabh itana real hai😂😂

ghar ki shaadi wali vibes...

Alok chachu behaving like arrogant uncle in the wedding jinko har cheez se prob hoti hai 🤣🤣🤣

My sister's wedding there was a old uncle who made a big deal over mattress and place to sleep.

same way how Alok doing

Originally posted by: md410

My sister's wedding there was a old uncle who made a big deal over mattress and place to sleep.

same way how Alok doing

My father didn't get a mattress to sleep on in his own wedding, he had to sleep on a mat on the floor and he still taunts my mom about it, in a fun way though🤣

Originally posted by: IFLove

My father didn't get a mattress to sleep on in his own wedding, he had to sleep on a mat on the floor and he still taunts my mom about it, in a fun way though🤣

more than groom and his immediate family, extended family members make big deal for small and petty things.

Originally posted by: IFLove

My father didn't get a mattress to sleep on in his own wedding, he had to sleep on a mat on the floor and he still taunts my mom about it, in a fun way though🤣

Wait did they make them sleep in 2 different places after they were married??😆

Originally posted by: pj10

I have very mixed feelings about today's episode. A lot happened in the episode but in a subtle way that set up the storyline for next phase of the story. I trust the CVs and the show because they have not disappointed us so far by maintaining pace and keeping the show realistic. However they have to carefully balance all elements of the show on an ongoing basis now because it would not take much for the show to become run of the mill saas bahu show and lose its essence.

I cannot believe the nerve of Tejvi- Devi set out to incite Shaurya against his newly wed wife merely seconds after the wedding ceremony was done. I am glad Shaurya continued to support his wife and her ambitions. The worst was them plotting to break the couple up in the wedding hall like they did with Shastha. They ruined Shaan's life and he spent 25 years drowning in alcohol and self pity. They have to know Shaurya loves Anokhi as deeply as Shaan did Astha and he will probably end up broken too. They still want to risk a broken Shaurya despite their so called love for their foster son is incomprehensible to me.

"Ms Bhalla se Mrs Sabarwal banne ka safar bahut lamba ha aur usme bahut kante hai" Tej was not wrong but the bigger question is does Anokhi want to be Mrs Sabharwal or the matriarch of the family in next generation and follow Devi's footsteps or does she want to stay Mrs Shaurya Sabharwal and usher an era of changes in Sabharwal family. My guess is it is latter. I am not surprised at their reaction though, they have maintained ironhold on the Sab family by quashing any voice of dissent amongst the family members ruthlessly. The fact that they have to bear the addition of a nobody like Anokhi to their prestigious family because their foster son and only heir to Sab family fortune is completely whipped for her has to rankle. He has been openly opposing them since he fell in love and they are unable to do anything about it because they need him.

I found it odd that Anokhi was asked to choose where she wanted to live. Was Shaurya really willing to move out of SM if Anokhi chose Shaan's flat and would rest of the family allow that? There was no good answer to the question- if she chose flat, she would be accused to breaking Shaurya away from his family, if she chose SM, not only will she enter a hostile environment to live in, her choice could easily be misinterpreted as her desire to live in riches and luxury that SM has. I guess they wanted to show that Anokhi chose SM to live in because she knew that is what Shaurya would have wanted. In future if they do move out of SM, it would not be Anokhi who broke the family.

I was disappointed in Shaurya and Shaan today. Shaan keeps insisting that Astha come back to Sabharwal house, does he not understand that she is not comfortable there? I am surprised Shaurya did not speak up even once for Astha while Anokhi rushed into it. Anokhi is making the same mistake yet once again- making assumptions and reacting without knowing the facts or understanding the undercurrents. In many household the eldest or the youngest DIL does the grih-parvesh ceremony so it would have been Devi or Kanchan's right. Without knowing how things work in Sab family, it was impulsive for Anokhi to make requests. All she is doing is riling Tejvi and giving them more reasons to hate her. Shaurya would have been the right person to intervene.

The way I see it, there are tons of reasons for the couple to have conflicts as people around them continue to heighten their insecurities and fears.

Anokhi is flawed in the way that she too self righteous and she mistakes her pride as self-respect and balancing act as compromise. She also tends to choose courage over diplomacy and is over-indexed on her education/career. A career and education can give women confidence, knowledge and means to be independent so that she can have a voice and a will but it is not a magic wand that solves all problems. She still will have to compromise and deal with issues in her relationships. I also feel she was not ready for marriage that Shaurya thrust on her because she has given no thought to how her life would change after marriage and how she is going to balance her different roles- she is now a student, a wife, DIL of Sab family and part of SIAC management by being Shaurya's wife.

Shaurya has changed his soch and feels secure in Anokhi's love but I am curious to see what is his breaking point is when and if all his insecurities come back in full form. At what point he starts to feel frustrated that he is being taken for granted by Anokhi or that he is not getting the support that he needs because she she is being too stubborn. Also having kids could be a point of contention for them. Shaurya would want to settle in his family life while Anokhi is too young and focused on her career

I am ready for whatever they dish out as long as the show maintains their essence and uniqueness and continue to sprinkle it with heaps of romance and tight dialogues.

I agree with all your points. I said in one of the other post earlier that there is nothing wrong with being outspoken, taking stand but one needs to read the situation. Right words spoken at wrong time can cause more damage doesn’t matter if you are in sasural/mayka or if you are bahu/beta. Anokhi knows that Tejvi doesn’t like her and haven’t accepted her with whole heart so she needs to tackle the situation diplomatically.

I live in joint family and one could compare living in joint family is like working in corporate. You can be best at your job but it’s not smart to point out everyone’s flaw and try to fix all the problems on your first day at work. Likewise in new family it’s in Anokhi’s best interest to feel the situation before introducing any changes. I don’t think she is aware that Tejvi, Alok, Betty and shagun are waiting for her to be rattled up so they can hit on her weak spot. And shaurya will support her but he will also have breaking point.

But I think some things are learnt with time and experience. I feel this track is introduced for Shaan/astha remarriage.

Originally posted by: mallukumari

Wait did they make them sleep in 2 different places after they were married??😆

No baba😆

So typically our wedding function starts on the eve of the wedding day. We don't have midnight functions, so a part of the function happens in the evening, we get to sleep through the night and the wedding rituals happen the next day till the lunch time. So that night before the wedding you spend with your family n friends in the banquet hall itself. Back in those days, there wouldn't be separate rooms for everybody, there would be common halls with number of mattresses n people would sleep together there. So extra friends turned up n my dad, being a good host, had to give away his mattress to one of them n he had to sleep on the floor😆 And the ladkiwale had no idea about it as he didn't want to bother them. Only after the wedding was over he told my mom n on every eve of their wedding anniversary now he jokes about it ki ladkiwalo ne Shaadi k pehle din se hi damaad Ki Kabhi koi khatirdari nai ki😆

Originally posted by: IFLove

Exactly my point! She needs to learn to listen to others. My problem is neither she realises that nor anybody tells her that. Shaurya is mad in love n he is like she doesn't need to change anything

In past shaurya have said to her that she doesn’t listen to him and says what she needs to say and leave. But I’m sure it will resurface again.
Anokhi does need to work on her listening skills. Also it’s good to be stubborn about your career, education, taking stand for herself but line has to be drawn somewhere. Sometimes you have to meet other person half way and there is nothing wrong in that. She needs to be diplomatic when she deals with Tejvi.

There are things we can bluntly tell our friends, spouse, siblings but many times when we are speaking to elders, one needs to learn how to communicate effectively without getting offensive. Most of the times elders don’t like to be criticized and their ego won’t let them commit they are wrong, so in such cases you have to be patient and be strategic in your approach.