Why sai needs to take oath?? - Page 6

We cannot compare Sai and Virat’s pain and their struggles and decide whose pain is bigger . They both have their challenges and struggles .I don’t deny Sai is having a tough time but It’s not easy to be in Virat’s position either where everyday he needs to choose between his wife and family and endure all the abuses his families throws at him . Today his dad is against him but in past his dad was his confidant . We have seen him go to his dad for his advise whenever he was in a dilemma but today he has lost his dad though he is physically present . He was once the apple of everyone eyes but today he is looked down by the same family members. People go around asking what has he done to Sai ? He has stood up for his deal wife against his family members and was ready to leave his family for her .

How can we forget the amount of guilt , helplessness that’s buried inside Virat for losing his mentor Kamal Joshi and him being the reason (that’s what he believes) . We have seen a glimpse of that come out during the mission track where he shouts his mentor’s name while saving his team member .

Originally posted by: Momrin

Exactly this what i want to say..she behaves she don’t know virat starts have feelings for her what doesn’t makes sense at all..she herself enjoying their new found attraction and love to each other..she should explain clearly to virat what is house members doing to her rather than doing those nok jhok all the time..they should talk face to face abt pakhi and sai's constant abuse..

Originally posted by: Momrin

She bhave as if none of them affect her and she can stay the same house with them..if they are affecting her so bad she should tell Virat that living in this house with them with constant abusing affecting her daily life and study so he should give a solution or let her go to her own way rather than showing useless husband ka haq on her..their are certain ways to do things but here i feel the way makers handling her character now don’t really match what she used to be..

Yes but she used to try to be "unaffected" by them but obviously thats not possible because shes human and she lives with them!

And yes ideally she should tell Virat or Virat himself should see how bad things are. But if they did what you mentioned it would become too "realistic" and "logical"for itv. 😂They only want ott drama and in this case they also are doing blind copy paste of dialogues from KD even if they add no value to things.

If Sai believes Virat doesn’t love or his support and affection is not out of love then she should move out of CN now that she is financially independent instead of sending mixed signals . If she doesn’t believe he loves her then why is she is enjoying his advances and why did she stay back when he stopped her ?

Sai appreciates Virat for all the things he has done to her and knows he stand by her like a rock . He has cleared the Vaada thing , the only reason she might not accept her feelings is because of her insecurities and her assumptions. It’s high time we stop blaming Virat for everything to justify our favorite character .

Originally posted by: Momrin

Exactly this what i want to say..she behaves she don’t know virat starts have feelings for her what doesn’t makes sense at all..she herself enjoying their new found attraction and love to each other..she should explain clearly to virat what is house members doing to her rather than doing those nok jhok all the time..they should talk face to face abt pakhi and sai's constant abuse..

She doesn't behave like she does not know Virat has changed. She knows and she is coming to terms with her own changing feelings too. Infact thats exactly what makes her confused and insecure. On the one hand she senses that their dynamic is evolving everyday for many many days now but then she gets a reality check when she suddenly overheard virat-pp pool conversation. And suddenly she recalled that she had a "deal marriage" and she was all muddled up again. She even asked herself why she is hurt/angry when she kinda already knew all that she heard. Because hearing it at that juncture shook her up. It suddenly made her question her place in virats life. What pp and CN are doing is there for Virat also to see. Even in front of him they have often been extremely abusive to Sai but he still only thinks that the Sai-CN and Sai pp relationship is just some disagreement and nok jhok and has not recognized it as abuse. And I'm not sure Sai has recognized it as "abuse" herself either. She has accepted what Virat said that they are "dil ke acche" and she talks back but she comes back day after day burying the hatchet, letting things go. At this point because she actually cares so much for Virat she actually craves to be accepted by his family too. Obviously agar yeh real life hota toh she would have either stormed out or filed a harassment case.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am sorry but neither does a few audience nor Sai will be able to understand Virat's moves as love. Because if someone loves them, they would think twice before removing them from their house and family. It has not been too long for Sai to forget that she was the same person whom Virat had thrown away from his life in the middle of the night. It has not been too long that she was let down by him even when some of her claims against Pakhi was true. If the important actions of the guy speaks for Pakhi and unimportant actions such as romance alone speaks for Sai, not sure if she is supposed to see that as love. As is, she is not able to understand her feelings, understanding his feelings as love looks ridiculous to audience, don't know what she should be perceiving it as . If only he had acted as a guy truly in love.

Will anyone believe sai really respect or had feeling 4 virat when she has insulted him many times , played with his trust , questioned his character infront of whole family , never accept her faults or latest giving away her relationship just 4 a random person. Forget love if someone really respect someone or have little bit feelings for d person will think twice before doing such stuffs. If virat starts holding these things then sairat will be over .

I m asking this coz I had seen people ranting it to vankar ji why sai always get scot free & virat always get blamed .

Even I had ranted to vankar ji to save sai from virat by sending virat away from her life forever & sai will free from virat & Cgang.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Will anyone believe sai really respect or had feeling 4 virat when she has insulted him many times , played with his trust , questioned his character infront of whole family , never accept her faults or latest giving away her relationship just 4 a random person. Forget love if someone really respect someone or have little bit feelings for d person will think twice before doing such stuffs. If virat starts holding these things then sairat will be over .

I m asking this coz I had seen people ranting it to vankar ji why sai always get scot free & virat always get blamed .

Even I had ranted to vankar ji to save sai from virat by sending virat away from her life forever & sai will free from virat & Cgang.

Firstly Virat only wants love, he keeps quiet when he doesn't want Sai to leave him and go. Sairat is not over because he wants it and also because Sai too wants it. His anger, his emotions comes out when things aren't going in his favour or to his liking. He will be nice or adjustable or let go of her mistakes when things have been smooth between them and he wants it to be smooth. Once he gets insecured, starts to feel unimportant in Sai's life, even a small mistake like not applying Alta would be made a big issue by him.

She never questioned his character, I have already written a post about it and not willing to go through the same discussion again. She made a mistake of hiding the truth of Devi's marriage. At that time, Devi's life seemed more important to her because she knew to what level the family can stoop to (kidnapping). Her feelings for Virat was not as strong as it is now ever since he got shot.

The way I see it, if things proceed this way, even if Sai has made mistakes in the past, and now that she has started to develop feelings for him, it is going to be a love that will be taken for granted by him.

One more important thing. Sai has spoken in words today but Virat had actually been doing it time and again. She is giving up her rights as a wife is only spoken by her through her mouth which she doesn't mean and which she can never follow. Virat will speak big words like she is his family, she is whom he loves and doesn't show them in actions. I am sorry but just hearing Sai speak is so disturbing then many of us are watching Virat actually doing it many times and that is why it is even more disturbing. Ironically, he wouldn't give up his right as a husband because he wants Sai but he couldn't act as a husband when it was needed.

Nowhere in all this is Virat getting "blamed". Atleast I can speak for myself and say that my posts are certainly not blaming Virat but pointing out what Sais pov is. This thread started as "why Sai took such a step to declare that she is giving up her rights/claim etc. "

And I think thats because she is lost in the flow of her emotions. She is breaking down and so she is just saying things she doesn't mean. If she truly didnt care about Virat she would never have come back, she wouldnt be applying hot compress, messaging to xheck if he took his meds and going to his hospital appointments even when she was upset with him, she has unknowingly accepted the marriage and she felt like he had too which is why she was so shaken to be reminded of the virat-pp relationship after overhearing their conversation. And she was happy to see him stop her as a husband and say that he has haq on her and is definitely trying to move forward with him. Thats why she made breakfast, told him to call her once a day - its so she knows hes safe. So they are moving forward. But everyday pp, CN do some new drama which all stems from them not wanting her in Virats life. So that keeps pushing her back in all progress that she makes with Virat.

None of that amounts to Virat blame.

So whats the problem with people presenting Sai's pov and trying to dissect out the OTT drama and put forth her pov.

Is Sai always right- NO. Does she make mistakes YES But do I always see her POV and empathize with her- YES!

I try to do the same for Virat too and i think 60-70% of the time I do see his pov and empathize but sometimes the things they make Virat do/NOT do (acts of omission and commission) are so glaring that its tough. They make the magnitude of his mistakes so big that they pale in front of what Sai does and are plain cruel and its hard to ignore. and they often make him inconsistent too. Thats just due to poor writing though.

Also there are some "higher" expectations of Virat because he is much farther along in the realization of his feelings compared to Sai. He has already realized he is in love whereas Sai has not.

Originally posted by: laksh

Firstly Virat only wants love, he keeps quiet when he doesn't want Sai to leave him and go. Sairat is not over because he wants it and also because Sai too wants it. His true colours and emotions comes out when things aren't going in his favour or to his liking. He will be nice or adjustable or let go of her mistakes when things have been smooth between them and he wants it to be smooth. Once he gets insecured, starts to feel unimportant in Sai's life, even a small mistake like not applying Alta would be made a big issue by him.

She never questioned his character, I have already written a post about it and not willing to go through the same discussion again. She made a mistake of hiding the truth of Devi's marriage. At that time, Devi's life seemed more important to her because she knew to what level the family can stoop to (kidnapping). Her feelings for Virat was not as strong as it is now ever since he got shot.

The way I see it, if things proceed this way, even if Sai has made mistakes in the past, and now that she has started to develop feelings for him, it is going to be a love that will be taken for granted by him.

One more important thing. Sai has spoken in words today but Virat had actually been doing it time and again. She is giving up her rights as a wife is only spoken by her through her mouth which she doesn't mean and which she can never follow. Virat will speak big words like she is his family, she is whom he loves and doesn't show them in actions. I am sorry but just hearing Sai speak is so disturbing then many of us are watching Virat actually doing it many times and that is why it is even more disturbing. Ironically, he wouldn't give up his right as a husband because he wants Sai but he couldn't act as a husband when it was needed.

Bang On.. SHe spoke about it when she is ridiculed for being his wife on a daily basis. Ridiculed for his changing behaviour. Ridiculed for doing kaala jaadu on him..Ridiculed for being a wife to him...WHile he gives up his right when she makes a mistake as per him without investigating about it and throws her out of the house.

When did Virat repeatedly give up his rights as her husband to please Pakhi? If we are talking about Pulkit drama then he didn't do that to please Pakhu but out of anger he broke their relationship and did not give up his rights and still stayed with her as her husband. There is a difference. Let's not forget Sai broke his trust and betrayed him by going behind his back whatever maybe the reason the fact doesn't change that she broke his trust when he had promised to investigate and he has the right to end his relationship with Sai because of it. Let Sai break her relationship with Virat in his presence rather than giving up on rights and not letting him know about it. The mistake he made was throwing her out and no one is justifying that act.