Episode Spoiler - 22 June 2021 - Page 10

constipated face in one hell of a selfish person .....and I hate her screeching voice....I didn't like sunny from the moment he entered this serial so m fine.....

I want sunny to show is true colors and that too should be witnessed by constipated face herself .....noone else needs to get involved

raghav has gone insane😲 who fixes wedding without even having a proper talk...but raam milaye Jodi hai.....

No way Raghav has agreed to this, just like Raghav found out about the relationship via smelling the perfume, Raghav has laid this trap down, He know his sister is being stupid right now, to in love and stupid to listern. Pallavi plan will flop but Raghav will suceed. Raghav needs full proof other Keerti will not believe, so this is a plan of R.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

We're all rooting for it to be a plan and for Raghav to actually be smart in this scenario. I'd personally be over the moon if this was a joint plan, because then this would be a fantastic approach to this problem, that lets both Raghav and Pallavi play their strengths...but I won't be too surprised at all if he's genuinely handling this poorly because his dimaag truly goes off on vacation when it comes to his family.

The dialogue about 'doing something major' does give me hope, because well, if not this, then what was the 'major' thing...giving Sunny a chance? Doesn't sound convincing.

I agree with you. Although it doesn’t look like it’s any plan and he is just on another emotional ride, I am just keeping my fingers crossed on that last scene yesterday where Raghav and Pallavi had a talk that we will work it together and the scene was left with both looking at each other. How I wish we get a flashback later where they had actually planned this out there but it still doesn’t justify his outburst at Pallavi.

Raghav and pallavi are typical itv leads. Ml will keep making mistakes, hurt the fl.. ask for forgiveness and then be forgiven.. fl will still do everything for the family.. again the cycle will repeat.. the only anomaly was raghav got a redemption arc.. but otherwise raghav is never going to learn. The flaws will remain flaws till the show is over cuz this is the standard template to generate drama. Honestly am bored of raghav committing mistakes and saying sorry..

Originally posted by: Diya2021

I agree with you. Although it doesn’t look like it’s any plan and he is just on another emotional ride, I am just keeping my fingers crossed on that last scene yesterday where Raghav and Pallavi had a talk that we will work it together and the scene was left with both looking at each other. How I wish we get a flashback later where they had actually planned this out there but it still doesn’t justify his outburst at Pallavi.

I'd love for this to be their plan. If it's not something they're in on together, then whether he's truly fallen for this BS or it's his akele ka plan, either way, unfair to make his wife's emotions collateral damage in the process.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I'd love for this to be their plan. If it's not something they're in on together, then whether he's truly fallen for this BS or it's his akele ka plan, either way, unfair to make his wife's emotions collateral damage in the process.

I dont think its a plan cuz his scenes with farhad tell otherwise..

Originally posted by: meghumonu

That is what I am saying also!! The words are not just angry outburst but it came straight from his heart!! Pallavi has fully accepted her love for him and already consider him a part of her life and his family as her own family and jataos haq!! But for Raghav the love is there but he is still hesitant to express or accept his own feelings or let pallavi into his heart and accept her as a part of his own family!! He was always a guy with trust issues from the start and not to mention he was a loner for over a decade where he allowed no one in his heart or his personal space!! Now suddenly Pallavi who hated some months ago is not only his wife but he is feeling love for her also and he is letting his guard down!! His heart and brain is waging war against each other!! In his mind he still do not trust Pallavi completely and that is why he do not share everything with Pallavi or did not want Pallavi to interfere in his family matters.

I don't think it's a question of mistrusting her, but rather learning to rely on her as his partner. As you said, he's been a loner and taken all decisions himself. He's also an employer, heading his successful business, so used to planning alone and deciding things as per his convenience and ideas. Farhad is the only one who he actually opens up to on serious matters, still. At least, he told him what he was planning to do by asking Sunny to live with them.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think it's a question of mistrusting her, but rather learning to rely on her as his partner. As you said, he's been a loner and taken all decisions himself. He's also an employer, heading his successful business, so used to planning alone and deciding things as per his convenience and ideas. Farhad is the only one who he actually opens up to on serious matters, still. At least, he told him what he was planning to do by asking Sunny to live with them.

He was planning to make that khajur a ghar jamai!! 😝😝

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Quoting just parts for the sake of ease.

I liked the open mindedness about divorce too, but it's weird to speak of it as an equally likely outcome for the marriage. Like if a divorce seems like a 50/50 chance, I'd say hold off on the wedding prep. Might as well let them live together till they figure it out then 🤷🏻‍♀️The idea of an exploratory marriage is kind of funny. LOL, his Amma's condition has really screwed with his head about acceptable and unacceptable reasons to get married.

In the same scene though, there's been significant backlash for him saying he married Pallavi for Jaya. I think all that backlash has been unwarranted- that's just the objective truth. He shouldn't say it to Pallavi, but no matter why they're choosing to uphold the marriage, it doesn't change the past. He did marry her solely for Jaya's condition.

I really liked the Sunny/Naidu scene. Definitely, there's more to his background, because that attitude reeked of privilege. Also, it is consistent with his background- it's the typical rich Delhi boy, where the very next sentence from his mouth would be, "Tu jaanta hai mera baap kaun hai?"

I didn't see anything wrong with him talking about his reason for marrying. He's not one to sugar coat things and he's not going to beat around the bush either. I just think that by making decisions on Keerti's behalf, i.e. Sunny not being good boy is no big deal, they can get divorced, he may not be aligned with what she wants. The exploratory marriage term is funny but isn't that kind of what the live-in would achieve? Raghav doesn't seem to be fixated on that per se, it's more about safeguarding Keerti's interests.

She's looking for an anchor in Sunny. Yes, she's blinded by her emotions right now but her desire to have a happy home is something we can all understand. Raghav is being practical but until Keerti sees it for herself, everyone's efforts will not lead anywhere. She is just like Raghav, as only he can decide to think things through, no matter how much others around him yell, scream, or scold him.

Re: Sunny being a typical rich Delhi boy is what I expect because the only way he'd have that much confidence in going up against Raghav is if he's got money and probably power to back him at some point. Living as a tattoo artist might be his way out of a life of suffocation he didn't like either, which is why he was able to prey on Keerti easily. Let's see what they come up with for his backstory.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I thought a bit more about why I wasn't too up in arms about the lashing out at her last week, but it made me furious today, and the general change in context is what it is. He's being hypocritical, and I don't like it.

Why was he upset last week? Because she knew about SunKi and chose not to share it with him, because it was not her place to. So, last week, he wanted her to insert herself in family issues. Today, he was upset that she's speaking in the matter, despite himself explicitly asking her to do so?? Why, because she doesn't agree with his approach? Seems like he wanted a yes-man from her more than a partner. Either she is family, which gives her a right to an opinion and the right to express it, or she's not- he can't have his cake and eat it too.

Also, the comment about family, ugh, it's not something anyone should ever say to their spouse- I am remembering his own past claim, ki shaadi ke baad my house and family are yours so yours is mine as well. But it felt exceptionally cold and below the belt in light of, "Main apni family ko chhodkar tumhe choose kar rahi hoon." Since that moment, she's been all in as far as her rights and responsibilities as a wife, a daughter-in-law and a sister-in-law go. Pallavi's been here before, and I don't want her to have to experience it again, where she's giving it her all, but still made to feel inadequate.

She put it aside in that moment, and chose to respond rather than sulk, which I love about her, but it was evident she was hurt. Raghav's regret was visible too, but slip-ups like this are going to add up in an extremely painful way, and har baar bol ke regret karna doesn't cut it. He said it because that's what he feels, it came out because of heightened emotions. I feel he's happy to give her rights as his wife, his excitement over her showing haq on him was genuine, but her contradicting him while exerting her haq as a SIL/DIL doesn't work for him, because he's carried the burden of caring for Jaya and Kirti alone all these years, despite fierce opposition from them. He doesn't know how or where to fit her in this very messed up dynamic. Till she's on his side, he appreciates having a partner, but when she's not, he just wants to bulldoze her protests like he's bulldozed Jaya's and Kirti's in the past.

He's certainly allowed to take time to no longer feel this way, but he can't make these statements. Kabhi kabhi zabaan pe lagaam lagani padti hai. She can't, and absolutely shouldn't keep letting it go.

With his mother and sister, I agree that he needs to stop putting them above himself all the damn time. With Jaya, a few steps have been taken in the right direction, and yes, they all would benefit from professional therapy, but aaj toh mujhe Kirti ka gussa bhi utna hi conditional laga jitna uska pyaar laga. Didn't she say she'll never forgive Raghav for killing Arjun and their dad? But if he supports SunKi, she'll get over it? After today, I feel even more certain about what I was saying yesterday- Raghav and Kirti's relationship has to be burnt down to ashes and rebuilt if it's going to have even the semblance of a healthy dynamic. I'm all for Kirti burning it down, and Raghav letting her for once, instead of trying to grasp onto scraps from her. Just like it has done wonders for Pallavi to be free of the hold Vijay had over her, letting go of this burden will do wonders for Raghav. He doesn't have to love or care for Jaya or Kirti any less, I doubt he could even if he tried, but maybe just realize that relationships cannot be one sided. Reciprocate what he's given whole heartedly, but let it be beyond that. He can't always safeguard Kirti, he's been doing it since episode 1, and it's only strained things more and more. Let her fall, and be there to help her back up if and when she needs/wants it.

Yes u r rite he was so rude and amazing thing is that he is not in an angry mode..this is wht he thinks about pallu hard core reality and this os the place of pallu in his life i kmow its painful..and it made me to make this post..their relationship needs time dear..and a trigger factor