Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#15 Doli Saja ke Rakhna - Page 25

Originally posted by: war_is_peace

🤣 jo apne bhai ki tarah fully trained hai (that's imp)

Or maybe I will contact Rajat and test him if he’s like Kartik in real life.. and patao him 🤣

I think this concept of marriage and raising children is very outdated. In future we will evolve and find a better system.

I don’t think it has to be romantic relationship to marry someone, homosexual or heterosexual. For sexual needs, you can find other partners. Emotionally if you can connect with someone and compatible you can live together as roommates and be emotional support for each other. You can even adopt or have kids(with anyone else) and raise with friend. Why does it have to be romantic partner?

I don’t know if I am able to explain well but what I mean is just separate romantic, sexual needs from permanant lifelong emotional partner with whom you can live. Even being heterosexual I can connect with a girl and want to live permanently with her for emotional reasons. We can even have kids. For sexual needs I can find other partners.

Originally posted by: ishqaan

Ok personal question, for anybody who wants/is comfortable to answer - What is the longest time you people took to kiss/get physical in a relationship? 😆

I'll answer this question after I get a guy😆

Poori teen life I have listened to angsty, boy bashing songs but phir bhi I have loved & vicariously lived romantic shows/ movies / books..

Main apne aap ko samajh nai pa Rahi.. yeh kya ho rhea hai.. mail Riya ki tarah confuse ho rahi hu 🤣

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I can totally connect with this. Though I am with same partner for 13 years now, it is not that soulmate type of love. In teenage, you have that feeling but then you grow up. I consider my marriage as compatible permanent roommates😆.

Wow ... my husband may not be my soulmate in that idealistic sense but he is someone who is genuinely nice and caring ... we do come from very different families but that is a compromise for both of us.

Not many guys were ok with my group of close friends (5 boys) ... most were not ok with me having career / life / independence... some were not ok with me being a bit traditional and religious. I remember when my husband came into picture, I was making slightly more $$ than him and was given an opportunity for an international assignment Living in Europe (my dream city) for part of the year ... Most guys would have had an inferiority complex about it but my hubby was not only ok n supportive about it ... to this day when I have to go for work abroad he joins me working his job remotely and traveling back/forth. No relationship is perfect but as long as there is mutual understanding, friendship, respect and love ... it is worth the effort.

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I think this concept of marriage and raising children is very outdated. In future we will evolve and find a better system.

I don’t think it has to be romantic relationship to marry someone, homosexual or heterosexual. For sexual needs, you can find other partners. Emotionally if you can connect with someone and compatible you can live together as roommates and be emotional support for each other. You can even adopt or have kids(with anyone else) and raise with friend. Why does it have to be romantic partner?

I don’t know if I am able to explain well but what I mean is just separate romantic, sexual needs from permanant lifelong emotional partner with whom you can live. Even being heterosexual I can connect with a girl and want to live permanently with her for emotional reasons. We can even have kids. For sexual needs I can find other partners.

My Family Law professor ( ironically ) said the exact same thing in one of her lectures. I just have one little query to this, what if one gets jealous and everything? Like what about the feeling of possesivness one feels for a person? Or the desire of exclusiveness? Maybe it fades away with time. I don't know.

Originally posted by: war_is_peace

he will say maine kuch nahi kiya, mere mein energy nahi hai 🤣

yeh publicly sunne ke baad ishqi royegi yaa hasegi woh nahi pata 🤣

She'll laugh out of relief ke yeh sach mein AVM ka baccha nahi hai

She'll later cry realising there may be no action after marriage🤣

Originally posted by: kankabhor

I think this concept of marriage and raising children is very outdated. In future we will evolve and find a better system.

I don’t think it has to be romantic relationship to marry someone, homosexual or heterosexual. For sexual needs, you can find other partners. Emotionally if you can connect with someone and compatible you can live together as roommates and be emotional support for each other. You can even adopt or have kids(with anyone else) and raise with friend. Why does it have to be romantic partner?

I don’t know if I am able to explain well but what I mean is just separate romantic, sexual needs from permanant lifelong emotional partner with whom you can live. Even being heterosexual I can connect with a girl and want to live permanently with her for emotional reasons. We can even have kids. For sexual needs I can find other partners.

yes these are called open marriages 😆

and actually marriage has never been about romance even historically. it was always about reproduction, property, empire etc etc.

but then ppl had facilities with tech and so the only need of the partner became emotional support.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Waise as married experienced people.. tell me what you think of the below scenario

A friend of mine is married around 3 years and the friend tells me that they are not made for each other and it’s suffocating..

Is this normal? I just tell my friend to resolve it and you know.. forget the ideal marriage partner he has in his head. Doesn’t exist..

I know, ghatiya advice hai but what can you tell the person..😆

I definitely think to give some time and don’t rush because there are such phases. But if it too suffocating and emotionally draining then take a break. Even if not permanant break up but take break. You can come back if it sorted or move on.

This sounds so perfect. So happy for you. ❤❤