Ques for those who hv done arranged marriage:How is ur compatibility? - Page 4

Originally posted by: saria1985

One time dates, found by my parents.

I see. Do you work? Is your family conservative (as in, won't allow dating and all)?

Originally posted by: saria1985

One time dates, found by my parents.

My case is just like yours. I couldn't find anyone by myself. I have met around 12-13 guys whom my parents had selected. I didn't like even one! Now they are pressurizing me a lot!😭 I am 28 years old but I am made to feel like I am 40.

Originally posted by: MallikaDua

My case is just like yours. I couldn't find anyone by myself. I have met around 12-13 guys whom my parents had selected. I didn't like even one! Now they are pressurizing me a lot!😭 I am 28 years old but I am made to feel like I am 40.

You’re 1 year younger than me. Does that make me 41? 😦

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

29. I may have exaggerated the 10 feet deep corpse reference. 😆

I thought you were 16 🤣

But hum dono.. almost ek barabar😆

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

I thought you were 16 🤣

But hum dono.. almost ek barabar😆

WUT! Omg do I come across that immature online? 😆

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

Just curious - what made you say yes to a person you've never spoken to?

I was at a stage of life where that seemed like a good idea 😆something about that time. I had failed in romance ( so Many times 😂)

So I thought of it like a business deal. An at the same it made the most sense.

I did some thinking. I drove in my car blasting music for a hour (that’s how I think) an I said to myself Kyle. Kyle is what I call myself 😆 I said Kyle I think this might go well. Maybe risk like this can pay off. An knock on wood things turned out fine (for now)

Originally posted by: MallikaDua

My case is just like yours. I couldn't find anyone by myself. I have met around 12-13 guys whom my parents had selected. I didn't like even one! Now they are pressurizing me a lot!😭 I am 28 years old but I am made to feel like I am 40.

Most girls these days, especially working ones settle in late 20s and early 30s. What you are experiencing is normal. Take your own sweet time. I have friends who rushed into arranged marriage just because they couldn't find anyone suitable after meeting some 20 boys-girls or bf/gf relationship didn't work out in the end and they decided to marry whoever their parents like. Its just dumb luck at times but not everyone is hoppy - and if they are not, they are mostly miserable. Its better to wait for the right person than be miserable for the rest of your life. Discover yourself first.

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

WUT! Omg do I come across that immature online? 😆

Naah, you are actually too cute and chirpy.

So I get teenager vibes 😳

I agreed for arranged marriage and I met him in last dec for first time.. I was confused to accept or not.. But after talking with him I felt he is nice and his family is also too good.. We got plenty of time due to this covid so we we may get married in nov r dec. As of now I'm so happy as we both started understanding each other so well.. And he is. Giving my space... I wish same continues after mrg also... And I can understand ur situation I was also so tensed about my life partner but when time comes it's happens automatically especially when it is arranged mrg..i wish u get ur best life partner soon❤

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Naah, you are actually too cute and chirpy.

So I get teenager vibes 😳

Aw shucks! Thank you 😳