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Posted: 4 years ago
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Totally agree.. without clearing that Vaada is no longer important for him and that's been done in a impulsive state.. with time he moved on long back.. Sai not gonna change her thoughts..

Today I felt more bad for Virat when Pakhi was standing there and adamant... It's like he is dealing with an obsessive lover... I wonder how he is going to manage all his life staying in the same family with her...

One doubt, Virat sunny discussion is after Sai questioning him before family or after that??

Edited by SathyaT - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

So Sai was very appropriate in everything she asked Virat. She asked him everything pretty calmly too. I wish Virat had said to her that the vaada made to pp doesn't matter n ended the discussion. Instead of telling her its a behuda question. How hard is it to say that he doesn't care about any vaada made to pp.

I mean its clear Sai thinks that if he could marry her JUST to fulfil a promise to her father, then if he HIMSELF made a promise to someone then he intends to keep it and she feels like she is getting in the way of that by staying with him. Thats why she keeps talking about leaving! Even the Samrat matter she did not mean it in a negative way. But Virats outburst stems i think from guilt of knowing/feeling that his jeeva DID indeed leave because of finding out truth about him n pp.

The discussion about baby planning was SO out of place and cringe worthy but i love that Virat put everyone in place by saying this is a niji matter of husband wife.

Pp is despicable beyond words. I am glad he did not let her touch him and asked her to leave. You can see how he is SO angry at her behavior but he is maintaining decorum just coz she is his vahini by relation. The way she kept degrading Sai was appalling. And Virat didn't opppse her strongly enough imo about her pointless tirade against Sai but at least he reiterated that she should NOT compare herself to Sai. I love that word "tulna" in hindi . 😂

Precap is nice- so Sai does come to ask him to get off the couch and is even applying heat pack for his akdi hui gardan. Aww. ♥️And we see the promo bits of Virat sunny convo. I dont understand why Virat looks angry/frustrated talking to Sunny as they overlap that with clips of sweet caring wife Sai who despite her anger/hurt is shoeing Virat she cares for him. So obviously pp will be up to NO good n instigate Sairat.

I think Sai is crystal clear about how hurt and affected she is by virat pp past. She also has clearly spelt out that her hurt or frustration is coz she thinks she is coming in the middle of his vaada to pp to never give place in his heart to another woman due to their marriage. And therefore she cannot be his wife in true sense. She has shown that despite knowing of their relationship since before marriage she is still affected by their truth. And her tears, her "baukhla" jaana, the way she feels "cheated" as she said dhoka diya, hurt kiya, chot pahuchaaya, the way she told pp- you can have him, the way she said "i forgot but now I remember everything again" - everything points to exactly what the problem is.

The onus is on Virat to clarify. He really needs to just say that pp is inconsequential to him and maybe have the courage to admit that the past with pp did exist but was a meaningless 2 day infatuation. He does not need to confess his love to Sai but he just needs to put a full stop to Sai's feeling that he still loves pp but is only holding himself back due to maryaada of relationships and his zimmedari towards Sai while he is married to her. I think Sai is completely right in feeling dejected and confused. Virat and her had started settling into a husband wife rythmn before this happened. So now she is back to square one. She is not blind to the progress made by them as a couple or that Virat does respect his boundaries with pp but she obviously feels like he is only staying holding himself back due to constraints placed on him by his marriage to Sai and pp's marriage to Samrat.

I thought the line where she said "patni ki taur par mein aapke dil mein jagah nahi bana sakti" made it super duper clear what her issue is! Iss seh zyaada spasht shabd is really not possible.


You said everything so nicely, I thought same. In this fight, only one thing I loved about Virat- the way he sat down crisscross to talk to Sai was so cute 🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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After watching SaiRat confrontation, I want to smack Virat Chavan. Who the hell made this idiot an IPS officer. Sai very clearly told him about her insecurity. She is afraid that she won't be able to make a place in his heart as a wife. That was the correct chance for Virat to clear the MUs and tell her that she has already made a place in his heart. How difficult is it to simply say that. Instead that idiot was going gol gol about god knows what rubbish. If I hear "what did you hear Sai" one more time from his mouth, I am going to virtually strangulate the guy. Matlab hadd hoti hai stupidity ke bhi.

Didi is another shameless prani. How many more times should Virat insult her before she finally leaves the guy alone. She keeps on clinging to him like a leech. Today Virat's reaction on Didi was hilarious. His face morphed into such horror seeing that woman so close to him. Then she even tried to touch him. 🤢 Poor guy is getting harassed by his so-called mature bhabhi. And on top of that, they are playing sad bgm for Didi. Why?? There is nothing about her that people will sympathize with her. So why this desperation to portray her as a victim?

Chavans doing baby planning was so weird and out of place. I simply can't place them as people who will be bothered about babies and all that. Also baby planning should be a couple's private matter. There is no need for Chavans vishesh tippani in that matter. The couples are more than capable of discussing it among themselves. Also what sort of a mother is Sonali? It is clear that she felt bad for her son and DIL today. And yet, she didn't utter a word for them and instead went on to support BK. When will these people stop blindly supporting BK?

Edited by janecastle - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Neil Bhatt once said during the hospital track fiasco when Pakhi denied Sai entry into Virat’s hospital cabin and she stayed the night instead, “it is Pakhi’s care and concern for Virat just like Sai has”

That care and concern only makes sense from a wife....not a bhabhi especially if the wife wants to look after her husband.


Silly comment from Neil...if not Sai it should have been Virat’s dad or Mohit🙈


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Nice update Niraja. Nothing you left untouched.

I really am surprised or even intrigued on hearing discussion of babies by Chavans today. They sounded ok with Sai carrying forward Chavan legacy. Strange! Even Bhavani looked normal and cracked a joke. What made them finally accept Sai,I am confused.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nice update Niraja. Nothing you left untouched.

I really am surprised or even intrigued on hearing discussion of babies by Chavans today. They sounded ok with Sai carrying forward Chavan legacy. Strange! Even Bhavani looked normal and cracked a joke. What made them finally accept Sai,I am confused.

I dunno if they accepted her or if they were trying to embarass her by speaking about babies. They know the circumstances of the marriage abd they know shes only 19 n college going. So i think this was their new taunt! :(

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

I dunno if they accepted her or if they were trying to embarass her by speaking about babies. They know the circumstances of the marriage abd they know shes only 19 n college going. So i think this was their new taunt! :(

They did look ok with Sai carrying forward their legacy. Bhavani also insulted Mohit and Karishma. So it is not a big deal. That is BK's default mode. I think they have finally realized that Sai is not going anywhere or rather, Virat won't let her go anywhere. But that doesn't mean they will stop insulting her. Insulting people is Kaku & gang's favorite pastime.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai and Virat are in a one-of-a-kind strange situation. Expectations are sky high like a married couple but there is no formal commitment. So their insecurities are also higher than normal. Every action gives room for doubts and uncertainties.Both are so focused on their own feelings of insecurity that they are failing to see the positive advances/actions of the other. Both feel so uncertain of their place in each other's life that they do not address/express their feelings.

Virat is confused by her reactions - few times it seems like he means something to him, at other times, when she acts nonchalant or talks of leaving, it seems like she is not bothered about the realtionship.

Even Sai's direct questions are probably being mis-interpreted by Virat. In the current episode the question that he felt was 'behuda' was not "Did you give vaada to Pakhi" but rather her question "Why are you backing out of your vaada to Pakhi". Even in the fight post Ladakh, Sai asked Virat "Why are you giving to dokha to Pakhi" which riled him up. Theae questions confuse him - perhaps, to him they suggests detachment rather than conveying her angst. He is looking for a "This marriage means a lot to me" from Sai - which he is not going to get unless he clears the vaada.

Edited by nethraa_99 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Sai and Virat are in a one-of-a-kind strange situation. Expectations are sky high like a married couple but there is no formal commitment. So their insecurities are also higher than normal. Every action gives room for doubts and uncertainties.Both are so focused on their own feelings of insecurity that they are failing to see the positive advances/actions of the other. Both feel so uncertain of their place in each other's life that they do not address/express their feelings.



Even Sai's direct questions are mis-interpreted by Virat. In the current episode the question that he felt was 'behuda' was not "Did you give vaada to Pakhi" but rather her question "Why are you backing out of your vaada to Pakhi". Even in the fight post Ladakh, Sai asked Virat "Why are you giving to dokha to Pakhi" which riled him up. To him, perhaps these questions suggests detachment and altruism rather than conveying her angst.

beautifully and aptly explained👏👏
Edited by cheekukabeej - 4 years ago

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