Does a loyal & adhered husband behave like Virat? - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I am not sure, atleast they can go with showing Sonali positive..

You are not sure the Chavans have turned the corner? Or you are not sure we could have done with less toxicity?🤣

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly and what if Neil was not portraying it, the way Virat is written, people would confuse ot to be love for Patralekha.. That's what I want to point out as well..

I just don’t understand the scenes they’re giving of virat pakhi consistently in the recent few episodes - are they trying to cater to both the audiences - Virakhi and SaiRat? Since Aishwarya reposts on her insta stories a lot maybe now makers think virakhi has s huge fan base and they’re missing out on another set of audience hence they’re giving both in parallel? This will not be the first show with one male lead and 2 female lead interests of the male lead.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

You are not sure the Chavans have turned the corner? Or you are not sure we could have done with less toxicity?🤣

I am not sure about Sonali being positive.😆

I can always do with much less toxicity..

ITV characters cannot be compared with real life 😜 who would get marry to lover's brother believing one promise 😂 who would stay in in-law house when hubby is MIA, marriage is not the option to help an student who lost her family, it's goes on and on... And it's not only with ghum, many shows are beyond reality that we wonder are they live in different planet...

I know my comment doesn't make sense to your question 😂😂 right now I have no other answer though 😂😂

How many husbands are in his situation?

He is loyal, He doesn't have any romantic or carnal interest towards Pakhi

He is soft towards her after everything but those weren't the crime she committed, she just knew about those crimes, Virat is soft towards people who committed these crimes too, so is Sai

Pakhi is hardly getting any special treatment from him

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

The problem I have found with Virat's characterization (especially in his equation with Pakhi) is that most of the times we don't know if his character is supposed to have a particular trait or it is a case of bad writing aimed at increasing uncertainty and drama. To me the whole Pakhi angle has been so poorly written that it has resulted in Virat's intentions being open to interpretation. It can easily be interpreted negatively. So does he still harbour feelings for Pakhi? Or is he simply satiating his ego by encouraging the affections of two women? Or is he really over Pakhi & what we see is a ridiculous attempt at extending a plot? We will never know....

The same is the case with Pakhi. While she comes across as a pretty one-dimensional, delusional cuckoo to the audience, makers have envisioned her as an angst-ridden grey character who we might sympathize with....and it fails badly.

Lack of creative juices ....

@bold This is the truth and crux of the matter. You got it right.

In itv I don’t think these guys care for characters progress or a story line with decent logic.

They just want the third wheel and they are in the process of whitewashing Pakhi’s delusions and making Virat a two timer.

Imagine they made Pakhi play Devi tai in the skit 🙄 (I know lot of people have mentioned it already)

I even felt bad for Pakhi for a moment today after watching the episode🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

@bold This is the truth and crux of the matter. You got it right.

In itv I don’t think these guys care for characters progress or a story line with decent logic.

They just want the third wheel and they are in the process of whitewashing Pakhi’s delusions and making Virat a two timer.

Imagine they made Pakhi play Devi tai in the skit 🙄 (I know lot of people have mentioned it already)

I even felt bad for Pakhi for a moment today after watching the episode🤦🏻‍♀️

You know see it as a neutral audience or a new viewer you feel bad for her....

Patralekha's expression when he stops her, having Sai in her arms was of happiness.. Tears of happiness..Tears of acceptance.. SHe always thinks that Virat is just impressed with Sai and if she does good and reminds him about themselves, he is going to come back to her , come back to his previous feelings for her.. She did say in one episodes that tum Sai k sath subah sahi they fir gussa ho jate ho.. SHe has not seen a full fledged relationship have not felt a complete relationship so her understanding of relationships comes from what she sees...And right now unfortunately she has so much focus on Sairat.. She has seen him going back on words w.r.t. Sai as well.. She has seen them almost kissing in the morning and her being ousted in the evening..So for her thats how their relationship is.. temporary and since she harbours that feeling for Virat, her emotions holds permanency... She has convinced herself the moment Virat is impressed with her, he will come back to her.. The problem here is , even this minimal action by Virat can give her hopes for life.. Unfortunately this woman catches up every little hope given by Virat , any leaf of hope that is offered to her she latches it..

For her the meaning of friendship is different and the moment Virat calls her his friend she leaps in joy.. She feels a different feeling.. She is after all that woman who believed that the two were married when she saw them married.. She is the same woman who was also convincing herself about that marriage...Had she been left like that in that moment of loneliness, the day they came back she would have convinced herself and had tried to move forward.. But she is stuck there and by the time she was informed of the place she held in that man's life she had turned vile and delusional.. Every action of Virat where he supported her "because he thought she was right" or let go " because he thought of not extending the matter' she took it as love..Her hopes grew..

He had managed to dash those hopes to some extent by being clear on what Sai is to him and what she is to him.. But then when she choses to move away from a private moment being shared by a husband and wife , when he stops her to convey that she should stay back and he is thankful to her, interrupting his moment with his wife.. he gave her hopes.. and thats why you would feel bad for her.. Had this portrayal of Patralkeha ,been good, the actor in me(I have done a lot small time theatre and nukkads) would have loved this parallel lead the most..

Just on another show that mom watches, two step sisters , you want to watch their story more than the leads, because they are so powerful actors especially the parallel lead..

I think Virat is a loyal husband but he just doesn't know how to behave like it. He looks like an emotionally awkward person who just don't know how to behave in emotionally difficult situations.

He loves Sai but don't know how to express it to her. The fact he was going to kiss her as a gift does show his ineptitude at expressing his feelings. He confesses his love in his mind but can't tell it to her face. He shows his love indirectly through little actions but get disappointed when Sai doesn't understand it especially knowing that Sai only understand straightforward answers.

The same thing is for his and PP's situation he knows that he don't have feelings for PP anymore and wants Sai to accept it just by saying that she is thinking wrong about him and PP. He just don't understand that some of his actions show otherwise and that Sai will only understand when he will come clear with her and explain his past and how his feelings for both her and PP has changed now. He also have to put some restrictions on PP and his friendship otherwise Sai will consider his words hollow.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know see it as a neutral audience or a new viewer you feel bad for her....

Patralekha's expression when he stops her, having Sai in her arms was of happiness.. Tears of happiness..Tears of acceptance.. SHe always thinks that Virat is just impressed with Sai and if she does good and reminds him about themselves, he is going to come back to her , come back to his previous feelings for her.. She did say in one episodes that tum Sai k sath subah sahi they fir gussa ho jate ho.. SHe has not seen a full fledged relationship have not felt a complete relationship so her understanding of relationships comes from what she sees...And right now unfortunately she has so much focus on Sairat.. She has seen him going back on words w.r.t. Sai as well.. She has seen them almost kissing in the morning and her being ousted in the evening..So for her thats how their relationship is.. temporary and since she harbours that feeling for Virat, her emotions holds permanency... She has convinced herself the moment Virat is impressed with her, he will come back to her.. The problem here is , even this minimal action by Virat can give her hopes for life.. Unfortunately this woman catches up every little hope given by Virat , any leaf of hope that is offered to her she latches it..

For her the meaning of friendship is different and the moment Virat calls her his friend she leaps in joy.. She feels a different feeling.. She is after all that woman who believed that the two were married when she saw them married.. She is the same woman who was also convincing herself about that marriage...Had she been left like that in that moment of loneliness, the day they came back she would have convinced herself and had tried to move forward.. But she is stuck there and by the time she was informed of the place she held in that man's life she had turned vile and delusional.. Every action of Virat where he supported her "because he thought she was right" or let go " because he thought of not extending the matter' she took it as love..Her hopes grew..

He had managed to dash those hopes to some extent by being clear on what Sai is to him and what she is to him.. But then when she choses to move away from a private moment being shared by a husband and wife , when he stops her to convey that she should stay back and he is thankful to her, interrupting his moment with his wife.. he gave her hopes.. and thats why you would feel bad for her.. Had this portrayal of Patralkeha ,been good, the actor in me(I have done a lot small time theatre and nukkads) would have loved this parallel lead the most..

Just on another show that mom watches, two step sisters , you want to watch their story more than the leads, because they are so powerful actors especially the parallel lead..

I don't feel bad for pp and wouldn't have cared for her even if a top actress was playing it. I don't like these kind of weak characters who lack moral values. She has no basis for feeling betrayed over a 2 days flirtation. She got married with his brother with her own consent. She is the kind of person who can't see other's happy and I don't like that.

As for today epi, I'm not liking the way virat is turning into a wuss * sorry for the lack of a better word*. The way he had to stop pakhi during the hug to appreciate her felt pretty disappointing. Ruined the whole scene. I'm waiting for the confrontation scene now with the hope that they don't ruin Sai's characterisation. I'm waiting for a good fight between sairat😭

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

@bold This is the truth and crux of the matter. You got it right.

In itv I don’t think these guys care for characters progress or a story line with decent logic.

They just want the third wheel and they are in the process of whitewashing Pakhi’s delusions and making Virat a two timer.

Imagine they made Pakhi play Devi tai in the skit 🙄 (I know lot of people have mentioned it already)

I even felt bad for Pakhi for a moment today after watching the episode🤦🏻‍♀️

Yes possible. Apart from stretching the third wheel angle, they could be trying to garner a little sympathy for Pakhi as well. After all, she is the third lead. I have a feeling they may cut the fake pregnancy track also. Because audience will completely reject her. I think Aishwarya also complained that fans were assuming future tracks from KD and piling on the hate (at her).

If they wanted to garner sympathy for Pakhi, they should have done it by developing her story...not by butchering the ML.