Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #11 - Page 79

Originally posted by: mpks1

I watched DevTa scene, glad he told Rishita off, is it the right time for romance?

As Gaumbi said today, Rishita will not change ASAP, with Dhara’s experiment/punishment. He clearly said he is not worried about Shiva or Raavi. It is Rishita who is making him nervous. Bit what did Dhara say, yesterday that she did not reveal the truth to Ma? Dev stopped her else Rishita would have gotten Dhara in trouble already.

i want to know they are Gaumbi’s brothers, why does Dhara show that she is more concerned about them than Gaumbi?

I have never seen any BhabiMa like Dhara in my life😕

Rishita is crossing all the limits of stupidity! Can't she see what's happening in the family and how affected her husband is because of this? All she wants is romance🤪She has no other thing to do in her life.

Dhara's character is making my head ache. I have never hated some ITV character so much in my entire life!

i really really want shiva to come out of his one-sided attachment for dhara! it's going too far now and dhara neither deserves it nor cares🤢

if she really cared an iota about him she would have stopped him from burning his hand immediately instead of waiting for his wife to come and do it 😕

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

@bold: i was drinking water and i laughed so freaking hard at this that i spit everything out 🤣

bechara dev.. or rather bechari rishita 🤣

Haha sorry about that 🤣🤣🤣 Raavi should thank her lucky stars 😆😆

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

If this show was at 11 pm slot, I would have had hopes. It was literally perfect then. From costumes, editing, dialogues, acting, aesthetics, and music. Now it's all TRP OTT drama.

He will never get over his BhabhiMa bhoot. I hope he does. Because Dhara has to remain mahanta ki murat. Only the vamps wouldn't like her in TRP world. And God forbid if Shiva ever acted out in honesty, it will be twisted in a way to show how his actions were wrong and Bhabhi is always right leading to more worshipping BhabhiMa. 🤢

I am hopeful that he will start to respect Raavi soon, else this whole experiment by Dhara is useless.
In OG, Kathir was respectful towards to his Bhabi, infact will do anything for her, but after Kathir-Mullai got together eventually fell in love with her, he has put Mullai at the same pedestal as his Bhabi.

I hope the makers give us the same here in this version too.

Originally posted by: bhavna101

Yep! I completely agree with you on this!

Everybody has taken Raavi for granted. Sometimes I wish that she should run away from this crazy toxic family.

Dhara needs to stop forcing the family members, especially Shiva and Raavi together! Dhara never got angry with Shiva for being so rude towards Raavi, for mistreating her, for manhandling her! And now she is pushing Raavi towards that kind of guy?! BS!

She needs to make Shiva understand that he shouldn't treat Raavi like this. She likes to call herself their mother but she forgot to teach them how to respect other women! Especially Shiva.

I was desperately wishing for Raavi to yell at Dhara for not stopping Shiva. Even if she saw Raavi coming those two seconds are so long. If we accidentally touch a hot pot for a mere split second, it burns a lot. Just imagine the additional damage it could have caused because Raavi was coming. She could have taken the stick away and when Raavi came, she could have dealt with aata on his hands. But here, she's heartless. Gaumbi was right today, but the brothers' have placed her on some pedastal.

This 100% Mama's boys are unattractive. It was lovely when he hugged her in earlier episodes feeling her pain. But this is heights to be completely blinded and not see any mistakes that are glaring front of you.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I watched DevTa scene, glad he told Rishita off, is it the right time for romance?

As Gaumbi said today, Rishita will not change ASAP, with Dhara’s experiment/punishment. He clearly said he is not worried about Shiva or Raavi. It is Rishita who is making him nervous. Bit what did Dhara say, yesterday that she did not reveal the truth to Ma? Dev stopped her else Rishita would have gotten Dhara in trouble already.

i want to know they are Gaumbi’s brothers, why does Dhara show that she is more concerned about them than Gaumbi?

I have never seen any BhabiMa like Dhara in my life😕

@bold: i am beginning to think she merely pretends to be concerned about them. she does not care that they are hurt, and she does not care that they are about to hurt themselves 🤢

either she is deluding herself that she cares about the brothers, or they are deluded that she is their "maa" or both

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

In the beginning, I always thought Shiva was emotionally connected to Dhara because she provided him the motherly love that even his own mother couldn't at the time. He just lost his father, he was seeing his brother struggle for the family, and even his own mother was recovering in her health. At the time, Dhara was the only one there for him. So, he probably emotionally attached himself to her like no other. I also feel that out of the three younger brothers, Shiva's most attached--which explains why he has been so turbulent these past few episodes. But Dhara not understanding Shiva's pain just proves how "unmotherly" she is.

As for Shiva, I think the Dhara-conflict has caused him to be too emotionally charged to think right. He just is tired and wants this fight to be over. He wants to be in Dhara's good graces again just like an innocent child fighting for his mother's love after making a mistake. Up until then, he'll push everyone away, including Raavi who is still a relative stranger to him. I'm hoping in the future, should a conflict between him and Dhara arise again, he seeks Raavi for comfort first before anyone else.

Dhara clearly failed at being the mother she claims herself to be! She didn't teach Shiva to respect Raavi and not treat her the way he has been doing all his life since Raavi came! And now she is pushing Raavi towards Shiva who clearly mistreats her. She should talk to him and tell him to not do that! Maybe that's the only way to get this kid to be a man and treat his wife with some much-needed respect!

Shiva is being a silly child, bhabhi ka baccha as he still calls himself. He isn't able to see and judge that his bhabhi cannot always be right. Instead of doing these stupid stunts, he should try to make amend like a normal person!

@bold - I want to see that happening as well but I am afraid that before this happens, Shiva is going to hurt Raavi really bad just because of his crazy attachment to his bhabhi.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

If this show was at 11 pm slot, I would have had hopes. It was literally perfect then. From costumes, editing, dialogues, acting, aesthetics, and music. Now it's all TRP OTT drama.

He will never get over his BhabhiMa bhoot. I hope he does. Because Dhara has to remain mahanta ki murat. Only the vamps wouldn't like her in TRP world. And God forbid if Shiva ever acted out in honesty, it will be twisted in a way to show how his actions were wrong and Bhabhi is always right leading to more worshipping BhabhiMa. 🤢

Unfortunately I think this is what will happen. Shiva getting over bhabhi maa's devotion can only happen if dhara is shown as a human and not a devi.. and that is not possible in this janam for a star plus show 😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

BTW, I thought Alice looked beautiful, especially face/ hair sans peachy pink chamkili suit

Dev and her color coordinated😕

The color suited her skin tone very well. Just a little less glitter, the suit would have been perfect!

This color-coordination thing is weird😆 Have the CVs forgotten who's married to whom?

Originally posted by: Transference

I am NOT connecting to the show anymore. It's not the same show I fell in love with.

Nothing is making sense anymore. There used to be such a warmth that used to melt my heart every day; that's not happening anymore.

Everyday, I wake Up and think this is going to get better. But, every day is a mammoth disappointment.

In everyone’s life, there are phases; when they are kids, they are different, and as we grow up, things change. People evolve and keep growing. The show seems to be stuck in the men’s childhood. They look like immature fools.

They are NOTHING without their family. They have no individual focus, dreams, aspirations. Even the family snippets don't warm my heart. Everything appears shallow.

Honestly I feel the same and the longer they do this the more they get closer to the point of no return. Cuz that magic isn’t going to come back and at this point even if it does, it won’t be the same! It’s turning into a typical family drama where there are no individual characters. I was echoing Gaumbi’s sentiments... jo karna hain karo... I’m tired of it.

And the editing is such a big issue! The scenes appear disconnected and rushed while the overall story is a drag. Raavi running into the kitchen made me smh and Shiva’s reaction further turned me off.