Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #11 - Page 76

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

What is this family’s obsession with Dhara? I don’t think anyone of them understands priorities. Wives always will be secondary. And I find this very hard to digest! I hope these dynamics change in future. Currently its too hard for me to come to terms with this “Hum saath saath hai” logic

My point is why get married when you already have a bhabhi at home!! 🤢

Even I don't get this obsession that they'll have with Dhara It's ridiculous!

I have said this before as well, that the makers are wrongly portraying the dynamics of a joint family!

This is not what a joint family is like, this isn't even what a nuclear family looks like!

That idiotic hum saath saath hai logic!🤬They can live in a toxic family but they can't leave each other because no matter what a family stays together?!

I watched DevTa scene, glad he told Rishita off, is it the right time for romance?

As Gaumbi said today, Rishita will not change ASAP, with Dhara’s experiment/punishment. He clearly said he is not worried about Shiva or Raavi. It is Rishita who is making him nervous. Bit what did Dhara say, yesterday that she did not reveal the truth to Ma? Dev stopped her else Rishita would have gotten Dhara in trouble already.

i want to know they are Gaumbi’s brothers, why does Dhara show that she is more concerned about them than Gaumbi?

I have never seen any BhabiMa like Dhara in my life😕

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

So looking ahead I’m guessing we are going to get some couple scenes since both couples have to get something from somewhere (I kinda zoned out there 😆). I’m guessing they will be attacked on their way to the mandir. Dhara & Gaumbi are going separately so they will be fine. Is it too much to hope for a reenactment of the kidnapping scene and this time Shiva clears the MU 😆 I wonder how Krish gets hurt since he is going with Suman.

I am expecting the unexpected. This show has become wayyyy crazy and anything can happen at any time!🤣

Originally posted by: bhavna101

Shiva's crazy attachment with Dhara makes me afraid sometimes. How can he not understand that his bhabhi can't always be right! What has Dhara even done to get that kind of love from these brothers🤪

Raavi is being good and always tries to do good but it is Shiva who can't understand her and always treats her as "Maami ki behen ki beti"!🤬

In the beginning, I always thought Shiva was emotionally connected to Dhara because she provided him the motherly love that even his own mother couldn't at the time. He just lost his father, he was seeing his brother struggle for the family, and even his own mother was recovering in her health. At the time, Dhara was the only one there for him. So, he probably emotionally attached himself to her like no other. I also feel that out of the three younger brothers, Shiva's most attached--which explains why he has been so turbulent these past few episodes. But Dhara not understanding Shiva's pain just proves how "unmotherly" she is.

As for Shiva, I think the Dhara-conflict has caused him to be too emotionally charged to think right. He just is tired and wants this fight to be over. He wants to be in Dhara's good graces again just like an innocent child fighting for his mother's love after making a mistake. Up until then, he'll push everyone away, including Raavi who is still a relative stranger to him. I'm hoping in the future, should a conflict between him and Dhara arise again, he seeks Raavi for comfort first before anyone else.

BTW, I thought Alice looked beautiful, especially face/ hair sans peachy pink chamkili suit

Dev and Raavi color coordinated😕

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Watched its and bits of the episode.

Dhara is heartless. Man she doesn't realize she's probably, physically bringing ShiVi closer, but emotionally, not so much. My heart broke for Raavi the way Shiva reacted to what Raavi said about Dhara. This kind of obsession is unhealthy for motherly figure. I hope one day he learns to give equal importance and balance both wife and bhabhi.

I really want to see a scene in future where Shiva comes to realization that Dhara is human and can make wrong decisions too. Hope one day he speaks Raavi's dialogue in future because Raavi is impacted by Dhara's decision.

I was kind of happy yesterday that Shiva was kind of seeing this partiality with Rishita when he said something about Dhara's like for Rishita made him get Dandas in the bathroom scene. But now he's super guilty.

Dhara is again trying to do things her way, which usually are the worst ways ever! She's forcing Raavi and Shiva together, not realizing that she should get Shiva to respect Raavi first. That man (kid) is too lost in his hatred for his Maami that he's being so judgemental towards Raavi just because of her relationship with Maami.

Shiva needs to realize the fact that his bhabhi is a human and not some great goddess who can do no wrong. I am afraid that he might hurt Raavi is his obsession with his bhabhi.

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Raavi is beginning to connect emotionally with shiva but this blind bhabhima devotion will not allow shiva connect emotionally with her

I dont get the idea of marriage if bhabhi is going to sit on the to always

My heart goes out to both rishith and raavi here

Exactly I hope CVs stop the unhealthy and crazy love that these boys have for Dhara. I really dont blame Rishita for her insecurities. Of course if your husband is chanting his bhabhi's name 24/7 , your wife is going to be insecure! No wife is going to go gaga over her husband when all he does is talk about his bhabhi and her sacrifices

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Omg that would be hilarious and knowing Raavi she won’t realize how that sounds 🤣 she’ll be like he keeps me up all night 🤣 iska toh khatam hi nahin hota... while she means jhagra, everyone else is dying on the inside 🤣

Gaumbi: Dhara kuch seekh inn dono se 🤣

Rishita: Dev ka toh do min mein khatam ho jata hain 🤣

Maami: is speechless for life 🤣🤣🤣

@bold: i was drinking water and i laughed so freaking hard at this that i spit everything out 🤣

bechara dev.. or rather bechari rishita 🤣

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

So looking ahead I’m guessing we are going to get some couple scenes since both couples have to get something from somewhere (I kinda zoned out there 😆). I’m guessing they will be attacked on their way to the mandir. Dhara & Gaumbi are going separately so they will be fine. Is it too much to hope for a reenactment of the kidnapping scene and this time Shiva clears the MU 😆 I wonder how Krish gets hurt since he is going with Suman.

But the promo scene neither gaura or shivi are there but dev and krish are as well as rishita and anita when she spills the beans lol but this pooja will be some action adventure for sure lol

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Yea me too I liked the first half of the Shivi scene but hated the second half when Shiva manhandles Raavi for the sake of Dhara! 😕

Yes! Shiva needs to learn how to respect Raavi. His illogical logic that Raavi is just the same as Maami because of their relationship, makes me wanna barf🤢 Stupid kid!