Originally posted by: Saichintalli
Frankly speaking laksh, here the matter is all about Tai and harini, along with sai, they even taunted virat, I really hated ninad and pakhi words but yaha both sairat are concentrating on Devi issue both Sai and virat ignored those words because their concentration is different, and chavans ka Kya hai once virat defend sai or sai defend herself they will make matter only about sai and virat sidelining the actual issue, and virat answered back ninad, when ninad said sharam Ani chahiye sai ko, virat sai " kyu kiskiye sharam Ani chahiye , sirf isliye kyu ki vo Sach bolthi hai"... So, sairat only concentrated on Devi issue here... And we should not forget after coming from hospital virat actually warned everyone and. Stood for sai... But these people are shameless...I agree his anger is not satisfactory but I can't deny he actually stood along sai ... Both are equally angry... I felt bad only because his anger is lot more during sai
I am sorry I disagree. The problem is not that. He says he loves her, what would be our reaction when someone speaks like that to our spouse? Would we let our parents speak that way because we have another task to finish however big it is? No, because that has to come from within a person. Sai can concentrate on anything but Sai’s honour is his responsibility and he should ensure that she doesn’t get disrespected every time by people.
Why did he not say anything when they spoke about jis thali mein khati ho. Is she not his wife? Are they doing an ehsaan on her? First let him protect the honour of his wife and then he can think of uniting Devi with Harini. It is not just happening now isn’t it, it has been happening always.
When he could not stand up for this, how is she going to trust to move with him again to his house? By acting that he needs 2nd opinion should not be the kind of koshish, by giving her a feeling of security, by standing up for her, when people abuse her, is what is called koshish.
It is simple, won’t even take time and when they are at fault, he has an upper hand which he needs to learn to use to show them their place. We are not expecting him to arrest them now because of which the birthday will get spoilt, open your mouth and shut people up when they are demeaning your wife.
I have written reasons as how he is in extremes with Sai, but that doesn’t mean that he won’t correct people when it is very important.
He will start moving with his family members as if they didn’t do anything in a few days. A person like him who married Sai with conditions to uphold a promise given to a girl can’t do things like this. A guy who said that he was braking that promise to do his duty is failing this way? Where did the sense of right and wrong go? Hasn’t he heard of verbal abuse? How can he keep witnessing it like this without doing anything about it? It is hard to relate to his character anymore.
Edited by laksh - 4 years ago
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