Saadagi Main Hi khoobsoorti hai - Page 7

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, the fact that Imlie wouldn't even admit that AC hit her....this shows the level to which she still holds back from Adi either cuz she fears his reactions to learning about it and going on a rampage against AC or cuz of her own lingering sense of insecurity about not being sure of Adi's feelings for her....that independent streak of hers does get twisted at times in that she doesn't want to let anyone in to share her pain and wants to manage it all on her own.....that is what Adi will have to work on with her that if she does indeed consider him her partner, believes in this relationship toh dard bhi baantne honge.....he has a right on sharing her pain too.

Communication issues are being thrown in now cuz the relationship is getting more real....lol otherwise it's funny that all this time we were shown Adi saying that Imlie understands him more than himself yet we are now being shown an Imlie doubting her own understanding of him and them not even communicating about it.....let's see if they manage to explore that in the course of basaaoing Didi ka ghar😆

Yes, Imlie is deffo a step behind Adi in the realization process and she's not fully there yet in terms of being able to be a full partner to him cuz she needs to work through this self-worth issue and feel more secure about her position in Adi's life....she needs to embrace it wholeheartedly in order to be able to be a partner in a true sense.

Re: Adi having issues in his relationships with both women.....lol the difference is that in Malini's case the issues are due to lack of understanding and ability to communicate even after 7 years.....while in Imlie's case, the issues are being caused by external factors more than internal....they have an instinctive foundation of understanding and communication that binds them together even in the face of rough waters....and then yes, the fact that Adi is clearly invested wholeheartedly in a relationship for the first time in his life to such an extent that he will move heaven and earth to get through to Imlie.....

Re: didi ka mandir....lol they seem to be mistaken in thinking that pointing out Malini's flaws will make it seem like Adi left her cuz Imlie was better than her....lol two people not being right for each other doesn't make either of them bad.....a character earns more respect when they own their flaws....but I suppose it would be too mature to take that route....lol so we must be force-fed Didi's so called "greatness" instead when we can clearly see all her immature delusions and what part those played in AM falling apart.....oh well.....lol

This!! I don’t agree with it ke they have had communication issues until.now infact that very thing we have admired until now ke bad baat kar lete hain kuch nahi chupate ek dusre se kcuh bhi ho jaaye they are fully transparent.. I hope they maintain that quality going forward and keep them like that

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think they give these lines even to Adi from time to time about how Imlie has no one else in the city while Malini has a whole support system in both C and T families at her disposal. These are subtle nods to the privileges Malini still holds even as everyone cries about what a bechari she is😆.....that when she suffers she has a whole host of people to care for her while Imlie has no one.

This ends up having the unintended consequence of making it seem like Adi is with Imlie just cuz she is alone and needs support😆.....when that is really not the case.....Adi's family is yet to hear or learn that Adi considers Imlie his ZAROORAT😆.....so yes, while he does feel the compulsion to protect Imlie as there is no other support system for her in the city, he primarily goes to her cuz he needs her and can't function without her.

Still I suppose they add these lines from Rupi or Adi to remind the T family and some in the audience that Imlie is the one actually lacking a support system right now rather than Malini.

Am thoda confused over here you think I called imlie bechari in my above post.. nahi woh rupi ke liye tha..

Imlie ke support system ki kami toh hai na solid wali abhi tak she didn't let it hamper her caz yeah she had family ka support in some form but ab wohi hatt gaye peeche toh she will feel even more lonely.. adi ko bohat strongly khada hkna padega and bana padega support baatein toh bohat kar li ab actions main dikha de

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Am thoda confused over here you think I called imlie bechari in my above post.. nahi woh rupi ke liye tha..

Imlie ke support system ki kami toh hai na solid wali abhi tak she didn't let it hamper her caz yeah she had family ka support in some form but ab wohi hatt gaye peeche toh she will feel even more lonely.. adi ko bohat strongly khada hkna padega and bana padega support baatein toh bohat kar li ab actions main dikha de

LOL nahin, I didnt say you called Imlie a bechaari. I was making a general point about why they make rupi or adi point out ki Imlie doesnt have a support system but Malini does. It's intended for those people who forget the privileges Malini is swimming in even as she tries to make an extended spectacle of her bechaargi every chance she gets. While Imlie hides her pain and never asks for support even if she is alone.

Marriage ultimately is about taking turns to step up for your partner. It is still Adi's turn to do more to help and support Imlie through this phase because a girl who's never asked for support in her life will deffo have a learning curve about this.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL nahin, I didnt say you called Imlie a bechaari. I was making a general point about why they make rupi or adi point out ki Imlie doesnt have a support system but Malini does. It's intended for those people who forget the privileges Malini is swimming in even as she tries to make an extended spectacle of her bechaargi every chance she gets. While Imlie hides her pain and never asks for support even if she is alone.

Marriage ultimately is about taking turns to step up for your partner. It is still Adi's turn to do more to help and support Imlie through this phase because a girl who's never asked for support in her life will deffo have a learning curve about this.

Oh i totally agree with that.. 🙂 waise bhi imlie kab se support system bani hai adi ka but abhi she needs it so much more.. malini didi toh bechari hi rahegi she is the brand ambassador of thankless kisi cheez ke liye thankful hkna isne seekha hi nahi hai 😆