Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #9 - Page 105

Originally posted by: Transference

The Curious Case of Badly Raised Men and The two outsiders.

I am not going to go too much into detail about anything else but primarily the stealthiness of the food eating scene while the outsiders Raavi and Rishita stand looking at their respective husbands hogging the food.

This scene was supposed to be funny and cute, but I found it deeply problematic. How?

1. These are men who took vows at the wedding altar. One of the seven vows in marriage is that ‘The man shall provide for the women's food, safety and clothing.’

So, while these men were gobbling foods, where was their exact concern about the respective women in their lives? Apparently, Raavi didn't want to cook, that means she must be hungry too. Why didn't the thought of Raavi being hungry too cross Shiva even for humanity sake. He does take care of her crying, not hurting her etc. Where is

I will share this one incident from a family I knew. The FIL told the new bahu that she needs to learn from her MILfor running the family and sacrifice. I still remember the statement of the MIL. ‘I have run my family and lived with my husband in my way. Let her run her family and live with her husband her way now.’

That's what people should do.

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No amount of hundreds would do justice, it's a beautiful worded post piu🤗 I wanted to say exactly this a day before but couldn't pen it down properly.. thx for this..

Dhara is unable to see that krish and shiva , even rishita and raavi are not the problem, she is the problem! She needs to take a step back so that the new.couples find a chance to start their married life. Gosh her sukhon ka parivar is highly toxic , like u said it must be a living hell for raavi and rishita. Rishita is there bec she loves dev , but raavi ? Raavi has deep respect for dhara and that's again, problematic 😆 That's the reason suman is the perfect person in their lives ...she will pull dhara back from the skies .

The biggest issue in pfamily? The boys can't admire any woman who is less than dhara and dhara expects the whole world to be like her 🤢 She thinks like she took all the abuse from suman quietly and won her over , krish should do the same .

No doubt suman treated her worse than an animal. When rishita scolded krish today for hugging her, I was reminded of dhara and suman. But not everyone can be as patient as dhara and why should rishita be like dhara ? Krish and rishita can also be friends ..or they can have a cordial relation. Why can't they settle for anything less than dhara model of pyar

Originally posted by: Transference

Bang on 🤗

The boys not only seem clueless to function without her. It's okay to be upset, but it's another thing to be clueless. The boys are nothing without their family together. What if they are left alone to fend for themselves; they would stand clueless given their characterization full now.

Not just the boys , the girls are also clueless 🤣 Didn't u c how rishita was oglig at the paranthas🤣 that's mata dhara annapurnas magic pot jahan khana khatam nai hota.

Abhi , everything will be much balanced with mami suman and Anita around.

havent watched the show from the beginning. why do dhara & gautam dont have any children?

how has dhara's MIL not pressurized her until now w/o kids

Originally posted by: naq5

havent watched the show from the beginning. why do dhara & gautam dont have any children?

how has dhara's MIL not pressurized her until now w/o kids

She decided not to have kids as they had the responsibility of Shiva krish and dev . The three were kids when gombi and dhara got married.

Suman couldn't pressurize them bec she was paralyzed when gaura got married..she slowly started recovering post their marriage ..probably she doesn't know the reason why dhara delayed her family planning ..they didn't touch it except once..Suman is kinda grateful to dhara for raising her family . She couldn't say much

Finally settled into my place... well I still have to unbox many things 😆 excited to join conversations again from Mon!

Looks like Akshay is taking a break again. He is flying to Bangkok!! 😂😂 Matlab no DevTa scenes! Happy dance 💃🏻 Are these guys back to Mumbai or are they still in Bikaner?

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Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Finally settled into my place... well I still have to unbox many things 😆 excited to join conversations again from Mon!

Awesome!! Hopefully the unpacking is not a lot of hassle! 😊

Originally posted by: EmeraldPrincess

Though they fight 24/7, I can't get over how comfortable they actually are with each other. The way they both were lying down after the pillow fight, Raavi's head where Shiva usually sleeps and Shiva's on where Raavi usually sleeps.

Even when Shiva doesn't pull her towards him, they somehow gravitate towards each other. I love how Raavi either widens her eyes or closes them when they're really close.

Shiva's arm in the last two though 🥺.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Edit to add this note: Sorry, just realized I wrote an essay and probably not at all what you thought.

Actually there was on live interview of hers yesterday which I happened to watch for a bit. It was surprisingly really good and seemed to go on for a very long time.

Here are few things I learned about the show/actors/relationshipa based on what the interviewer asked:

1. She hinted that there will be tension from her between GauRa. She's in a place where there are lot of "bad" memories for her. But she also said her character isnt negative like it was before. She said there's already ba lot of drama going on in haveli right now, so her track won't be now. (Strictly my opinion: I feel this will come in play with Suman wanting her as daughter and when Suman learns of Dhara's actions, she may verbally say that she wishes Gaumbi married Anita instead of her, and it may start tenaioj in their life.
   
2. Her character was different before, but she loves how it's nice now. She said she didn't expect there to be her story after leap, but was glad with her story with Hardik. Now she's like because of Covid, things have been shifted, so that angle is open, bit for her track the focus will probably be her being back to the place where her life turned upside down and being around GauRa.
   
3. The actress is pretty wise and I really liked how she thinks, respects everyone and wise things she said about CoVID situation going around. One time when interviewer asked to talk about the camaraderie between the cast she said all nice things and how much she's close to Divya as she's like support system to everyone there and not just kinshuk! ❤️ Can't remember how the conversation started, but she said something about how she doesn't believe in talking bad about anyone. If you don't have nice things to say then you shouldn't say it a all, so she'll only speak good things of everyone.
4. Here's the part that may interest some of you as that has been point of wonder for many lately. Later interviewer asked her to reveal secret about each actors that's not know. She's got nice things to say about everyone. Akshay's probably like many of us. Lol she said she made him exercise with her one day and he complained about ab pain for 4 days and went off to eat whatever. (She seems to be very health conscious and seems to have been raised that way). Simran is so cute and straight forward, but way matured than her characcha and respects everyone. Shiny will eat anything (e.g. street food or anything. And not conscious like celebs), Kinshuk is mastikhor (unlike Gaumbi), Alice is a sweeasweet and how she loves to sleep. She's like "today while they were eating breakfast she took 4 quick 5 minutes naps. She falls asleep anywhere and they have to drag her."😆 But if someone says anything drastic, she'll wake with a jault with 😲 expression. She also said she says "Awww" alot to everything, so when everyone talks to her, they react to her in similar way. (Awww) Oh and she shares her room (i think makeup room) with Alice here. She said Alice is also pretty straight forward person. Kanwar jokes about everything. Sometimes his jokes are bad that you'd want to run away, and sometimes he'll joke with you embarrassing you. Lol, she's like he may pick someone to joke about and how everyone wishes it's not their turn to be embarrassed that day.😆 Mohit is baba. He has knowledge about everything, and so sometimes he has comments on everything. Lol she's like they tell him "tu phir bola". 😆 But she said unlike Krish, he actually says very wise things and makes you really think about what he said. ❤️ For Mami she spoke mainly from professional level and how good she's as an actress, and how much she enjoys her scenes with her. She said they used to share room, but didn't elaborate much. For the secret she's like"she's the same off-screen as she is on-screen)😂. Not sure if that meant as a hint for what may have happened and they're no longer following each other on IG). Kritika is very adventurous and will go off exploring anywhere. She's like Kritika is the only women her age after her own mother who she knows to be that fit and active. She had really nice things to say from personal level actors who played Mama and her dad pre-leap). And Divya's like a soul sister and all the things she did for her. She's like Divya's the most missed person right now and how she cried when Divya was leaving the last time. ❤️So lol, she spoke on personal level about everyone except one. Whenever there are plans to meet up, everyone's invited/notified, if they have availability from shooting, they'll go. But also said that Alice, Simran, and her are types of people who also enjoy their "me time". So no one's like compelled to do things together, but everyone is included in everything so no one feels left out.

Lol that interview was so long, I wish it was saved. I joined again for couple minutes after an hour and they were talking more about her character, but I didn't have time to listen in. Too bad it wasn't saved. I'd love for us to have this kind of live session/interview with Alice/Kanwar.

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