Congratulations for being Anupama again - Page 10

Originally posted by: neo7

pehen toh main bhi leti hun long kurti but on jeans. Its not that we just wanna prove that we are ultra modern and all. But just that I should be given the option of what I wear and how I represent myself. I want be myself and not turn into someone which the other person expects you to be.

Completely agree and usually at work I also wear jeans with sometimes long kurta or sometimes tops.

On that particular day, I didn’t wear jeans only because of my grandparents lol but I make sure to inform him about my daily dressing or comfort dressing in very first meeting.
It doesn’t matter to him that what I wear and what not. He says your life your choice. He is not there to control me neither his family.

My funda was clear I can’t give my remote control in somebody else’s hand and he is the same so space matters a lot 😆

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Lol my problem is also same I know cooking, I am doing cooking here daily but just as a part of my duty and responsibility . It’s not like my hobby 😆 I don’t like to make dough so it’s my husband’s daily job lol rest of the things I do.

Totally agree with you I used to feel the same that arrange marriage is huge gamble but must say if you find right one it’s perfect decision.

No there was no love at first sight for both of us. He came to my home . We talked around 1.5 hours in first meeting 😆Our families were sitting outside and thinking we took long time but that meeting was like 2 friends are talking. Nothing like hobbies and all. More about what kind of work we have done till today and what are our future plans and how’s our social life, trekking, travelling etc . Second meeting was to discover more about each other.

I believe in click concept. Sometimes when you meet someone, there is a click. I don’t believe in love at first sight but I believe in that click recognition. Dil par click hona chahiye that yes everyday subah uth kar iss admi ki shakal dekhna muje accha lagega 😆 yah iske sath muje buddha hona accha lagega 😆

1.5 hours is first meeting, baapre, definately it had clicked tabhi toh itna time baat kar li.

I also believe that when it will click you will know it. You will feel it when its right choice.

Mere click ka intezaar hai 😆

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Completely agree and usually at work I also wear jeans with sometimes long kurta or sometimes tops.

On that particular day, I didn’t wear jeans only because of my grandparents lol but I make sure to inform him about my daily dressing or comfort dressing in very first meeting.
It doesn’t matter to him that what I wear and what not. He says your life your choice. He is not there to control me neither his family.

My funda was clear I can’t give my remote control in somebody else’s hand and he is the same so space matters a lot 😆

Perfect Funda you are following. Proud of you 😆

Originally posted by: neo7

1.5 hours is first meeting, baapre, definately it had clicked tabhi toh itna time baat kar li.

I also believe that when it will click you will know it. You will feel it when its right choice.

Mere click ka intezaar hai 😆

You click is on the wayKeep manifesting

Haha yes amari vaat puri j no thati first meeting me 😆 Just because of fear of my grand parents that all are waiting outside, we thought we should stop talking and go outside😆My mother was like pehli var madi ama j atli vaat kari lidhi!!! because previous 3 ma me koi ni b sathe 10 minute thi vadhare vaat noti kari hati 😆 We both are software engineer so may be same background helped us while communicating with each other.

You are CA right? That's great .it's not easy to become CA. Are you looking for fellow CA?

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

You click is on the wayKeep manifesting

Haha yes amari vaat puri j no thati first meeting me 😆 Just because of fear of my grand parents that all are waiting outside, we thought we should stop talking and go outside😆My mother was like pehli var madi ama j atli vaat kari lidhi!!! because previous 3 ma me koi ni b sathe 10 minute thi vadhare vaat noti kari hati 😆 We both are software engineer so may be same background helped us while communicating with each other.

You are CA right? That's great .it's not easy to become CA. Are you looking for fellow CA?

No such hard and fast rule that I want a CA only. But obviously preferably and that also in Mumbai only, I don't wanna leave Mumbai at any cost.

Originally posted by: neo7

No such hard and fast rule that I want a CA only. But obviously preferably and that also in Mumbai only, I don't wanna leave Mumbai at any cost.

Bangalore/Pune are also fast cities like mumbai. I was working at pune MNC before my marriage and i still miss pune city and weather. Weather was very pleasant there. Both the cities are nice.

Mera grand father ko diabetes thi. Magar iske baavjood bhi unhe roj dopaher ke khaane mein 10 cheez chahiye hoti thi

Agar ek bhi khana kum hua to khaana nahin khate they. Khaana waapas kar dete they woh roj apne khane ki list dadi ko pakda jaate they aur dadi unke liye roj khaane ke 10 item banatin

Khane ki list mein hota tha jaise

Daal

Dahi bade

Kheer

R

Baigane ka bharta

Roti chawal

Khaati chutney

Meethin chutney

Achar

Papad

Salad

Saath hi saath roj subah do gulaab jaamun aur khasta kachori khaate they

Aur meri bua log jub shaam ko bahar ghumne jaate to bahar shaam 6 baje ke aas paas ko 4,5 masala dosa khaain phir ghar aati phir roti sabji daal bhi banati aur use bhi khaatin. Maine apni mummy se suna ki jub hum shaadi mein jaate to wahaan log 10 , 15 boondi ke laddoo dahi ke saath aise hi kha jaate

Chahe tabiyat kharaab ho jaaye magar pet ki tanki poori bhari honi chahiye aur tongue ke armaan jaroor hone nahin chahiye to agar sirf simple daal chawal sabji do to naaraaz ho jaayenge

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Bangalore/Pune are also fast cities like mumbai. I was working at pune MNC before my marriage and i still miss pune city and weather. Weather was very pleasant there. Both the cities are nice.

Not because of fast cities or metro cities. Just because my parents are here. I wanna stay near to them.

Originally posted by: neo7

Not because of fast cities or metro cities. Just because my parents are here. I wanna stay near to them.

I totally understand ❤️

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Mera grand father ko diabetes thi. Magar iske baavjood bhi unhe roj dopaher ke khaane mein 10 cheez chahiye hoti thi

Agar ek bhi khana kum hua to khaana nahin khate they. Khaana waapas kar dete they woh roj apne khane ki list dadi ko pakda jaate they aur dadi unke liye roj khaane ke 10 item banatin

Khane ki list mein hota tha jaise

Daal

Dahi bade

Kheer

R

Baigane ka bharta

Roti chawal

Khaati chutney

Meethin chutney

Achar

Papad

Salad

Saath hi saath roj subah do gulaab jaamun aur khasta kachori khaate they

Aur meri bua log jub shaam ko bahar ghumne jaate to bahar shaam 6 baje ke aas paas ko 4,5 masala dosa khaain phir ghar aati phir roti sabji daal bhi banati aur use bhi khaatin. Maine apni mummy se suna ki jub hum shaadi mein jaate to wahaan log 10 , 15 boondi ke laddoo dahi ke saath aise hi kha jaate

Chahe tabiyat kharaab ho jaaye magar pet ki tanki poori bhari honi chahiye aur tongue ke armaan jaroor hone nahin chahiye to agar sirf simple daal chawal sabji do to naaraaz ho jaayenge

Oh my god 😣Aise to ghar ki lady ka pura din kitchen mai he chala jayega 😳

Itna zyada khana banane se mana kar dena chahiye. Everyday itna khana banana easy nahi hai !! And chappan bhog he chahiye toh fir cook bhi hona chahiye😖