Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #8 - Page 102

Originally posted by: Abhipyaarhua

I was seriously so pissed off reading their defence/appreciation of Dhara. How can anybody defend physical abuse?

I have no idea how people think it’s okay and are justifying it.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Those are blind Dhara fans.

I am so shocked to see that there is a group of people who think what Dhara did today was right

I honestly feel like Raavi was too shocked to react or do anything. I think I would personally be too stunned to react as well. How do you stop such blind rage and inhumane behavior?

Dhara’s overwhelming reactions and her drama and actions all need a permanent halt otherwise this show becomes crass to watch really.

Now she says live separately, she thinks she is the Binding factor, the glue that keeps the family intact really stop too much focus on the boys all grown up, too much interference in their personal lives is just making them look dumb and focus on ur life and give it a go now for ur future. I have become so helpless seeing her state.

Originally posted by: Transference

The purity of heart, and the love Shiva has for Dhara is pristine. You had to see his expressions when he just bore the brunt of Dhara silently! If this isn't devotion of the utmost form, then what exactly it is? This man didn't even question Dhara once before deciding to get married and be trapped in a relationship with no hope and future for him. A woman who had spent an eternity loving his ‘OLDER’ brother was now his wife, and he didn't even question Dhara once! Hitting the grown-up men for a prank??? Like really? I thought the promo might be a dramatised version, but the episode is worst!

Where were her resolutions and anger when Rishita insulted her at the drop of a hat? Where was her fierceness when she was pushing Raavi to a loveless marriage with Dev? Where was her anger when Suman abused her absconding mother?

Hypocrisy much?

Shiva's love for Dhara and her reciprocal feelings for him is what I have a big problem with. I've always felt as though out of all the brothers, Shiva's love for Dhara was most pure. He seemed to hang on to her every word without question, marrying someone he did not like, putting aside his hatred for Maami and restraining his anger whenever he is close to her... So far in the show, I've only seen Shiva's love for Dhara, but I was never convinced of Dhara's love for Shiva. She doesn't seem to even want to listen or understand him. Otherwise, with the situation with Dev and Shiva, she would've done something more than say, "Dev is your older brother, Shiva!"

I'm convinced she hasn't realized what it means to have Shiva's support because she's never had a time without his support...

The only positive outcome I see in all of this is that he'll tone down on his reliance for Dhara and turn to someone else, whether that means Krish or Raavi as no one else in that house understands him.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Shiva's love for Dhara and her reciprocal feelings for him is what I have a big problem with. I've always felt as though out of all the brothers, Shiva's love for Dhara was most pure. He seemed to hang on to her every word without question, marrying someone he did not like, putting aside his hatred for Maami and restraining his anger whenever he is close to her... So far in the show, I've only seen Shiva's love for Dhara, but I was never convinced of Dhara's love for Shiva. She doesn't seem to even want to listen or understand him. Otherwise, with the situation with Dev and Shiva, she would've done something more than say, "Dev is your older brother, Shiva!"

I'm convinced she hasn't realized what it means to have Shiva's support because she's never had a time without his support...

The only positive outcome I see in all of this is that he'll tone down on his reliance for Dhara and turn to someone else, whether that means Krish or Raavi as no one else in that house understands him.

I really hope shiva starts detaching himself from dhara and she understands what she had and what she is losing

Originally posted by: CarpediemRose

Dhara’s overwhelming reactions and her drama and actions all need a permanent halt otherwise this show becomes crass to watch really.

Now she says live separately, she thinks she is the Binding factor, the glue that keeps the family intact really stop too much focus on the boys all grown up, too much interference in their personal lives is just making them look dumb and focus on ur life and give it a go now for ur future. I have become so helpless seeing her state.

Seriously Dhara feels like she is the center of the Pandya universe. She has mollycoddled these boys so much that they can think of noone else other than her. Partly is Gaumbi's mistake too. Its no longer "Pandya Niwas" its "Dhara Niwas". I seriously feel the focus should shift from Dhara to the boys and show how they adjust and live their own life. For gods sake, GauRa are in their 30s and not 60s. They should stop acting as if they have lived most of their life and ab kuch bacha nahi hai. You have your whole life ahead!!

They could have conveyed so many solid points with zero violence if they wanted to. Dhara taking the decision to step back and just be Gaumbi’s wife for a change would have been a treat. The couples choosing to stick together (not being forced), fend for themselves and win Dhara’s trust again would have sent a positive message. That along with the fact that space is as important as love and respect in a joint family. A silent treatment track would have given us beautiful scenes.

Leaving for now guys, it was so nice to just spill out all the anger and the frustration I had seeing the episode, I wish I don’t even have a look at it again or even discuss more for now. It was hardcore physical abuse two men were vehemently forced to and none to their rescue.

See u all later, good interacting with u all.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Shiva and krish were forced to kneel down to apologize to rishita and she just looked proud 😡

How will she or Raavi ever respect Shiva now?

Kneel down to apologize.... What's wrong with this family..... 😡