Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #8 - Page 103

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

They could have conveyed so many solid points with zero violence if they wanted to. Dhara taking the decision to step back and just be Gaumbi’s wife for a change would have been a treat. The couples choosing to stick together (not being forced), fend for themselves and win Dhara’s trust again would have sent a positive message. That along with the fact that space is as important as love and respect in a joint family. A silent treatment track would have given us beautiful scenes.

If this same prank was played out in the original, Dhanam would have simply yelled at the boys asking them why they thought this would be okay, and afterwards, she would've started her silent treatment, refusing to cook or serve for them. And then the boys would've been left to fend for themselves all while trying to win back her trust and love. The silent treatment would've also given them the time to reflect on their actions and would have allowed them to realize just exactly why they were in the wrong, and at that point, both of the brothers could have sincerely apologized to Rishita, but no... we get this instead...

Originally posted by: Transference

What Dhara said to Raavi was unacceptable!

Whoa!! Too many strong reactions today. I haven't caught up with all the episodes...just keeping up with twitter. I guess I shouldn't rush my binging if it's gonna get this worst. I'll savor the good stuff.

May all of you have the strength to tolerate this.

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

They could have conveyed so many solid points with zero violence if they wanted to. Dhara taking the decision to step back and just be Gaumbi’s wife for a change would have been a treat. The couples choosing to stick together (not being forced), fend for themselves and win Dhara’s trust again would have sent a positive message. That along with the fact that space is as important as love and respect in a joint family. A silent treatment track would have given us beautiful scenes.

I hate that only Dhara and her husband are allowed to lose their minds. Everyone else has to control their emotions no matter how suffocated they become!

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

If this same prank was played out in the original, Dhanam would have simply yelled at the boys asking them why they thought this would be okay, and afterwards, she would've started her silent treatment, refusing to cook or serve for them. And then the boys would've been left to fend for themselves all while trying to win back her trust and love. The silent treatment would've also given them the time to reflect on their actions and would have allowed them to realize just exactly why they were in the wrong, and at that point, both of the brothers could have sincerely apologized to Rishita, but no... we get this instead...

Par CV ne ye nonsense dekhaya....

I didnt want to say much or anything really on today's episode so I only have a few words

Respect is earned not given.

Respect is very hard to earn but very easy to loose. Rishita hasn't done anything to earn it and today, Dhara has done everything to lose it.

That's it. I dont have anything else left. I don't know what the creatives were even thinking with this. A true and utter disappointment.

Originally posted by: Transference

The purity of heart, and the love Shiva has for Dhara is pristine. You had to see his expressions when he just bore the brunt of Dhara silently! If this isn't devotion of the utmost form, then what exactly it is? This man didn't even question Dhara once before deciding to get married and be trapped in a relationship with no hope and future for him. A woman who had spent an eternity loving his ‘OLDER’ brother was now his wife, and he didn't even question Dhara once! Hitting the grown-up men for a prank??? Like really? I thought the promo might be a dramatised version, but the episode is worst!

Where were her resolutions and anger when Rishita insulted her at the drop of a hat? Where was her fierceness when she was pushing Raavi to a loveless marriage with Dev? Where was her anger when Suman abused her absconding mother?

Hypocrisy much?

But she acted like their Bhabi and not a mother, who just wanted to glorify her sacrifices but never thought about what she put Shiva and Raavi through😡Now I feel she just wanted the control of Pandya family as she has seen them from young age and knows the family well, especially their weaknesses. Dhara is a control freak😡

This is one episode I will never watch again.

Tomorrow being the 100th episode, don't want them to all go back saying everything is hunky dory.

Most improtantly no Yaadon ki Baraat scene for the 100th episode😡

Krish...and then Shiva's face! They were so broken, and she didn't stop the humiliation. I don't think I can forgive her. What kind of mother's right is this? Dhara's character got butchered in a single episode.

I don't think in original version Dhanam (Dhara) ever hit any brothers expect one time when Kathir (Shiva) came home badly drunk, that too she hit only by hands, even that scene I felt wrong. Here Dhara was hitting them so savagely. I really disliked the promo. So not going to watch today's episode.

And also if they are going by Original show then Shiva will be always bhabi bhakt.

I prefer tamil version because the characters were not so extreme like here.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Today's episode was 🤢. Please skip if violence is a trigger.

Lengthy episode of various promos and precap. Dhara beats up ShiSh, asks everyone to live sepretly, and not tell Suman about anything. You won't miss anything.

Sumary of today's episode.

Krish runs into Raavi and falls. Gaumbi catches him and Dhara starts beating him. She doesn't let anyone come in between. Shiva comes in between after Krish is hit quite a lot. Dhara went ballistic. It was like good 10-12 minutes of just beating. That's a hell lot. Shiva stood there taking everything while Krish had some reaction. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 Dhara can't beat up adult sons like that and certainly not front of his wife and other family members. When Dhara starts beating Shiva, Raavi is shocked and almost has impulse to stop, but doesn't intervene. I wish she did.

ShiSh tell Dhara that all Rishita's ever done is insulted them and she refuses to adjust to the family. Dhara gets pissed at Shiva calling her Rishita.🙄 And forces him to call her Bhabhi though he's being reluctant (he first calls her Devs wife, and Dhara asks who's Dev. And Shiva's like brother and Dhara's like older brother. Like wtf..she needs to learn that respect can't be demand. She asks them to ask her to say sorry. And they get on their knees to apologize to Rishita 🤮. Well DevTa better apologize to Raavi like that. Otherwise I am pissed. It's so humiliating. And Rishita looks on proudly as Dhara makes them call her Bhabhi and make them realize she's older than them in terms of relationship. And then when they apologize, she goes crying in Dev's arms🤮🤮

Dhara tells them that everything is seperate from now and even tells at Raavi that Shiva's her responsibility now. When Raavi's like she wasn't involved, Dhara's like Shiva's her husband and both are responsible for each others action. Then she tells Rishita to be seperate as she always wanted to be anyways. And then tells Krish she'll take care of him cause he's still her responsibility. Then she threatens that if Suman gets wind of it she'll leave including leaving Gaumbi and episode ends there.

Precap: Suman tells prafulla she won't understand the sukh of 4 sons and 3 dil. Prafulla counters that your joy is one thing but yours sons expressions speak something else like they'll run away from each other the first chance they get.

Thank god suman aage precap mein