Khuda Aur Mohabbat 3 | Discussion Thread #5 - Page 23

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

The ratings have already climbed back, it is 11.6 for yesterday. I do not doubt the show's ability to pull audience, it has pulled audience and it will till it airs but the problem is makers and channel think ratings agaye so who cares, arey we fans care yaar, we want it to be synchronized.

They too are behaving like Mahi.. kaam nikal gaya to bhaad mein jaye baki sab

Originally posted by: Ash_Smash

Yaar she has already fallen for him, there is no way she is feeling so much pain and guilt, just because of guilt, Feedi made an impact on her, whether she said or not, it's shown in a very subtle way. She did not deny to babhi that she does NOT love him, she only denied the impossible which is to have a relationship with Feedi. Two different things here, no question she has feeling, but right now her guilt is stronger, because her love intensified her guilt. We will get a confession from Mahi, but it will be much later on.

Her portrayal of guilt is auch that it is deluding all of us .. where we thought she is in love .. she was shown guilt ridden .. now where her guilt is magnified due to baddua and his death .. we feel that it is because she has feelings for her ..

Her character graph has been so volatile that it is very hard to justify - this is love or guilt ..

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Yes, because if we think practically, how can she think about him all the time and be so much guilty when she only thought he was a mulaazim, it does not make sense at all.

Also, when she denied bhabi, that was a clear indication that she was scared to admit that there is some part of her that does weaken at Feedi's presence and that is why she was desperate to send him off..

Yes not only her love intensified her guilt but his suffering has magnified her guilt too, the fact that she says 'he was very broken and I sensed that' means that his suffering has jolted her more than her guilty, she probably is so guilty because neither could she end his suffering and his last meeting was with her, it is painful that she was the last person who saw his plight before he left.

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With Taimoor's death, she will only feel like karma has tested her hard but Feedi's coming back and Multan's entire scenario will make her realize that his love and her connection to his pain is much more than any kind of guilt, it is love only.

@green: I feel his baddua also had a role to play.. it's very natural for someone to be afraid of baddua and for it to continuous to play in the back of ur head .. especially when karma hits you in some way .. it's like a song playing on loop while sitting for your exam .. khair back to discussion .. baddua and the pain she saw when she gave him didn't really help the situation .. guilt+fear+shock ..

@bold: My beef is with her portrayal of emotions .. albeit subtle through her expressions .. everytime she opens her mouth .. she throws our beliefs off the radar ..

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

No, the curse was important, but Taimoor's involvement in the story ruins everything, because Mahi would still be guilty, Taimoor's faltu death was not needed, it is important only because this death will make Feedi involve in her life and he will repent his words, which he should but I hope he is not blaming himself for the death though

If she loved Taimoor then she would not be guilty, neither she would be traumatized with Feedi's death and nor she would care that Feedi suffered, she does not love Taimoor and that is the saving grace here, because she will locate Feedi in multan and go to him by her own will 😳

Yes Mahi rani is all about Farhad at this point, it will intensify once she sees him alive, he rguilt will become relief but her state will become his suffering again.. They will meet soon

No I think Taimoors death is also necessary for karma to act like a total b**** with her .. it is then that she will realize the intensity of her mistake and the consequences or that mistake .. from hereon her journey will begin to becoming more human and breaking the class status barrier .. that's another thing that she would want to go to him .. she won't be welcome anymore ..

Yes her state (Taimoors death and his curse) would elevate his suffering even more .. probably then his journey begins for peer state

Originally posted by: _charu_

Thx dear for all the replies..what's most important is, jo galat hai hum usko galat kahein, instead of justifying it , victim shaming is wrong.... its like saying why do girls venture out at nights , why do girls wear such clothes ...we r defending rapists/molesters here....ur so right, its a patriarchal mindset ..I hope in this drama they show how wrong Farhad was...

completely agree .. jo galat hai woh galat hai .. aur yahan to dono hi galat hai .. thats the beauty of the story .. its just that the mindset is wrong where they are proving the man to be right & woman to be wrong .. technically in God's eyes .. man & woman are equals .. it is us mortals who have created inquality and twisted the things said by God ..

Anyways ..back to the discussion .. here Feedi is wrong for pushing her to admit or being in denial and being obstinate to not leave her .. it is his delusional belief which was wrong .. so no we are not justifying/supporting this behavior ..

Agree with everything you said except the bolded part..mahi.led.him.on but how ? Did she tell him she loved him, did she do pyar ka natak which led him to believe there is love between them? Imo nothing for which his friends started calling Mahi their "bhabhi"🤢

What she did is called leading him on .. meethi meethi baatein karke .. knowing fully well that he is becoming lattu over her .. letting him feel special .. all in the name of kaam nikalvana .. In couple scenes it was clearly showcased that she is deliberately doing this - calling him 'majnu', 4 din ka fun, warnings from rida & bhabhi .. ab isse leading on nahi kahenge to phir kisse?

dosti aur pyar mein farq hota hai , unless we r talking of 60 yrs bk when girls were not bold enuf to befriend a boy...that was the time when girls were called charactrless if they were seen with a boy..thy showed such an equation in kam 2 and kam1 also I think.. so it's acceptable.. theek hai..if a girl thinks her fathers izzat is ruined if she is seen with a boy it's ok , that's her values..but Mahi aisi nai thi..inspite of belonging to a pardanasheen family, wo khul ke ladke se baat bhi kar rahi thi and kaam.bhi nikala. That's what makes me believe that if she loved Farhad she would be rebellious .She wouldn't reject him under any pressure.

See I am not an expert on all the cultures but based on what I have seen & interacted & understood from it - there are different expectations from a man and different expectations from a woman .. although modern culture has set in but there are still certain things & parts in the country where they are conservative .. Someone who comes from pardanasheen family, having separate gender wings, studying in girls only college, her "freedom" and khul kar farhad se baat karna was wrong portrayed .. it was shown as if she is a flirt which i dont think is right .. Its like 2 din ki azadi mili, loot lo .. 😆 personality parivartan kar lo .. its just that paki dramas, no offense, unfortunately show a woman committing the same mistake as a man and is termed evil & not forgiven whereas a man gets forgiveness .. sad!!

I know Mahi admitted that she led him on, n I said it earlier that this might be a cultural thing..how societies function in paki, I can know only through the dramas or the reaction of people . there were loads and loads of criticism against Farhad, and not Mahi...

infact from what we heard, she recieved a lot of criticism and not him because she wasnt reciprocating his love.. so much for mohabbat in KAM3

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Knowing fully well that he is lattoo over her ? Yahi toh nai hua na yaar. She wasn't doing it intentionally to make him fall in love with her , nor did she flirt with him. "Tum bahut ache ho" doesn't mean she likes him. Friends have such casual talks all the time. Unless , they start showing some scenes in the flashback to justify Farhad, they did a pathetic job at it right now. I agree showing Mahi as flirtious was just out of the way , considering the restrictions put on her . But since ye saara kissa is based on these 3 days ki friendship / "pyar se baat karna " , it goes against Farhad.

In the library scene Mahi asks.him Maine kabhi pyar ka izhar nahi kiya. N he is like "haan nahi kiya par tumhari aankhon ne kiya, mere dil ne kaha" , arre ye kya bakwas hai bhai? He read it wrong, apni galti nai maani.

Also, people fall.apart in relationships and friendship too. Kisi ki baat ko patthar ki Lakeer maan lena kahan ki akalmandi hai?

Dono ki galti hai yes..but Farhad ki bahut bahut zyada hai. N I just hope that they don't glorify Farhad..like If it's about his guilt then he will have to see wo kahan aur kitna galat tha

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

No I think Taimoors death is also necessary for karma to act like a total b**** with her .. it is then that she will realize the intensity of her mistake and the consequences or that mistake .. from hereon her journey will begin to becoming more human and breaking the class status barrier .. that's another thing that she would want to go to him .. she won't be welcome anymore ..

Yes her state (Taimoors death and his curse) would elevate his suffering even more .. probably then his journey begins for peer state

Bade aaye ameerlog its their karma one faimly is mourning how can u be happy 😡

Yes for mahi too saying abhi itna bura waqt nahi nahi aaya .mahi beta that was totally unnessarry to say those word .

Aur farhad ko abhi ahssas joga what he did usse bhi pata chalega uske bhi karma will soon come to him

Originally posted by: awida

Yes. Her mom fainted.. why didn't they show Taimoor's mom insteed, it would've looked more relatable. But no. Hashim saab wants us to enjoy the break down of Mahi's family members as he thinks that it is all Mahi's fault.

Abhi dikhayege but i like the parallel feedi ki maa behosh hui toh mahi ki maa bhi behosh hui karma u see😈

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Her portrayal of guilt is auch that it is deluding all of us .. where we thought she is in love .. she was shown guilt ridden .. now where her guilt is magnified due to baddua and his death .. we feel that it is because she has feelings for her ..

Her character graph has been so volatile that it is very hard to justify - this is love or guilt ..

But ye pakka hai she is in farhad zone for what ever reason .she can forget anybody but she never forget farhad thats for sure .he has so much impact on her

Originally posted by: awida

Yes. Her mom fainted.. why didn't they show Taimoor's mom insteed, it would've looked more relatable. But no. Hashim saab wants us to enjoy the break down of Mahi's family members as he thinks that it is all Mahi's fault.

If the writer was mere paas tum.ho wala (sorry I keep forgetting his name ) , phir toh zaroor Mahi ko hi vamp dikhata😆 I have no idea about HN and his views on women.

It seems like he is living in pre historic Era ..ye tawaif wala bhi aamna pointed out..parda karlo parda karlo🤣 Now mahi's baarat being attacked..like 60s mein daaku hamla kar dete the🤣 and with that , modern Era ka stalker behavior. Kuch bhi ho galati ladki ki hi hoti.hai🤢