Originally posted by: libran90
Yes, it is very much slow, but maybe they planned it out this way, for some reason. I mean some creative decision to pull this negativity till 70 episodes. I thought even by 100 episodes, these MUs won't be sorted. But thankfully, atleast one truth is out in the open.
Raghav has to take responsibility for his actions, period. And that begins with this marriage and standing up for her when necessary. Overall, Pallavi is strong, but before the Deshmukhs her love becomes her weakness. That is where Raghav needs to step in time to time. They are wretched, and they need to be shown their place, in the RR way.
I understand that many people are angry at Farhad for calling Raghav a bad person. No amount of charitable work and love for kids can help your cause, if as a person you refuse to grow. I found that completely called for. Farhad tried his best to reason him out of the catastrophic plan he set in motion for Pallavi, but Raghav did not listen to his sane words. Farhad's choice of words may be bitter, but it is like, "Loha garam hai, maar do hathoda" wala scenario. With him doing that, it will be ingrained in Raghav's mind and heart that he will never leap to conclusions and let his conscience take the call when faced with such tricky and sensitive situations. Raghav needs to introspect, and bitter words bring the best outcomes in terms of personal growth.
Aai being angry with Pallavi, I guess the anger was for Raghav, which was misfired at Pallavi. I really hope so. Cause otherwise, I will be proven right again that just like Vijay, she is also good for nothing. Frankly, the more disappointing they are as a family, the more it will unlock the chains to this bonded toxicity called "Love". Hope Mandar serves as the key.
I actually think Farhad is doing the right thing. He is a mature person and saw this coming ages ago. Now he sees where both of them have ended he finds he's the only one that Anna might even listen to, the only one who understands his Anna's nature and point of view. He was there when Anna made all the plans and then made a mess of things. It's because he genuinely cares about Anna that he decided to speak plainly and not sugar coat things. It is a long-overdue wake up call and Raghav needs to hear it from 360 degrees. To hear Farhad tell him that he is not such a good man, especially at a moment like this when he needs some consolation that his soul isn't totally damned, would have a long-term impact. Otherwise, any efforts to change that he may make would be to address the symptoms and not the problem. I want to see a moody Raghav introspecting. I don't expect him to change overnight, he will keep making mistakes but will get better as he tries to be more observant of his surroundings and shows more empathy towards others.
There needs to be a defining moment too at some point when no one else stands for her/with her, but Raghav. She needs her wake up call too.
Re: slow pace, I love this. Just getting a bit worried hearing the show might end so they are wrapping up but I feel there's so much more to tell in this story. Sigh... I tried so hard not to get emotionally invested in this show but I failed. Damn.