Hum badal gaye? - Page 12

Why did Imlie tie that black bandage thing on her head? She was looking like she was going for some krantikari muhim with her Dadda😆. Her dialogues about BS ke pyaar ka dikhava were anyways contrived & then her black bandagewala look made everything more hilarious🤣.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL there still really isn't, as I responded in the previous post. Everyone seems to have forgotten that she had pretty much already guessed the part about Adi-Imlie being in love with each other since nearly a month back and already committed suicide over it😆.....so for her to mouth so many cheap comments can't even be justified under the "she was reeling with shock" angle.....lol she basically nikaaloed her pent up bhadaas over something she already had a clear idea of a while back.....but she was using the excuse of claiming it's all a big "shock" to her so that she can justify saying so much cheap nonsense. Everything is an act with her.....lol any excuse to play up her so called "delicate emotions"😆.

Of course there isn't any excuse for her vile behaviour. But this truth being hidden from Dementor Didi was the brahmastra excuse for her fans. So today was the last day that it could be used as her excuse. Now this defense cannot be used again😆.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

This expectation is so weird that we should sympathise with all 3 characters equally. All of this is just chonchle to come across as impartial or unbiased towards all the characters in SM... basically being politically correct. Main toh biased hu firstly for Imlie & then for Adi. Main toh in dono ki hi sympathy dungi... Dementor Didi ke liye I am patthar dil. Dementor Didi ki cheap baaton aur harkaton ko hum kyu ignore maare bhai?! Not knowing the truth about something doesn't give anyone a license to be a vile person.

I would have no issues giving sympathy to all three if the writing was able to back it up. But the writing for Didi is atrocious and she is a total bheja fry character. So I don’t understand how they even remotely expect her to evoke sympathy as just another victim of circumstances here. 🤷‍♀️. Adi-Imlie have been able to articulate their mistakes, their regrets to earn their share of sympathy. While Didi just throws attitude and now nasty cheap slandering too. So how are these all the same? 🙄🙄🙄

Well, I am so happy we are finally here one because how "sach batana hain" naara is going to stop and second to get verification that Didi is exactly like how we see her.

I do agree with you that everyone was their true self here. Malini's reaction was not surprising at all. She basically showed her true self. This is what she thinks. None of it was actually surprising because we always knew she was the class conscious and her getting turned down for Imlie seemed to be more hurting than the rest. Her taking him to the court totally showed the amount of love that she has for Aditya because her whole vitriol was about her ego. May be because she was prepared or not. But for me the most surprising was the multiple EMA's. Really, inki shaadi ko kitne din hua hain 😆.. I thought it was only 7 months and this was after she claimed that she loved him for sachai, imaandari and best friend claim. Really, is that all you know about your best friend? What best friend when both have no clue about the other's psyche and where one believed the other of loving another and other jumped to the conclusion that her best friend who has not looked at another girl has multiple EMA's. That was rant for the best friend claim which has started coming from nowhere.

Aditya said the truth as he sees it. He stopped Malini from maligning Imlie because Imlie is not her "gunehegaar", he is but he was in character here. With Malini, he has always suppressed his emotions and that is what he was doing. He got angry, he tried stopping her but he did not explode because for one he was in the wrong here and the second was the "lihaaz" that he has always shown her, irrespective of the boundaries she crosses. This has been their relationship since the beginning. Lack of communication. Malini speaks, he shut down. I also think that "hum badal gaye" was not that he changed because we all know this is the real him but what he wanted from life changed. First, it was his job and hence he was Ok spending his life with his best friend as it was no importance for him but now someone else has become more important to him and hence what he wants from life has changed.

Imlie finally accepted that "Adikar ke bina rishta nahi hota" but little does she know that the haq that she gave up voluntarily is now being asked back by Aditya so that she get the well deserved adikaar. 😊

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Why did Imlie tie that black bandage thing on her head? She was looking like she was going for some krantikari muhim with her Dadda😆. Her dialogues about BS ke pyaar ka dikhava were anyways contrived & then her black bandagewala look made everything more hilarious🤣.

I guess she had to tie something to stop the blood flow from her head wound toh woh dupatte ka black piece tear karke bandage kar liya 😆. It did make her look quite funny no doubt. Like I said earlier, Daaku Rani lag rahi hai.

Anyways that bandage will get changed to a regular one soon enough. Lol

Originally posted by: pamk06

Well, I am so happy we are finally here one because how "sach batana hain" naara is going to stop and second to get verification that Didi is exactly like how we see her.

I do agree with you that everyone was their true self here. Malini's reaction was not surprising at all. She basically showed her true self. This is what she thinks. None of it was actually surprising because we always knew she was the class conscious and her getting turned down for Imlie seemed to be more hurting than the rest. Her taking him to the court totally showed the amount of love that she has for Aditya because her whole vitriol was about her ego. May be because she was prepared or not. But for me the most surprising was the multiple EMA's. Really, inki shaadi ko kitne din hua hain 😆.. I thought it was only 7 months and this was after she claimed that she loved him for sachai, imaandari and best friend claim. Really, is that all you know about your best friend? What best friend when both have no clue about the other's psyche and where one believed the other of loving another and other jumped to the conclusion that her best friend who has not looked at another girl has multiple EMA's. That was rant for the best friend claim which has started coming from nowhere.

Aditya said the truth as he sees it. He stopped Malini from maligning Imlie because Imlie is not her "gunehegaar", he is but he was in character here. With Malini, he has always suppressed his emotions and that is what he was doing. He got angry, he tried stopping her but he did not explode because for one he was in the wrong here and the second was the "lihaaz" that he has always shown her, irrespective of the boundaries she crosses. This has been their relationship since the beginning. Lack of communication. Malini speaks, he shut down. I also think that "hum badal gaye" was not that he changed because we all know this is the real him but what he wanted from life changed. First, it was his job and hence he was Ok spending his life with his best friend as it was no importance for him but now someone else has become more important to him and hence what he wants from life has changed.

Imlie finally accepted that "Adikar ke bina rishta nahi hota" but little does she know that the haq that she gave up voluntarily is now being asked back by Aditya so that she get the well deserved adikaar. 😊

Why man? Why does everyone have to show courtesy to Malini alone when all she has done is said cheap stuff without proof. Venting about a marriage breaking apart is different. This was not venting - this was downright slandering.

And this is not the first time. Every time she needs to thrash around she has to impugn the others - like the sindoor drama? I understand that Aditya needed to vomit it out before she went on a tangent and he is guilty to an extent but that in no way means she gets a free pass for her behavior.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Same. At the most we will get some nice heartfelt emotional scenes between Adi Imlie but overall status quo will remain the same until Malini is in T house and the divorce isn’t finalized. Upcoming will likely be a mix of Adi-Imlie moments in T house and Baaki family ka atyachaar on Imlie as they still remain under the EMA delusion while Malini cries for sympathy in various ways 🤷‍♀️ Lol

This is why a PD track would have been a respite. Aditya and Imlie are so carefree in those surroundings. In Delhi it is as though both families are interested in one of two things - either find out what’s happening with Aditya and Malini or find out what’s cooking between Aditya and Imlie. Yeh ladki bechari pisti jaathi hai Delhi mein

Originally posted by: pamk06

Aditya said the truth as he sees it. He stopped Malini from maligning Imlie because Imlie is not her "gunehegaar", he is but he was in character here. With Malini, he has always suppressed his emotions and that is what he was doing. He got angry, he tried stopping her but he did not explode because for one he was in the wrong here and the second was the "lihaaz" that he has always shown her, irrespective of the boundaries she crosses. This has been their relationship since the beginning. Lack of communication. Malini speaks, he shut down. I also think that "hum badal gaye" was not that he changed because we all know this is the real him but what he wanted from life changed. First, it was his job and hence he was Ok spending his life with his best friend as it was no importance for him but now someone else has become more important to him and hence what he wants from life has changed.

Imlie finally accepted that "Adikar ke bina rishta nahi hota" but little does she know that the haq that she gave up voluntarily is now being asked back by Aditya so that she get the well deserved adikaar. 😊

@bold: Yes, that does seem to be their core dynamic.....completely unable to speak to each other....Malini lashes out with senseless nonsense and he shuts down without addressing her behavior.....at the most he will show some anger but that will also promptly be brushed under the carpet almost instantly.......I get that in this particular conversation, he felt he was the guilty party, the one in the wrong so he made more allowances.....but the problem is that the thing he feels guilt over is not one to be dismissed through one truth revelation....managing the fallout of this will continue to give Malini the same levers to work with that she's used before this also......so unless he figures out a way to "communicate" his thoughts regarding her behavior, this will remain a drag. I personally just find it very fatiguing to watch them now.....like when you literally start feeling dread seeing two people in a frame together....it shouldn't be this horrible to sit through a story but these two together in any scene make it so.....mainly cuz Malini has a free pass over anything given how he Adi is unable to shut down her nonsense.....either he gets too angry and then his anger becomes her excuse to play victim or he's totally unable to explain to her how she has no rights to say this about anyone....not even him no matter that he has wronged her via this marriage.

As for Imlie accepting that adhikar ke bina rishta nahin hota.....lol I wish that had actually gotten better build up than disillusionment coming from hearing HM planning and physical abuse from AC.....the intent may be one thing but the impact is quite pheeka right now vis a vis Imlie's thought process.

I get that their INTENT must have been to make Imlie realize her idealistic views of being content with her one-side nibhaaoing of her rishta are not tenable.....so she is shown to realize that there is no point hanging around in a place where the rishta itself has no meaning since it has no haq and she is only facing derision from all sides......she wonders who she is bearing it all for? lol so does that mean she was bearing it for Adi all this time otherwise? 😆....it does feel very contradictory to show her giving up her haq on her own all this while and now lamenting ki haq kyun nahin hai rishte pe😆.....again, that part didn't come across very clearly in the jumbled way they set it up......remains to be seen if the dramatic high point of the pitaayi and reunion ties it all together.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

This is why a PD track would have been a respite. Aditya and Imlie are so carefree in those surroundings. In Delhi it is as though both families are interested in one of two things - either find out what’s happening with Aditya and Malini or find out what’s cooking between Aditya and Imlie. Yeh ladki bechari pisti jaathi hai Delhi mein

No arguments from my side on that end, man😆.....PD is the only place where Adi-Imlie get a respite for a bit.....Delhi side always remains consumed with propping up or managing Didi.

I just thought of one other thing....lol what if SK beats up Adi in Delhi and drags him to PD to "apologize" to Imlie? 😆.....that is one other way of getting Adi to PD and then Imlie can come running to him there when she sees his haalat😆.....the location of the Adi-Imlie forehead kiss does look different from the one where he's getting beaten up by SK😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Lol arey Didi ji aayengi na Imlie ko bachaane aur T house waapis laane. Fikar not. Phir Adi side pe khadaa hoke khush hoga ki dono “sisters” mein “patch up” hogaya😆.

He toh anyways thinks ki sach bataa ke sab all izz well hogaya 😆. As if sach bataane se Malini apni Maa ko lekar dafaa ho jaayegi inki lives se 😆. Baat toh wahin rahegi ki gaaliyaan Imlie ko milengi, Adi will maaro some taunts to AC, then REQUEST his “BFF” Malini to samjhaao her mom, Malini will still defend her Mom’s ghatiya harkatein as “fikar” and round and round we’ll keep going 🤷‍♀️😂.

Cuz you see, Malini ji eternal victim hain toh eternal lihaaz bhi toh rehna hai na? 😆....jo log lihaaz and sympathy na dein inhein, woh heartless 😛.

Kya round robin khel rahen yeh log storytelling ke naam pe 😆

What frustrates me the most is that in trying to keep Malini in a limbo, they are downgrading Aditya’s character. They keep him out when Imlie gets insulted and when Malini insults her directly toh sirf “stop it stop it” kehte reh jaata hai banda. Yesterday’s courtesy he granted Malini was stupid for exactly this reason - if he does not go beyond token defense of Imlie, why should Imlie really be with him after all. She is already fighting her own battles toh she should just continue doing whatever she needs to get on with life separately at this rate. Pyaar, shaadi is all good but what use is it if there is no respect given or defended.

Jaise asli victim Imlie nahin Malini ho gayi. And I do not think she even needs her mom anymore to do whatever she needs to. Her garbage bin of a mind can do all kinds of manipulations on its own volition.

I will not at all be surprised if after all this, they show Malini getting Aditya and Imlie married too 🤢 Role reversal from the last time. Wohi dekhna baaki reh gaya hai