hi guys i forgot to post this..a short os on a mom[bondu] read it and share ur thoughts for it!.🤣
15 MARCH 1930
''hawa sant nhi thi uss din bas mn asnat ho rha tha... ...kaam se 12 din tak nhi rhunga ghr par.akhirir mhina hei uska...mene mna kiya tha case leene ko pr mamla zarori hei....isbar!''
the time when atur ghr were made,the time when male was only considered heir,when easy tricks wernt applied instead unskilled attendants who used hours making a woman labor whole day ,to see the new life..all that prevailed in the era.new techqniques were only for name,making a mother suffer ,when they had a bitch shame!.
bondita was on her nineth month,the most crucial time of pregnancy.back aches,spinal pain,feet aches,were common.she couldnt sleep in night due to constant wanting to pee,due to movemnt of child..still for a mother,only the life along her matters.
kaka was always hyptonized by fake ways to make the child - a male...oor healthy..
mrs.sumita,bose was a evil lady.she could never see zamindars growing.instead she wanted her daughter-in-law's sons to be adopted by them.she gritted her teeth from the day of good news.she constantly wanted to suffer the mom or the child ....
anirudh was the most tender husband,who would even spent hours talking to little bondita and massage her ached feet.
''bahu,ye lo ...''kaka handled a pudiya .
''kya hei ye kaka fir kise baba yan kisi ne diya..''said anirudh yelling.
''anirudh are...ye ..wo..isse khane se ldka hi hoga...are bose babu ki hr bahu ka ldka hi hua hei..fir buriyi kya hei azmnae mein..ku..bahu abb itna bhi nhi krskti kya...''said kaka with moist tears.
''ye rona phele bnd kijye...chi..itni kdwi..kya milya hei ismein han?ye bikol nhi...''she snatched the pudiya and ate it in a go.
''are dekho hmari bahu ko...''anirudh galred at her and left.
while ani left,bondita suffered a pain in her lower womb.what was it?it tasted something like pinappele crushed with some unknown herbs.she cried in vain for an hour..and she struggled to stand.this was the 3rd time she suffered ,but 1st time when ani is near her..
he rushed and picked a unconcisious bndita,''what happednd?kaka this is all becoz ...som fetch the doc now...''
the doc gave her an injection and she regained conciusoness...but he wasnt able to find the cause..the nurses were consolling her restless womb .
''kya unhone kuch azaeeb khiya yean piya?yan khie giri ho...yan koi stress?''
''ye...''kaka handed the pouch
the doc was horrified.it had pineapple crushed,which induces premature contractions which results in miscarriage many times ..
he rushed at the bed...and gave her injctions,''mughe itna drd ku horha hei...aahh..kuch kro na...pati babu..thik nhi lg rha..''she was weeping.with every contractions hit her flesh,she was falling weak.
''dekhie,kya haal horha hei inka...jabradsati jajaki suru hue hei...bacha tk gir jta hei ismein...''
''please kuch kijye doc...''pleaded ani looking at distresed bndita.she roared in pain while squezzing his hand.the doc gave her medicines to rest.anirudh had to immedaitely leave that night to his office 2 km from tulsipur for a 4 hour meeting with other investigators
later at the night ,a low moan escaped her mouth,as her water broke,and contraction hit her.she could feel soft and restless kicks from flesh.soon with passing time,the contraction became more painful..and every member came to help her.
miss sumita asked triclohn to let the women deal with her.he kissed bndita's forehead ,''bahu thodi der bass himmat rkho ye khndn tumhre bharsae hei..''
she was panting grasping for breath with each contraction ,swelling the flesh more.the ladies took her to atur ghr,she wasnt even aware of what was going on.as per miss sumita advice,she told to let her endure the pain for leats 6 hrs to make sure the child is healthy born.''as a ld belief,the more the mother suffers,more strong is the child..''
the roy badi was echoing with her painful voices.after 6 hrs the ladies went in atur ghar to help her .''koyeli didi ...mughe se nhi horha...pati babu kha hen...bulao na.....''her voice stopped as she felt a lower cramp from her lower middle...
the ladies were massaging her belly,but it lead to no vain.doc wasnt called as kaka dint wnated..and ani wasnt there.....
''mughe zor lgane toh do...kya kr rhi hen..app..ahhhhhhhhhhhhurghhh...''she screamed as the baby forced into the birth canal.it was almost 13 hours passed and anirudh was on the way.she was suffocating with so many members in a single hut,with no herbs to ease her pain,with no medicines ,no suppport.she tried her best to rember the magical moments spent with anirudh,her convcation day,but she couldnt..''app ko kuch nhi hoga..''she murmured under her breath and started pushing.anirudh finally reached the mansion.''kaka where 's bndita..why u r so tensed..''
''bahu ko jajaki uth chuka hei..atur ghr mein hei wo...''
fury,pain ,and stress made him rush there.''bndita..tum thik hona...''he was crying as hard as she...
''kaka mein doc basu ko abhi bulata hun,..''
''nhi anirudh 16 hr hochuke hen jajki ko ..bacha hojyega..abhi thodi der mein..''said sumita sternly
''kya mtlab hei ho jyega..bndita...''he rushed to the door.
after a lot of grunting and pushing,the baby'shead started to emerge.she threw her head back and started pushing harder...anirudh was consolling her but decided to enter the room.at that point all ladies with shame left.and only the two were left.ani holded her hand as she was crying while psuhing ...''kuch nhi hoga tumhe..jnti ho ku...''.she stopped for a while she glanced innocently...''kyu??''
''kyuki janani se badi sehnshilta,kismein nhi..! jajki ka hr ek pal..wo kast jo tum seh rhi ho..uska anumann sayd khud vishnu bhi nhi lga skate...''her smiled vanished as the baby's head started to crown heavily.anirudh checked beneath her sareee....and smiled at her to push harder.
she threw herself on the wodden bed and pushed ....crowning her shoulders...and a sweet tome echoes roy badi..the voice of anindita....
she was fainting nearly..but with her blur eyes,she could see him holding a little fairy in his hands,so small so beautiful ,just like a star in sky...
''bndita...''he said as she woke after 2 days .
he handed the smiling santa to her,and she smiled remebering all the pain she went through for almost a day....aniruhd sat beside her and kisssed her forehead,''dekha...ek baar bas apne bache ki sakl dekha toh bhul gyi na sara drad...''
''ma jo hun,bchpan mein usne kitna ksat sha hoga mughe dekhne ko ajj mein jnti hun pati babu..meri dhruv tara..anidita..''
the family slept embracing each other for the rest of time.
a ma is one who can love her/his child though irriating the kid whole day with her love.
In our generation too birth in rural area or rarely in towns has been this way,but be it 1900s or 2000s ma ka pyaar wahi hei ,hena?
sorry, i wanted to post on mother's day but i forgot to post here with watpadd ,sorry.hope u like it.
BTW,HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY,JUST CARE THEM RESPECT THEM ,THAT'S WHY ALL OF US NEED!😎