yes, exactly.
Arey ye India me toh aise hi log hote hai
Ye area ke log to aise hi hai,.....etc etc.
Honestly speaking, we all are like that. We blame the society for being hypocritical, judgemental but we too are a little bit of these things. Why complaint? either try to change it or ignore it. Complaint/blame karne se kya hoga??
And I believe that k insaan jis bhi condition me hota hai (good or bad) he is responsible for it.
Ye kya baat hui ki jab successful ho to compliment yourself but jab unsuccessful ho to blame people for it.
I mean it's easy to blame others, but it's also easy to judge people while sitting from a distance without being in their shoes.
Blaming whole Bollywood or whole community for something is wrong, but it's also not right to say that whatever happens to someone, they are responsible for it themselves.
Would you say women are themselves responsible for being harassed in public? That they shouldn't complain about it? The first step to change something is to not ignore and complain about it if you see consider it wrong.
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