Originally posted by: faja
Faja to me it was never this separate Ani and Bon. It was always Anidita. I always looked up to their faults as human faults but didn't thought much about it as long as they were my Anidita.
This individuality started after the last track. In this track, it's a new feeling, a new Ani and a new Bon. Maybe a new Anidita too. I will see to the last of this track if I can get back my old Anidita, but the chances are very dim. Koi na, it happens. 
Anidita is there only Indu, it has to change at somepoint na..This is a eautiful transformation..You know where you and to an extend I myself is stuck at..We are still with our little on....Sometime we feel why time doesnot pause for our child to remain so for a lil more time..But time has to move on
Bon is growing...She is growing and her relations too...
Indu, have you seen the change in their dynamics,What all Ani said today? In simple sentence..I am here in front of u as your shield..I am there for you waiting until the day you get to know of all you need from a relation called marriage.He said it with ease with smile,..I was too true to be real for me..If Anidita was old Anidita in their marriage.this proression or realization of Ani, we could never see..The notion of marriage and society was dreadful for him...
So Anidita is much there..with their essence as foundation in the progress to be what Anidita in meant to be in future
true she is becoming emotionally mature day by day,people say she has no self respect,this munchkin has much self respect,the marriage revelation and polygamy track was actually showing ki ab bon ka marriage mein rehna uske growth,pure heart ko hamper karega,we all thought our bon will remain child,ani ne bhi socha hoga but his little girl,his wifey is growing up and she needs space,proper environment to grow,he realised how expectations of being bahu and wife hampered her,she wihout nwng sanctity of marriage was made insecure by society,i also told way many times ki the village women who taught bon about pati se prem,they did not have right to choose their partner,they were conditioned to not turly love their husband but cnsider as patnidharm jo society ne bon ko sikhaaya as bon never have had a cursh on ani,she had idea to be wife like kaka,society taught her and we realised how she was losing herself and her identity,and her happiness.those child brides were at mercy of their shubands ,taught to serve ur husband,it was not love(pati se prem hona-gaal laal hona),bon was stuch on those sr rituals -disgusting would be feeling in her mind when she realises what was aout to happen with her and she was molested which she feels today also
like we also saw bon emotional pain at an age of growing up where she saw hwe husband second marriage,ani ne fake ki thi but kahi aise mens the jo second marriage kare wehnt thier wife was chuld bride aur koi fark nahi padhta kyun kyunki women ki age nahi bas unhe object samjha jaata tabhi bon ko maarna chahte the
pehle bon padhti thi toh sab kehte the pati vilayati hai padhi likhi patni chhata infact kaka also told to mano parents isliye she goes to school not beause going to school is very child right and bon was losing herself,us era mein girls ke teenagehood,pahses ko nahi samajhta tha,15-16 ki age mein they were mothers who themselves are incapable of handling relations,ois this not what kaka and society expected from bon which made ani dreadful
and he knows himself how he insulted bon on wedding day which can make anniverary dreadful for bon,bon will raise her voice against polygamy.
the bon we saw today in hostel,hotel is the real spirit of bon
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
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