@ Wama, remember the other day I said I have something to say! This is it! Pls read Jiggy's post!
Originally posted by: Jiggy7
Akshu, Thank you for writing it for us..
Yes, I would want to see Shakhi together at the end of the day but it's not Anokhi's job to fight Shaurya's insecurities.. It's not love if Anokhi gives up her dreams to provide security to Shaurya..
We may be sympathising with SS because of his traumatic childhood or KV's acting, but AB deserves the same sympathy and support if not more for facing her own challenging situations and not giving up.. We can't question her feelings just because she isn't breaking down already..
She has shown her grit and perseverance when she didn't cry and breakdown after the kidnapping attempt on her.. She stood her ground and explained her point to SS.. This is the woman we had been promised, we had fallen in love with and we are getting.. She doesn't love any less but she doesn't let situations or persons not even her own self cloud her vision, her aspirations, her understanding, her logic or her expectations..
She hasn't given up on SS, but she may have given up on relationship with a man she thinks will not respect her.. She has been emotionally and mentally abused in the past few days but she hasn't broken down.. She deserves assurance, deserves clarity from the man who loves her regarding her choices and dreams.. Because at the end of the day how can you believe someone loves you when he doesn't love all your shades!! How do you believe that a man loves you if he doesn't stand by you while you win the world?? How do you love a person who wants to subdue your own basic self?? How can a man who loves you not love your dreams as well!!!
OMG! Jigyasa!!! Yeh tune kya likh diya!!
Bang on! 👏
This is exactly why I wrote about Shaurya's and Anokhi's individuality... It is not Anokhi's job to deal with a grown man's issues! This is like all the other shows where woman leaves everything behind to solve her husband's problems. But our Anokhi is not like that. Either they have to work together or Shaurya needs to do it himself
You are absolutely right about this whole thing!
The fact that Anokhi has moved away from her trauma (her father's abuse) and holds composure does not mean she is not feeling the pain and is unaffected. Her determination to achieve her dreams also is a part of the trauma itself. There were some who complained that Anokhi's side of the story wasnt shown properly but I beg to differ! Anokhi has enveloped herself in her pain and tears, evolved to grow stronger and used that trauma to strengthen her self against the world bcz she always knew there is more struggle on the way... ANOKHI KNEW THAT RUNNING AWAY FROM HOME IS NOT THE END OF HER TROUBLES!!
Makes me realize that Shaurya was an open book in front of Anokhi (she may not know everything but she can read him very well now), but how much did Anokhi open up with him?
@Bold: Kya boli hai! Wah!
And Shaurya not dealing with her insecurities properly and then not standing up made a huge impact! They cannot be forgotten!! Career ka issue aane se pehle bhi unke beech unresolved issues the...
Anokhi has prioritized her career over fighting for a man who didnt fight for her... Her uncertainty did not pop up randomly! They exist because a How is she wrong about that! Anokhi has been the person to always stay clear with her words and feelings every time they spoke.. And here she lacks clarity!
I believe Shaurya and Anokhi will slowly and steadily over come this issue as they grow. There might be pain and angst on the way but they will both learn to stand up for e/o in ways they haven't yet.
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