I’m mad at Raavi today - Page 3

Originally posted by: -Srushti-

Nothing to do with the thread..Sorry TM..

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I don't think I'm mad at her, I'm not sure if I'm mad at anyone (except maybe Dev). But Raavi being like this is hard to watch for me. Just because it's not in her character, circumstances and misunderstandings have made her like this. At the same time it's annoying that she's only mad at certain people, that bit doesn't make sense.

i have not watched the episode yet but i realy dont like Ravi insulting Shiva again and again and plus joining hands the one who her lover got married ,does she think her self the educated thats what education tells us why they are using the name of the education oposit way if she does not no the basic rules and morals ,and where is Summan today, sorry to say please dont drag the education in it Ravi madam because you dont even know the meaning of it .

thank God someone started this thread here because i have been visiting this form everyday but could not found the discussion about the show . thank you again

Originally posted by: kooki07

thank God someone started this thread here because i have been visiting this form everyday but could not found the discussion about the show . thank you again

there is a Episode Discussion Thread. Everything under sun gets discussed there. A lot of us weren’t really about certain things in the episode.

I have a slightly different take on the epi.To me it felt more like she was trying to mess up with shiva not dhara. As she knows shiva doesn’t like rishita and so siding with her will automatically piss shiva off.Dhara just happened to be there in that situation 😆I don’t think she meant to hurt dhara intentionally.

Even if she was directing everything to dhara intentionally, can we really blame her? Dhara is the reason why she is stuck in an unwanted marriage with a man she dislikes and who dislikes her equally.(Of course shiva is also a victim here.)

Her siding with rishita I don’t see anything wrong in it. They all were playing game and all this was ok until she sided with rishta over dhara?? It was all in jest imo.Nothing to take anything personally.

I’m not saying what raavi did is right...just putting another pov in the mix.

Shiva’s anger however to an extent was justified.

I also mentioned that before.

I did not like raavi's attitude from wedding day itself - I know she was hurt.

She should be thankful to shiva and dhara...not mad.

Any girl in her place would not open her mouth to the person(s) who saved her from humiliation, leave alone showing attitude.

In raavi-dev fiasco, it is dev to blame for and some extent raavi, too. She never cared what dev feels about her... she was in her own dreamland.

Dhara just try to help raavi-dev unite... per her knowledge... they were in love... she tried to help them.

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

I also mentioned that before.

I did not like raavi's attitude from wedding day itself - I know she was hurt.

She should be thankful to shiva and dhara...not mad.

Any girl in her place would not open her mouth to the person(s) who saved her from humiliation, leave alone showing attitude.

In raavi-dev fiasco, it is dev to blame for and some extent raavi, too. She never cared what dev feels about her... she was in her own dreamland.

Dhara just try to help raavi-dev unite... per her knowledge... they were in love... she tried to help them.

Exactly.

She wanted to help.

Just that she got confused with that R.

But then to she went to Rishita's place but got insulted.

She only went ahead coz Gaumbi stopped her from telling Raavi and Dev gave her a word that he would never marry a girl whose family had insulted her.

Originally posted by: SRKian

I have a slightly different take on the epi.To me it felt more like she was trying to mess up with shiva not dhara. As she knows shiva doesn’t like rishita and so siding with her will automatically piss shiva off.Dhara just happened to be there in that situation 😆I don’t think she meant to hurt dhara intentionally.

Even if she was directing everything to dhara intentionally, can we really blame her? Dhara is the reason why she is stuck in an unwanted marriage with a man she dislikes and who dislikes her equally.(Of course shiva is also a victim here.)

Her siding with rishita I don’t see anything wrong in it. They all were playing game and all this was ok until she sided with rishta over dhara?? It was all in jest imo.Nothing to take anything personally.

I’m not saying what raavi did is right...just putting another pov in the mix.

Shiva’s anger however to an extent was justified.

@ bold - respectfully disagree.

eventhough I do not like crying - dumb so mahan FL, I would say dev is the reason for what ever happened with raavi and to some extent herself.

Her mausa pa blackmailed her... still she agreed to....dhara just suggested so she does not hang herself ... if she was that mature and understanding would not try to kill her self....

Who goes to that extent without your boyfriend acknowledging even once that he loves you ????

Dhara tried to be so good mahan FL - that is only her fault.

Siding with dhara is like giving her respect... authority... even if they do not agree... agree first... explain your pov and let them tell ... you are correct... that's how it works in village- joint families...

In my family, I am second DIL (out of 5 cousins in joint family), oldest DIL of the family came in 16 years before me. When my arranged marriage got fixed - I knew that I had 4 saas, my saas, two aunts IL and one SIL (almost saas) to respect, follow and coordinate with...

and I explained that to all my 3 younger SILs before their alliance got fixed with my BILs.

So they know beforehand what and how they have to live in family... if they are ready for it or not etc.

I think today's episode was random , they didn't think through it. I won't blame them.either , due to pandemic and lockdown they had to make changes.

I feel raavi was messing up with Shiva and not dhara. She was mindlessly against anything that Shiva may like..when he said no to sandwiches , she had to say yes.

I also don't think that either rishita or raavi were trying to insult dhara on purpose when she enquired about chunari. Yes , both could have simply said yes but their replies were not offensive either. All of us , at some point get irritated with our parents or elders concern. Over concern . Nobody can be as perfect as dhara is .

She does act like an overindulging mommy at times which isn't wrong..its her way of showing love and concern ..but when her sons got married , their wives would expect a little space , privacy and less interference. Raavi is acting randomly but rishita expects that.

Shiva is over protective of dhara , normally , nobody should be over reacting like this..aisa kuch nai hua ke he reprimand raavi that she is plotting against dhara. There is no plotting going on here..if raavi made a face looking at the sandwich dhara would be the first one to give her gyan on family bonding and letting go. None of this was about dhara. However Shiva can be a little soft with raavi .