Breaking hearts everytime

Sorry for not updating yesterday,

Today Anupama read the letter Vanraj left for her. Vanraj expressed his so called guilt. But I feel he should have a feeling of being shameful for his every action. He says he is tired and he is getting anxious day by day as the divorce date is coming near. Just to get relief he ran away like a coward. He is in dilemma, so woh khud hi bhaag gaya jung se. One day he said, " Iss baar Jung hogi" and see how he stepped back. He is asking for some more time. There was ample of time before the divorce. Vanraj has "Vinaash Kaale Viprit Buddhi" He knows the repercussions after his signature, it will be his Vinaash and to leave Anupama alone again is his Viprit Budhhi.

Vanraj wrote that how can I snatch my family's happiness for my happiness? Like seriously? He and this question doesn't makes sense at all. If he had worried about family than he wouldn't have indulged in EMA only. How easily he wrote Mere Pichhe Sab Sambhal lena. Still depending on Anupama

Anupama, whenever this lady is sad, my soul can feel the sadness. Rupali Ganguly once again amazing. Anupama once told when Vanraj called her mentally unstable "Mere Har Dard ki Wajah Vanraj Shah Hai" today Vanraj again proved Anupama right. 25 years she was alone, the pain of being alone in a relationship is much more and this person always keeps her alone in every fight.

Anupama so rightly said, everything will change for her. But Vanraj is getting what he likes and still he is a Bhagoda. The husband always has a choice to shift. To shift to the place where he gets happiness. This is a real scenario. When a husband is angry, they go to work and get relaxed, but what about the housewife? She never has choice. There is a limit to her patience and being alone always. The way she said about divorce was very emotional. Now the divorce will not happen and the society will say "Pati ki baat manani hi padi akhir to" I loved how she Pakhi's mouth, still she is defending her father.

Now coming to Kavya, now I feel that her insecurities are right somewhere. Vanraj hasn't even talked to her, He has told her leave me alone, he has blocked her. With Aniruddh this girl is happy. How come Kavya fell for Vanraj? He has not promised her to marry, infact he leaves her alone always. Kavya is the wrong girl, but if your love behaves in such a manner with you, then you will get angry. Not justifying her, but her anger and insecurities

Kavya comes to know about Vanraj disappearance. That shameless man broke both ladies heart. And he easily told mere pichhe sab sambhal lena. Kavya go and do a breakup with him. He doesn't loves you he loves himself only. Her patience is also being tested very badly. She became like a kid like immature for him. Samar was so right "Is insaan shaadi kaun karna chahega"

I still can't fathom how she stayed silent for 8 years and now is so obsessed

A man who did not fess up until it was exposed thank God by Rakhi. Even then he never wanted to marry her .he wanted to show Anu he has moved on , show his hypocrisy.

I feel he just wanted her to warm his bed and be a supportive sidekick.

Anu seemed to be always busy with fam since he never seems to contribute except bread winning part

Kavya still has ani who respects her why go after a mirage.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I still can't fathom how she stayed silent for 8 years and now is so obsessed

A man who did not fess up until it was exposed thank God by Rakhi. Even then he never wanted to marry her .he wanted to show Anu he has moved on , show his hypocrisy.

I feel he just wanted her to warm his bed and be a supportive sidekick.

Anu seemed to be always busy with fam since he never seems to contribute except bread winning part

Kavya still has ani who respects her why go after a mirage.

Bold lines: You can stay patient till 8 years as your mind is prepared that 8 years is a long time. But when the certain point arrives. Means she felt only 2 days are left, that point only any person tends to lose its patience and get obssessed.

You're gonna be promoted after 3 months. Out of 90 days you are patient for 88 days. But when the time comes nearer and you lose your patience. And what will happen if you not get promoted after 3 months wait. You will get obssesed. That's the case of Kavya.

As Samar aptly said, "How can someone still want to be with a man like Vanraj?"

I really pity Kavya for her low self-esteem. All her conspiracies are hurting no-one but just herself. She still had her job when Vanraj lost his, though both could have been fired, plus Kinjal is also being professional with her. Aniruddh is ready to take her back and even if she chooses to stay single, she has so many things going fine for her. But all her mera Vee, mera Vee crap will make her lose whatever little she has left.

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

As Samar aptly said, "How can someone still want to be with a man like Vanraj?"

I really pity Kavya for her low self-esteem. All her conspiracies are hurting no-one but just herself. She still had her job when Vanraj lost his, though both could have been fired, plus Kinjal is also being professional with her. Aniruddh is ready to take her back and even if she chooses to stay single, she has so many things going fine for her. But all her mera Vee, mera Vee crap will make her lose whatever little she has left.

Kavya can do so much without VEE but V is making her a crap

Today Anupamaa said everything that I have been thinking since I first daw the promo of Vanraj running away.He is such a bhagoda. He didn't even once habe shame while saying to Anu that ghar sambhal lena.

Rupali is mind-blowing as Anupamaa. She can make you cry and laugh with her. I could totally feel her pain today.

I am happy Anu said ki talaq toh hoga, meri man ki shanti ke liye. Chahe jo ho kaye Anu do not back out from divorce.I also loved how she shut Pakhi, Pakhi is exactly like her father, confused, one day she supports Anu in her decision and next day she again tries to bring Anu and vanraj together. Why the hell she can't see what is Anu going through. Why they can't understand simple thing that why should Anu not take divorce from a person who cheated her for 8 years and told her that he doesn't love her.

Kavya ki insecurity can be bcoz of Vanraj but her actions are totally her responsibility. Also its so irritating to hear her everytime going on mera V mera V 🙉 Itna toh bakri bhi main main nahi karti jitna ye V V karti hai. This woman needs to get some self respect and dump that idiot V. Sach main samar ne sahi kaha how can someone want to marry Vanraj. Is Kavya soo blind in love? It isn't like she is a teenager or too young to not understand how irrelevant she is in her V's life how he totally ignores her when he is with his family and now a days toh he was ignoring her for Anu also. Everytime she says mera V, I am like woh Anu ko sunane ke liye bol rahi hai ya khudko tasalli dene ke liye ki V uska hai. Everyone says ki Anu ne itna torture kyun jhela 25 saal tak, kyun ab tak insult bardasht karti thi Vanraj se. Anu toh phir bhi dependent thi vanraj pe, she was made to believe and consider pati as bhagwan. She had such low confidence becoz she was always told by baa that she is not good enough for Vanraj. But still she gathered courage and her self respect when she came to know about his EMA. But Kavya toh itni educated, self sufficient, smart hai still ye Vanraj jo uske saath jaise behave karta hai woh jhelti hai and still wants to marry him. V has been treating her like an extra from the time their EMA has been exposed. For 8 years she was fine without getting married to V. Then she was fine with her being his second wife also while he stays married to Anupamaa. When she was ready for all these things then her now behaving insecure and crazy doesn't make any sense and thats why I am not able to sympathise with her in this situation also.

Main toh bolti hun iss V ko dhundhne ki zaroorat hi nahi hai, jahan rehna hai rahe. Anu ko thoda mental peace to milega. This V is such a mental torture.

Is the actor still down with covid? Otherwise this track is really stupid

Wth are these writers trying to show

From Vanraj being an emotionally & mentally abusive husband, to a cheating low life, to someone who lost everything, to someone who then claims he is a victim also by that long arse speech to saying Vanraj Shah is back to again apologizing to Anupama to now running away like a coward

I’m so confused what we are supposed to make of this? This man is multipolar changing his mind behaviour etc every few episodes . Dudes channeling like 5 different personalities??

Also I’ll say it again. Kavya has been ruined to make Anu & Van look like a rational couple who could have gotten back together but can’t because of Kavya

Kavya is being written as extremely unstable and desperate. I miss the confident woman she was from beg of the show...she was insecure but not obsessed /frenzied as she is now

the show has lost its balance over the last month or two

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

As Samar aptly said, "How can someone still want to be with a man like Vanraj?"

I really pity Kavya for her low self-esteem. All her conspiracies are hurting no-one but just herself. She still had her job when Vanraj lost his, though both could have been fired, plus Kinjal is also being professional with her. Aniruddh is ready to take her back and even if she chooses to stay single, she has so many things going fine for her. But all her mera Vee, mera Vee crap will make her lose whatever little she has left.

That's where show lost the plot opportunity... For once, they could have Shown another woman as the one with self respect and leave Vanraj with her head held high... But naa, they had to turn her into typical vamp

They could have shown Kavya realizing what a moron has Vanraj been.... At home, at office.. Everywhere!!! But naa... She just saw how Anupama was reason for Kavya's misery!!

I know I shouldn't have expected alot... But these are basic realities of life...

Originally posted by: neo7

Today Anupamaa said everything that I have been thinking since I first daw the promo of Vanraj running away.He is such a bhagoda. He didn't even once habe shame while saying to Anu that ghar sambhal lena.

Rupali is mind-blowing as Anupamaa. She can make you cry and laugh with her. I could totally feel her pain today.

I am happy Anu said ki talaq toh hoga, meri man ki shanti ke liye. Chahe jo ho kaye Anu do not back out from divorce.I also loved how she shut Pakhi, Pakhi is exactly like her father, confused, one day she supports Anu in her decision and next day she again tries to bring Anu and vanraj together. Why the hell she can't see what is Anu going through. Why they can't understand simple thing that why should Anu not take divorce from a person who cheated her for 8 years and told her that he doesn't love her.

Kavya ki insecurity can be bcoz of Vanraj but her actions are totally her responsibility. Also its so irritating to hear her everytime going on mera V mera V 🙉 Itna toh bakri bhi main main nahi karti jitna ye V V karti hai. This woman needs to get some self respect and dump that idiot V. Sach main samar ne sahi kaha how can someone want to marry Vanraj. Is Kavya soo blind in love? It isn't like she is a teenager or too young to not understand how irrelevant she is in her V's life how he totally ignores her when he is with his family and now a days toh he was ignoring her for Anu also. Everytime she says mera V, I am like woh Anu ko sunane ke liye bol rahi hai ya khudko tasalli dene ke liye ki V uska hai. Everyone says ki Anu ne itna torture kyun jhela 25 saal tak, kyun ab tak insult bardasht karti thi Vanraj se. Anu toh phir bhi dependent thi vanraj pe, she was made to believe and consider pati as bhagwan. She had such low confidence becoz she was always told by baa that she is not good enough for Vanraj. But still she gathered courage and her self respect when she came to know about his EMA. But Kavya toh itni educated, self sufficient, smart hai still ye Vanraj jo uske saath jaise behave karta hai woh jhelti hai and still wants to marry him. V has been treating her like an extra from the time their EMA has been exposed. For 8 years she was fine without getting married to V. Then she was fine with her being his second wife also while he stays married to Anupamaa. When she was ready for all these things then her now behaving insecure and crazy doesn't make any sense and thats why I am not able to sympathise with her in this situation also.

Main toh bolti hun iss V ko dhundhne ki zaroorat hi nahi hai, jahan rehna hai rahe. Anu ko thoda mental peace to milega. This V is such a mental torture.

Bolded lines much truely written for Kavya. She is educated and still she is being treated like this by V. Whenever she says Mera V, I feel annoying. Anupama ke sath hotabhai to bolta hai ki yeh mere type ki nahi hai. Kavya ke saath hota hai to bolta hai isme patni nahi dikhi deti

Purple lines: Its necessary to find him, divorce ke baad jahan jaana hai chala jaaye