Unpopular opinion - Page 10

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

@bold- Just come to think of it, Sai knows about Devi's medicines. She has seen it and this can actually be a proof that what family is doing to Devi is wrong. This can be reported and there are enough proofs for it. So why the urgency to get her married(even before the kidnapping drama) rather than addressing it legally? Is it because it is Virat's family, love/respect towards them, what?

Even Virat, who always talks about being righteous, didn't want to look into what actually happened to his sister? Instead they just planned to get her married, why?

Also, why didn't Sai inform about the medicines to Virat? Lot of unanswered questions!

Sai's urgency to get Devi married is still beyond me. Many said she thinks that that's her cure and thats how Devi would be safe but I still kept saying, she could have waited considering Virat had agreed for re-investigation, even it was for proving her wrong. Had she insinuated him at the right time, without mentioning about the kidnapping track and brought the real papers, just like Pulkit got it at the marriage venue, he definitely would have gone for the investigation. When he was shown the papers at the marriage venue, he was too shocked and angry to think sanely, but had they shown the same paper to him after he came back from Amravati or got the same people to speak in his favours, without going ahead with the secret marriage, he would definitely have listened.

@bold I dont understand that part of his character. Thats where I say, he was introduced as someone else and is behaving like someone else.

About the medicines, I agree, she should have mentioned it to Virat, the day she got in Pulkit on Maha Shivratri. Both were in such a hurry to get them married , that they ignored the basic aspects of this whole issue. If not inform to the police, at least inform the officer at home, he has all the rights to know about his sister, or at least inform Aai girl. Her attitude of doing it all by herself is something I dont like, since Amey's episode, just because it works once or twice doesn't mean it will work all her life..I have even mentioned before, when Virat came with shoddy evidences, how there is no reason to believe the evidences, looking at how Pulkit has been he looked shady from every angle.

About the marriage thing I blame both, it was so stupid of both of them and even the good members of the family to get ready with the marriage as soon as truth gets revealed. You need to find how she became what she became before going for the marriage.

Well..I am double minded about sai's actions today. If I judge it in isolation , yes it wasn't exactly wrong to involve neighbours to tell the truth about devi. Kaku and gang deserve it . That's what they r really scared of. But that wasn't the place to taunt virat and pakhi ....this wasnt right.

N if I look at this incident in connection to whatever has been happening, sai did the right thing. N this is what most women do , and they must do when her in laws mistreat her like this and throw her out in the middle of the night. I have seen my cousin doing it , when she was physically abused time and again by her husband . Call the police, call neighbours..have as many witnesses as possible . If today sai filed fir against chavans even that was ok .

Till date , the way this whole thing has played out, I.blame sai more than virat . I would have preferred if she took virats call that day and tell him the truth that she is getting devi and pulkit married. I believe if he heard it from her, he wouldn't be this angry ..like..he really reached his threshold due to the constant lying and betraying that he wasn't in a position to listen at all....I don't see any reason why sai acted so offensively when virat reached the wedding venue...she could have tried explaining him what she was trying to do at home but stopped when virat started hurling insults at her. She knew virat is in dark about this affair , he wasn't responsible for devi's condition either. How the situation snowballed from there is for everyone to see.

Everything sai did till that point was horribly wrong..similarly virat was horrible wrong in the house scene. Neighbout tamasha is just an aftermath. Sai hits where it hurts the most and so does virat...ab I just want virat to learn the truth so that these beizaati rounds stop...enuf drama for the track ..iske baad if sai returns it will be like ..yes..spitting and licking it. So..bas karo sai.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Well..I am double minded about sai's actions today. If I judge it in isolation , yes it wasn't exactly wrong to involve neighbours to tell the truth about devi. Kaku and gang deserve it . That's what they r really scared of. But that wasn't the place to taunt virat and pakhi ....this wasnt right.

N if I look at this incident in connection to whatever has been happening, sai did the right thing. N this is what most women do , and they must do when her in laws mistreat her like this and throw her out in the middle of the night. I have seen my cousin doing it , when she was physically abused time and again by her husband . Call the police, call neighbours..have as many witnesses as possible . If today sai filed fir against chavans even that was ok .

Till date , the way this whole thing has played out, I.blame sai more than virat . I would have preferred if she took virats call that day and tell him the truth that she is getting devi and pulkit married. I believe if he heard it from her, he wouldn't be this angry ..like..he really reached his threshold due to the constant lying and betraying that he wasn't in a position to listen at all....I don't see any reason why sai acted so offensively when virat reached the wedding venue...she could have tried explaining him what she was trying to do at home but stopped when virat started hurling insults at her. She knew virat is in dark about this affair , he wasn't responsible for devi's condition either. How the situation snowballed from there is for everyone to see.

Everything sai did till that point was horribly wrong..similarly virat was horrible wrong in the house scene. Neighbout tamasha is just an aftermath. Sai hits where it hurts the most and so does virat...ab I just want virat to learn the truth so that these beizaati rounds stop...enuf drama for the track ..iske baad if sai returns it will be like ..yes..spitting and licking it. So..bas karo sai.

And also forum ki ladai also stops for a while may be😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Sai's urgency to get Devi married is still beyond me. Many said she thinks that that's her cure and thats hiw se would be safety but I still kept saying, she could have waited considering Virat had agreed for re-investigation, even it was for proving her wrong, but had she insinuated him at the right time, without mentioning about the kidnapping track and brought the real papers, just like Pulkit got it at the marriage venue, he definitely would have gone for the investigation. When he was shown the papers at the marriage venue, he was too shocked and angry to think sanely, but had they shown the same paper to him after he came back from Amravati or got the same people to speak in his favours, without going ahead with the secret marriage, he would definitely have listened.

@bold I dont understand that part of his character. Thats where I say, he was introduced as someone else and is behaving like someone else.

About the medicines, I agree, she should have mentioned it to Virat, the day she got in Pulkit on Maha Shivratri. Both were in such a hurry to get them married , that they ignored the basic aspects of this whole issue. If not inform to the police, at least inform the officer at home, he has all the rights to know about his sister, or at least inform Aai girl. Her attitude of doing it all by herself is something I dont like, since Amey's episode, just because it works once or twice doesn't mean it will work all her life..I have even mentioned before, when Virat came with shoddy evidences, how there is no reason to believe the evidences, looking at how Pulkit has been he looked shady from every angle.

About the marriage thing I blame both, it was so stupid of both of them and even the good members of the family to get ready with the marriage as soon as truth gets revealed. You need to find how she became what she became before going for the marriage.

This DevKit track is the worst track for me. Period.

@bold- this is where it all started. It's as if Devi and Pulkit's marriage is fixed, then he got lost in some kumbhmela just before their marriage and now that he is back, they are getting them married

I know worst comparison, but that's how I felt looking at all of them being so enthusiastic about the wedding, ignoring whatever has happened in the past.

exactly what is empowering about that behaviour implying ema what does that say about her own character living with that man if it was closed door I will say bring it on and no way am I justifying virat behaviour but two wrong doesn't make it right the empowering thing would be going to the police but no creating a scene is the better option for her their relationship needs a lots of work forget love Trust is not there half of the time they are fighting

Originally posted by: Roch

Well, i dont know what to say. I guess every one understands Virat's pain and anger. In anger Virat can throw his wife out of the house which is justified stating anger. But a wife cannot create a scene cause she feels humiliated wah, this is the society we live in.

If a man takes a step in anger that's an action out of his underlying love but a woman taking a step for self respect would not go down on anyone. And to judge this action are also female most of the time

Both were wrong and have taken drastic steps, he threw her out for his family. She is pulling down that family but is she doing it for self, well let the entire scene play out.

She is anyways going to walk out of the house, so why is she doing all this thats to be seen.

Waise the man says, he is worried about his sister and wants to go for a jog. Has time to chit chat with his best friend, have dinner talks but is not in a hurry to arrest a fraud man. Matlab ye sahi hain.

If someone really would have been bothered about sister, he would done something years ago or moved mountains within that night to bring his sister back.

Call it a shady writing or screenplay, but that was a shitty dialogue.

For me this show was never of Sai or Virat, it is their journey with too many wrongs and both learning in this phase. Sai is not right at some point and So is Virat.

Respect your opinion, but don't think what she is doing is wrong. And to someone who mentioned no husband would throw his wife out, then you guys are far from reality. There are many cases where a girl is thrown out of her in laws house for stupid reasons (An incident i know, a wife was thrown out because the husband and wife fought over who would change a kids nappy)

Anyways i mentioned to someone this forum has also become toxic just as the series, apologies but i have no interest to connect with this forum going forward.

Hi,

I am sorry that I am not going to comment on this here, I preferred to make my own post. Please go through if you like to.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5221025/how-a-person-thinks-what-a-person-deserves

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

I dont know when will the obsession to glorify itv FLs stop!

That's why Virat's character has been sabotaged. And, people are ganging up against him.

The whole family deserves the neighborhood drama. They were literally mentally, verbally and even physically abusing her itne dino se par woh nahi dikha.

I'm glad Sai told the ugly reality of egoistic chavan's to everyone out in the open. Izzat rakhne wala kaam nahi kiya hai unne kuch.

Virat helped Sai that doesn't mean she'll have to tolerate everything from his family and him. Paon ki juti nahi hai woh.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

That's why Virat's character has been sabotaged. And, people are ganging up against him.

They just need one moment to paint sai milk white & virat coal black .

They only want to prove sai hai to sahi hai

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

They just need one moment to paint sai milk white & virat coal black .

They only want to prove sai hai to sahi hai

Virat kaunse angle se galat hi hai aur Sayi kaunse angle se hamesha sahi hai. Yeh baat mujhe hazam nahi horahi.