Approaching neighbours was creepy - Page 5

Originally posted by: basherz

Good or bad, neighbors aren't gonna do a shit in cities or towns. They will gossip things for a while & get back to their work or watch tv's.

Sai in the name of defending herself & exposing Chavan's - has done nothing but shamed herself in the process. Noone dries their laundry in public, one may get public sympathy for a while but they look down upon you in future as a sorry figure. Its just popcorn time for the neighbors.

Does one really think, they will dare to enter a police officer's house - if they reckon is something wrong is happening ?

Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat, not as much as Pakhi but she still is & her venting on Virakhi is a result of that. Sai is very good in tht old saying - "apne per pe khud khulhaadi maarna", she alienates the very person - who may standup for her (once in a while at least & can shut up everyone else, unlike Ashwini/Mohit/Shivani, whom no one cares in CN)

Sai has always been shown as rude & I have never liked her strait of that, right from the gadchiroli. Standing for right thing is one & being abusive rude, just because she thinks she was wrong is not. In most families, you will get thappad for such a behavior.

In a real life, Sai would make the worst possible doctor in the world - if she finishes her degree. I hate to think of going to a doctor like her for me or anyone I am aware of.

Neighbors would definitely step in if a crime has been committed, and throwing one's wife out of the house is one. And depending on how deep she wants to go, forcing medicine to alter a person's state is definitely a crime.

She's not airing her laundry about how she gets insulted on a daily basis; she's reporting bona fide domestic abuse and actual crimes. Who cares what the neighbors think! This is somewhat parallel to CN's philosophy - "what will people say??" Doesn't matter. At all. And it just might save lives.

Virat has repeatedly shown himself to be a clown, and Sai is remembering that clown-like behavior to call him out. I'd hope any strong woman would.

Sai is never proactively rude. She is always *responding* to some insult with the same level of force. A family that allows elders to abuse, insult, and berate their younger members while they're expected to just sit and take it is absolutely disgusting and toxic. Good on her for speaking up against it, and if they do decide to slap her, they'd deserve 10x the slaps from her back. Screw that hierarchical structure - it belongs in a different century.

Sai would be an amazing doctor. She has already demonstrated standing up for what's right and has now saved two lives by the age of 18.

Originally posted by: GandiAai

Neighbors would definitely step in if a crime has been committed, and throwing one's wife out of the house is one. And depending on how deep she wants to go, forcing medicine to alter a person's state is definitely a crime.

She's not airing her laundry about how she gets insulted on a daily basis; she's reporting bona fide domestic abuse and actual crimes. Who cares what the neighbors think! This is somewhat parallel to CN's philosophy - "what will people say??" Doesn't matter. At all. And it just might save lives.

Virat has repeatedly shown himself to be a clown, and Sai is remembering that clown-like behavior to call him out. I'd hope any strong woman would.

Sai is never proactively rude. She is always *responding* to some insult with the same level of force. A family that allows elders to abuse, insult, and berate their younger members while they're expected to just sit and take it is absolutely disgusting and toxic. Good on her for speaking up against it, and if they do decide to slap her, they'd deserve 10x the slaps from her back. Screw that hierarchical structure - it belongs in a different century.

Sai would be an amazing doctor. She has already demonstrated standing up for what's right and has now saved two lives by the age of 18.

Bhagwan bache aise se doctor se jo ek mentally unstable ko mental aise stress de , kissi cheez se allergy ho udki anti allergy ki medicine ka ke vo kaam kare jiske liye , first aid ka basic rule bhi nhi aata .

I hope neighbors ask sai ki beta jab tumhe vapas aana hi tha 2 ye nataunki kyu ki thi .

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Not creepier than an IPS officer in charge of women safety in the town, throwing two women out of the house in a fit of anger at midnight even after being told multiple times that its not safe for them. Whether he asked them to stay there outside the door or not is not a question here, thats for them to decide. So yes its creepy but not creepier than what was done by a responsible police officer and a responsible(aadarshwaadi) human being. Virat still has got more points than Sai in being creepier , also since he has always claimed to be the more responsible ,educated, mature and respectable one, it gets even more creepy.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Sai also needs to know that Virakhi are not a couple. Everytime in every fight she brings Virakhi in between. Did she know that Virat refused to eat in the room. Its of no use to drag Virakhi every time in every fight. She can utter anything to Pakhi. Pakhi is the venomous person, so she deserves all Badtameez words.

This idiotic Pulkit, Sai wont be welcomed with flowers and neither she would pick up the phone, then better you reach Chavan Nivas and stand for her,. Idiotic. Kaam khatam hone ke baad tu kon mein kon

And for that Pulkit decided Sai decided to create a havoc outside the house Like seriously. This was not the right way at all. Like for Pulkit and Devyani Seriously? Un dono ko padi nahi hai tum kyun itna bada tamasha kar rahi ho. Now they are together and that's enough.

The way she approached the neighbours was so creepy. It was rude and full of revenge. If she wanted to secure Devkits future, then she can approach court, but this was a very creepy way. Chavan's deserves Beizzati, but who tells their own Dukh to everyone, without anyone asking for it. Today neighbours are on your side. People cant be trusted. Chavans will show some evidences and get there image cleared. How come everyone will trust what you said. Do you create a ruckus like this? Or you try to find the truth as per your own? 😕 What can these people do to secure Devyani's future

Virat asked her to leave his wrong, hurted her was all wrong, it was so inhumane knowing she had no place to go, but did he ask Sai to stay all night over there. And just to tell people she is right, she stayed all day outside. She could have gone to Pulkit's. Usko sabko sunana tha isiliye bahar khadi rahi. Aur uske usul, mein kabhi jhooth nahi bolti woh bhi sachh lag gaya. She made herself suffer in the midnights intentionally.

I don't think she did all that for support or anthing. I feel like she had two motifes:

1) To make sure that the family won't try to bring Devyani back or anything. If we think about it, it will work. The neighbours don't have to do anything, the fact that they are aware of what is happening will be enough for CN gang to stop doing anything regarding the matter.

2) To ruin Bhavani's so called izzat. Why did Bhavani did so much to separate Pulkit and Devi? It is for her honour. By telling everyone in the neighbourhood about it, she already ruined that honour. Sai doesn't care whether in the end people are on her side or if they are indifferent to her, she just want to ruin the Chavans reputation. According to her, she won't be coming back to this house, then why would she give a damn about the neighbourhood? She just created a tamasha, and that was exactly what she wanted to do. The Great Chavan family now became a source of tamasha in front of everyone. That was all she cared about, and she accomplished it. Baaki iske peeth peeche ye log iske baare mein kya bolte hai, she don't care. Kyuki ab uske hisaab se, yaha vaapas to aana hi nahi hai.

Now, this is the most important point. Do you really think that if Police come in the middle of a wedding and will say that this marriage can't happen, people will form a damn wall to stop them? Honey, this would never happen in real life. No one will risk getting caught by a police officer, and also, nobody cares that much either. Then why was something like this shown? Because it is a serial, and that too an Indian one. Here, the public is shown to be the epitome of kindness, generosity, and bravery. Once knowing the truth they will always side with the good and that is just what will happen now too.

Isiliye Don't think too much about this, especially about scenes like these. Bas popcorn aur cold drink uthao aur maze lo jab tak Viru ko sab kuch pata nahi chal jaata.

Originally posted by: desi-chai

totally !!! And not to forget not inches closer to what the adarshwaadi officer manhandled his wife, used his force almost twisting her hand. Cant get any disgusting than that behavior. Sai has tolerated a lot of shit from vc n cn. When Pakhi taunted her that she is after chavan's money n aishoaaram, ips babu dint say a word..so its payback time now.

I did not bring the past because that was forgiven by Sai..I brought up the recent inhuman action whose reaction is this one, which is not as worse as there real action which triggered this.

@Red I am not defending him here, even I initially thought that but the after discussions with few friends, I think that he was too taken over by Sai's betrayal that he is not registering what Pakhi has been saying all along. It was just a moment between him and Sai, where he get triggered only with something Sai has to say. So we can give him a benefit of doubt there...

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

I just loved your comment

Also, Doctors are not supposed to be kind. In fact that is the oppsoite of what doctors are supposed to be. The first rule of being a doctor is to never get attached to your patient. Never think of your patients as people you have to do good of, but rather think of them as objects, objects which are broken and you just have to give your best to repair it. Only then, will you be able to give the best kind of treatment. You ever saw Munna Bhai MBBS? In that movie, there was a scene where the main doctor (heroine's father) gave a speech in sort of beginning of the movie, about how he can't operate on his own daughter. It might have felt a bit dramatic, it is not that dramatic in real life, but still that speech was actually true.

The best example would be, suppose a patient came and you became instantly attached to that patient, and you are doctor who is really kind and wants to do good to everyone in this world,. Now, every symptoms of that patient point out to the fact that they have cancer. Now, if you are indifferent towards the person and don't care whether they have cancer or not, you will immediately ask for a test. But, if you are attached to that person, you wouldn't want them to have such a fatal disease and so you will first want to scratch out every other disease, and that wouldn't be practical or a good diagnosis. It can potentially put the the patient at risk.

I once again would like to point out that in real life it isn't usually that dramatic, but still it is something that you need to understand when you choose doctor as a profession.

Ps: sorry, if I sounded rude. That was not my intention.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly , Sai being brash is still in her character, she has always been like this confrontational , without caring about society and samaaj. She does what she feels is right .Her character is brash and she was brash. Virat's character was not what we are seeing now. Virat is someone who claimed himself to be respectful towards elders even when they are wrong, who has farz in mind over emotions , who respects women, believes in equality , is mature, educated and responsible Police Officer. Did he posses any of these mentioned characteristics last night?

Sai still needs to learn manners and needs growth. I saw a lot of growth in her when she did not misbehave with Kaku and gang when they were there at marriage hall..A lot of growth when she tried to get into the house, because the neighbours would know and make stories. It was the educated Virat who first said he doesnt care about what neighbours would think.. She was showing growth till Ninad mention the apology. She did not step out of the house, she still had her trust in Virat that he will just ask her to leave the house and not close the door on her face. To me it looked like she waited for the neighbours to get up in the morning rather than doing it intentionally to make it look more painful. Knowing the Sai she is , she could have gathered the whole neighborhood at night itself to inform them about ghar nikala at night. Would have been easier to prove as well..Chavan people can now easily claim she is lying because of her fight with Virat.. They never threw her out in the first place, thats how vile they are..

Anyway I also think, going by how neighbours thought that Shivani died, that's the level of secrecy Chavans have maintained with respect to Devi, its good she informed them that she is married has always been married.

@red: Yes, Sai became more matured than in GC. Her interaction with CN members in marriage hall reflected it.

@blue: Sai wants to protect Devi from these vultures more than anything.

@bold: Absolutely. There seems to be more layers of hidden secrets in GC. I suspect the death of Samrat's father too😉

As the kaku loves her pride izzat etc etc. She hurt them where they deserved. Any way they love to do tamasha in home sai did infront of their neighbours.

Honestly these things can be done in daily soaps. Real life mein asa kuch nhi hota

Originally posted by: Justasuperbgirl

These neighbours actually have the patience and time to stop and hear about the baseless Chavan arguments.

I'm the kind of neighbour who walks away fast wearing earphones and looking in different directions to avoid talking to anyone🤣 I walk past very silently to avoid any stupid small talks😆Best neighbour won't give a damn about your izzat and status.

She was actually acting like new reporters , gor se dekhiye is CN ko 🤣mein yaha raat bar baithi ,ye aaj ki breaking news hain.🤣

She was encouraging neighbors , hum sab aapke saath hai kaku , khud to chali gayi dusro ko fasa gayi.

Neighbours care a damn what happens in one house they care for their gossips

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Not creepier than an IPS officer in charge of women safety in the town, throwing two women out of the house in a fit of anger at midnight even after being told multiple times that its not safe for them. Whether he asked them to stay there outside the door or not is not a question here, thats for them to decide. So yes its creepy but not creepier than what was done by a responsible police officer and a responsible(aadarshwaadi) human being. Virat still has got more points than Sai in being creepier , also since he has always claimed to be the more responsible ,educated, mature and respectable one, it gets even more creepy.

Completely agree with you. I had really hoped that the makers will not copy this part from the original. But they had done just that and completely spoiled Virat's character. Being an IPS officer he needs to control his emotions especially his anger. How can they call him a responsible and mature person now. I couldn't take all this drama. Had stopped watching. Thank god the drama is finally over. Will start watching from Monday now.