Unpopular opinion

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons

1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.

2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sai claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed for reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing him and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed in the shaadi mantap.

3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.

4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor in her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to be accused. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in the Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?

Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would will we still, applaud him?

I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves this then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. I need to clarify again, I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to the same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.

I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.

Disclaimer: I am a Sairat fan and will always be. We seldom talk about Virat’s pain hence i am sharing my views

How will she report a crime of kidnapping when she doesn’t have any proof and the person kidnapped is unwilling to do anything about it?

She could file a complaint against mental harassment or something against the Chavan’s

let’s agree to disagree on the need for neighbors drama and Sai implying EMA. ( it’s her own insecurity or jealousy of how Virat takes pakhis side or supports her) and it was more targeted towards Pakhi :)

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons

1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.

2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sao claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed to reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed.

3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.

4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to get accuses of EMA. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?

Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would we still, applaud him?

I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. Need to clarify again I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.

I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.

Wow you just reflected my thoughts. I was too apprehensive to post the same opinion. What virat did is wrong in throwing her away. Period . You can’t throw your wife in any circumstances,

but what if a man who gave so much to his marriage can’t tolerate his wife not trusting him. ?! How can he explain his pain that he trusted her so much and expected her to atleast consider him as his family member. I agree he knows only half the truth but what is wrong if he feels he doesn’t want a marriage where there is no trust? Can’t he have an opinion on what he wants from a marriage? If we do role reversal will we be able to explain with same assertion that what virat feels is wrong?

love is not enough to sustain a marriage. He loves sai. Period. But if he doesn’t get the trust from her will he be able to continue in this relationship? His pain is so real!

Also I mentioned earlier also. Virat is above KJs promise when it come to his relationship with sai. She is his wife for him now and not just responsibility so the hurt is even more!

Disclaimer: I am for sairat! They are two pieces of puzzle when come together make a beautiful art. I love sai. But just can’t undermine virat’s pain.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

How will she report a crime of kidnapping when she doesn’t have any proof and the person kidnapped is unwilling to do anything about it?

She could file a complaint against mental harassment or something against the Chavan’s

let’s agree to disagree on the need for neighbors drama and Sai implying EMA. ( it’s her own insecurity or jealousy of how Virat takes pakhis side or supports her) and it was more targeted towards Pakhi :)

Romancing with her husband when both of them were under the influence. All her statements in public is targeted at Pakhi in my opinion. Any woman in her position would taunt when provoked and insulted by how Pakhi instigates Virat and he does get instigated when he is angry.

the above is how I read the scene. This was my perception.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

Romancing with her husband when both of them were under the influence. All her statements in public is targeted at Pakhi in my opinion. Any woman in her position would taunt when provoked and insulted by how Pakhi instigates Virat and he does get instigated when he is angry.

Any yes I agree Sai is ALSO at fault here. She should have trusted Virat. It wouldn’t have come to this if she had tried

Originally posted by: notaquitter

How will she report a crime of kidnapping when she doesn’t have any proof and the person kidnapped is unwilling to do anything about it?

She could file a complaint against mental harassment or something against the Chavan’s

let’s agree to disagree on the need for neighbors drama and Sai implying EMA. ( it’s her own insecurity or jealousy of how Virat takes pakhis side or supports her) and it was more targeted towards Pakhi :)

Bold : is it ok that if u r jealous or insecure then u can question anyone's character ?

It just me who never supported jealousy tracks coz I know how ugly such tracks turn out & really hated when virat when to college to meet aniket it was totally wrong .

If today Sai us raising question in virat's character then why to run for suicide when virat raise question on her character .

Matlab sai ki self respect self respect hain but virat ji self respect khachra hain that she can crush it under her feets .

This neighborhood drama is such a low point of this character, I don't get how people enjoy something like this, If she wasn't going to return then it would be somewhat understandable but it just feels spitting and licking

This insult of Chauhan family would have been greater if police had come to arrest them for kidnapping Chomu but why would Sai Joshi, daughter of a policeman report a crime, she'd rather hide it because she doesn't want to hurt her husband. Justice? Who cares? She'd rather help criminals

Of course, she didn't hurt him with this drama and questioning his character, that doesn't hurt him

Sai's character is caricature at best, it doesn't empower anyone as her actions be it marriage of DevKit when the right method would have been getting Devi Tai the correct medical attention and report a crime when you know about it

This neighborhood drama serves no purpose whatsoever

Sai taunting virat is more of her insecurity. I don’t think she means it. She wants to hear from his mouth that it is only her he loves :) typical female expectation. But yes she should not raise in front of neighbors. That’s her character trait to do what she pleases. She kind of taken him for granted, her way of trusting him.

but yeah this separation is needed for them to show this. For virat he will understand you just can’t cut ties if your wife makes a unintentional mistake (what if pulkit is indeed a crook ). Sai will understand to not take him for granted and do things that hurts him. It is give and take.

we as audience know these things but virat and sai are in each other’s blindspot. They know they are in love but can’t see each other’s love for them.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

How will she report a crime of kidnapping when she doesn’t have any proof and the person kidnapped is unwilling to do anything about it?

She could file a complaint against mental harassment or something against the Chavan’s

let’s agree to disagree on the need for neighbors drama and Sai implying EMA. ( it’s her own insecurity or jealousy of how Virat takes pakhis side or supports her) and it was more targeted towards Pakhi :)

When she said looking at Virat to have a “good time “ it was implied for both. Her insecurity isn't a valid reason to point fingers at someone's character. I would still understand if she does that in their room but in public raising fingers at his character is not acceptable for me.

Sai was in her senses when the dupatta almost kiss happened. She was aware of what was happening between them.

We all agree that both made mistakes but both their reaction to each other mistake was wrong.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

It's not Sai’s responsibility to gather the proofs. The investigating officer must find the culprit and the real mastermind.

When she said looking at Virat to have a “good time “ it was implied for both. Her insecurity isn't a valid reason to point fingers at someone's character. I would still understand if she does that in their room but in public raising fingers at his character is not acceptable for me.

Sai was in her senses when the dupatta almost kiss happened. She was aware of what was happening between them.

We all agree that both made mistakes but both their reaction to each other mistake was wrong.

Yeah exactly! I like how you put it. I used blindspot analogy in previous post. 😬