Originally posted by: asmi_joya
I was against both the dramas, Virat throwing her out of the house because of the number of times he was shown to be guilty about it, have heard it was different from other versions and Sai doing the neighbour drama.. RIght now its like TIT for TAT for them. You hurt be with a stone and I will give it back with a brick. Being treated like how she was treated last night, its very difficult for someone like Sai to act impactfully and gracefully. Many women would get into their Badla mode. Had he just separated himself from her in a respectful manner it would have been a different case altogether.. For drama purpose it works though. Regarding calling neighbours, I have seen women doing it when they are beaten up by their husbands.. in real life as well..😔Sai is brash and hence would do brash things...its not something out of her character..
I understand what you are saying and I agree to a certain extent. I agree it's TiT fiorTAT but when he realizes his mistake and apologizes for it will Sai also do the same? This is the problem I have with the characterization. I have never seen an educated person washing their dirty linen in public.
Regarding Sai questioning Virat's character , well more than assassination its a taunt to actually both of them. That's the insecurity that speaks. She is at the other side of the door, being told that she is out of her husband's life standing at the opposite with the woman he claimed to love gloating over there. They are one team and she in the opposite side. The other one is still in his life standing beside him, instigating him , calling her names, gold digger, with their husband standing there and not stopping her and also reprimanding her for talking like that with the lady who started with the insults (for his own reasons I am sure). She is still with him and probably as per Sai is still his love, while she herself has been thrown out of his life. Its her retaliation. Which family are we talking about? This is the same family who still questions the wife for accompanying her husband on the trip and hails the Vehni for doing what she did or what she does. Also hails her for insulting his mother.. Sai says it infront of family, because she knows family fuels it, allows it. She is smart enough to know it and gathered it clearly during Ladakh's episode, when she was scolded, called names by everyone for accompanying her husband, while Patralekha was given all the sympathies..She knows everyone knows and encourages it and thats why she says it..Earlier she would not do that because she thought family is clueless about it, she did say itni raat ko aapko yaha dekhkar gharwale galat sochenge.. Now she knows nahi sochenge ulta bhejenge Sai is doing what normally women tend to do.. Even Aai taunted Virat today, that he not bother, someone is there to take care of him standing on her one leg. infront of the whole family.
If it's done within the four walls of their room, it can be termed as insecurity but time and again doing it in public is questioning his character. Aai was wrong too. If she has concerns she should talk to him in private and Aai should realize she was somewhere responsible for this mess.
A friend of mine when fought with her boyfriend and had her breakups would tell him to go back to a girl, saying she is still waiting for you , messaging you.. even though she knew he is not into that woman and has clearly told her in words.. It was her way to hurt him, hirt him bad because she was hurt and yea she did it infront of us..Happens when the relationship is new and has not progressed.. Here Virat has never denied he loves Pakhi in words, if he has not accepted it recently. Sai is being her insecure self.
Romancing the one you love, when you are under the affect of alcohol , is not something under control.. Your true emotions come out. Its wrong even if I look at it from Virat's angle.. But that was not wrong, they were both intoxicated. Even when intoxicated she stopped herself from dreaming. When sane Sai has never crossed her boundaries with Virat, even in her dreams. So I would not call what happened in holi wrong, she was intoxicated, Virat was intoxicated , both were their unfiltered self.
Firstly, I doing believe there is anything wrong if two adults romance with each other. She wasn't intoxicated when the dupatta stupor happened. She immediately hatched the plan to elope Devi. She was in her senses when she almost kissed her husband. They is nothing wrong but if she believes he is having an affair with someone then how could she romance him. Either she says to hurt Virat and knows he is loyal to her in every sense.
Both characters have damaged their relationship, there is more damage than establishment, its exhausting for me. I just feel like getting away from it all.. They need to stay away from each other at least till they gather their emotions..
I agree. There is too much toxicity. I didn't sign up for Throwing out and creating a scene in front of neighbors.
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