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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Exactly. She only shared stuff that would get her sympathy. She didn't share what she did. A smart move I never knew she had this quality in her.

There are lot of things common in sairat... Few of they are their fight for right, there fierceness, their good heart but they also share one bad trait...

When they angry they stoop to low levels and hurt eachother in ways which they wouldn't have thought of... They don't even think of they are doing right or wrong, just do it to hurt the other

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadiltl

that’s the conflict point in the story I guess. I read KD plot in wiki and see that she will have trust issues throughout . That will be a constant conflict in their marriage. I guess. But that’s the beauty of the story right. How she overcomes that ?! No marriage is perfect after all. I m fully prepared to enjoy the ride . 👍

She would be confused about their feelings and I am ok with that but she doesn't realize her mistakes she committed while getting Devkit married. Trust is very important in any relationship be it friends, family, or spouses. In KD, Emon never realizes this.
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

There are lot of things common in sairat... Few of they are their fight for right, there fierceness, their good heart but they also share one bad trait...

When they angry they stoop to low levels and hurt eachother in ways which they wouldn't have thought of... They don't even think of they are doing right or wrong, just do it to hurt the other

@Bold Completely agree. Their anger beings the worst in each other
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saichintalli

There are lot of things common in sairat... Few of they are their fight for right, there fierceness, their good heart but they also share one bad trait...

When they angry they stoop to low levels and hurt eachother in ways which they wouldn't have thought of... They don't even think of they are doing right or wrong, just do it to hurt the other

@bold

Aggreable to an extent dear, even I have said that when Sai and Virat are angry, the others (as in family,)involve themselves voluntarily, but for Sai and Virat, it's only them in this. You throw one at me, I'll give back one to you stronger, that's what goes on in their mind.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

@bold

Aggreable to an extent dear, even I have said that when Sai and Virat are angry, the others (as in family,)involve themselves voluntarily, but for Sai and Virat, it's only them in this. You throw one at me, I'll give back one to you stronger, that's what goes on in their mind.

That's the whole problem na...the one ( I mean both Sai and virat ) always try to be one the side of right will not even give a thought about their actions when they are angry.... When they are in Normal mood they will be like Meri pathi and Meri patni and put eachother at heights but when they are angry mode... They won't even consider the other as family throw them down at once. Sai did wrong by going on virat back (wrong)--- virat throws her out of house (wrong)--- sai insulting him infront of everyone ( wrong).... Ithne sare wrongs ke saath sahi kaha see hoga.... She could have told Devi story to neighbors without dragging virat bcoz kaku gang deserves it

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons


1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.


2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sai claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed for reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing him and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed in the shaadi mantap.


3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.


4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor in her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to be accused. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in the Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?


Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would will we still, applaud him?


I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves this then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. I need to clarify again, I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to the same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.


I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.


Disclaimer: I am a Sairat fan and will always be. We seldom talk about Virat’s pain hence i am sharing my views

Finally someone voiced out what i felt. But is it me or they totally severed ties in an ugly way? Its too much from my perspective. The neighborhood drama is plain weird. Neighbors don’t care about Devi. Virat is dense and stupid but he still doesn’t know half of things Sai knows and she doesn’t wanna tell them. This is just plain negativity at this point.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I was against both the dramas, Virat throwing her out of the house because of the number of times he was shown to be guilty about it, have heard it was different from other versions and Sai doing the neighbour drama.. RIght now its like TIT for TAT for them. You hurt be with a stone and I will give it back with a brick. Being treated like how she was treated last night, its very difficult for someone like Sai to act impactfully and gracefully. Many women would get into their Badla mode. Had he just separated himself from her in a respectful manner it would have been a different case altogether.. For drama purpose it works though. Regarding calling neighbours, I have seen women doing it when they are beaten up by their husbands.. in real life as well..😔Sai is brash and hence would do brash things...its not something out of her character..

Regarding Sai questioning Virat's character , well more than assassination its a taunt to actually both of them. That's the insecurity that speaks. She is at the other side of the door, being told that she is out of her husband's life standing at the opposite with the woman he claimed to love gloating over there. They are one team and she in the opposite side. The other one is still in his life standing beside him, instigating him , calling her names, gold digger, with their husband standing there and not stopping her and also reprimanding her for talking like that with the lady who started with the insults (for his own reasons I am sure). She is still with him and probably as per Sai is still his love, while she herself has been thrown out of his life. Its her retaliation. Which family are we talking about? This is the same family who still questions the wife for accompanying her husband on the trip and hails the Vehni for doing what she did or what she does. Also hails her for insulting his mother.. Sai says it infront of family, because she knows family fuels it, allows it. She is smart enough to know it and gathered it clearly during Ladakh's episode, when she was scolded, called names by everyone for accompanying her husband, while Patralekha was given all the sympathies..She knows everyone knows and encourages it and thats why she says it..Earlier she would not do that because she thought family is clueless about it, she did say itni raat ko aapko yaha dekhkar gharwale galat sochenge.. Now she knows nahi sochenge ulta bhejenge Sai is doing what normally women tend to do.. Even Aai taunted Virat today, that he not bother, someone is there to take care of him standing on her one leg. infront of the whole family.


A friend of mine when fought with her boyfriend and had her breakups would tell him to go back to a girl, saying she is still waiting for you , messaging you.. even though she knew he is not into that woman and has clearly told her in words.. It was her way to hurt him, hirt him bad because she was hurt and yea she did it infront of us..Happens when the relationship is new and has not progressed.. Here Virat has never denied he loves Pakhi in words, if he has not accepted it recently. Sai is being her insecure self.


Romancing the one you love, when you are under the affect of alcohol , is not something under control.. Your true emotions come out. Its wrong even if I look at it from Virat's angle.. But that was not wrong, they were both intoxicated. Even when intoxicated she stopped herself from dreaming. When sane Sai has never crossed her boundaries with Virat, even in her dreams. So I would not call what happened in holi wrong, she was intoxicated, Virat was intoxicated , both were their unfiltered self.

Both characters have damaged their relationship, there is more damage than establishment, its exhausting for me. I just feel like getting away from it all.. They need to stay away from each other at least till they gather their emotions..

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: piapriya

Finally someone voiced out what i felt. But is it me or they totally severed ties in an ugly way? Its too much from my perspective. The neighborhood drama is plain weird. Neighbors don’t care about Devi. Virat is dense and stupid but he still doesn’t know half of things Sai knows and she doesn’t wanna tell them. This is just plain negativity at this point.

Neighbors care only about gossip and the whole act was not done to favor Devi. It was well-planned revenge. Not once has Sai regretted keeping Virat in dark about the whole issue. They will be back with each other after all the dramas 😪
Edited by 404_NotFound - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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I do think they have an awesome chemistry, both in funny scenes and face-offs..

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