Neil as Virat in today's episode. - Page 8

Originally posted by: Hari73

May b I am the only one not liking neil acting. His acting comes out as artificial. And his crying, durbin dalke dekna padega to see whether he is really shredding tears. I felt new comer sai n paki are really convincing. Neil need to work on it. Also character is poorly written compare to other character. Most dumbest IPS officer..😆

I can accept your not liking Neil to an extent (I disagree he is not a good actor, so lets agree to disagree), but cannot accept Aishwarya being better than him. Asihwarya has on a daily basis failed to emote or express in so many episodes after the initial few ones..She has destroyed the character sketch of Patralekha. The other two ladies in other versions were extremely good is what I have heard..In scenes without dialogues she fails to give a proper emotion..Even Karishma in her minimal scenes is better than this one..The show has two bad actors Pakhi and Pulkit.

Pakhi was supposed to be classy and graceful. Here we have her grace..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Virat's behaviour towards UM was an insult, a disrespect. She is not obliged to tolerate that shit for him. He should have been slapped by his Aai for it. Sai's behaviour towards Usha Maushi was rude. I speak the same words but with a lowered pitch and tone. Its just the way I am with my mother.. Even I say Mummy please baat nahi karni hai..who doesnt. One cannot come to a conclusion that Sai actually treats her as a mother and hence that way of talking. Virat also hurts his mother, but he does with so many people around. Sai has never let anyone disrespect Usha Maushi nor does she does it infront of others..at least till the latest episode. Ashwini was upset when Virat told her she takes Sai's side as she insults Kaku and Baba ..Extremely hurt. And she how it came back to him byPatralekha, thats where he should try to watch his words when he is taleking to his Aai with other's presence.

I think rude tone towards mother is subjective. I am rude you may not but that is allowed and acceptable. Only with mother it works. So my way of relating to Sai’s tone resulted from my own equation with my mother.

Originally posted by: Roch

To an extent even i agree, but i know in reality people go to this extreme and are forgiven. Having said that its still a very toxic behaviour.

In the whole scenario i understood his anger but one dialogue (may be a slip from the writer) didnt go well with me. in anger he said -

"She deserves this punishment for going against me and my family" - This was a problem.

Had he said, "She deserves this as she destroyed my sisters life" - then i would have understood.

and thats were the problem, subconsciously he also knows that she would not do anything to harm his sister. But the betrayal which he has faced is a lot for him to handle. But still cant get pass his behaviour for the past 3 episodes - With Aai, Usha Maushi and Sai (she was wrong i agree, but didnt deserve this).

Waise i have noticed, Pakhi does not respect anyone i guess- Doesn't she call Usha Maushi as Usha - the so called MAratha bahu.

I guess some time back siya had shared a post what happens when u are super angry, how the brain reacts

I am not saying virat is right but yes his temper has reached heights coz of the circumstances and the problem is that he did not get time to calm down and on top of it there were people to further agitate him

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Yes Aswini was hurt but won’t take it to heart. It is more about Virat not understanding her point and less about snubbing her before others.

I think rude tone towards mother is subjective. I am rude you may not but that is allowed and acceptable. Only with mother it works. So my way of relating to Sai’s tone resulted from my own equation with my mother.

yeah true I agree to that. And thats why when the other day some one mentioned, Virat behaves like that with Ashwini because she has the apnapan, I agreed and understood and today I also understand your point. We all have our own definitions as far as our relationship with our mothers are concerned.

Originally posted by: maahi11

I guess some time back siya had shared a post what happens when u are super angry, how the brain reacts

I am not saying virat is right but yes his temper has reached heights coz of the circumstances and the problem is that he did not get time to calm down and on top of it there were people to further agitate him

Yet that kind of temperament is detrimental for his own relationship and his health. He cannot turn inhuman because he got time to calm down..Too many people told him to let the night go as its not safe to be left out like that.. His insistence on punishing Sai , a partner reflects the mentality of Chavan men who think when wrong wives need to be "punished", like Ninad did. Meri baat nahi maani toh use uski saza milegi. 👏

Neil's acting on the show has been top notch. If at all he has not been upto the mark in recent episodes, let's cut him some slack, a person can have an off day. You can't expect someone to be on point all the time.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

She did say she would have left if it was spoken respectfully. Not like this..She knows her relationship is at stake and if he think her meddling in his family's issues is a problem , the get separated legally. Give her divorce papers.. Doesnt even have the guts to free her from himself, just screeching rishta khatam..

i was initially against public humiliation. but now i am very eagerly waiting for it. let her take down chavans in sai joshi way. i would be hailing her. they should not be able to lift their heads while going out of the house. disgusting creatures.

Originally posted by: Roch

To an extent even i agree, but i know in reality people go to this extreme and are forgiven. Having said that its still a very toxic behaviour.

In the whole scenario i understood his anger but one dialogue (may be a slip from the writer) didnt go well with me. in anger he said -

"She deserves this punishment for going against me and my family" - This was a problem.

Had he said, "She deserves this as she destroyed my sisters life" - then i would have understood.

and thats were the problem, subconsciously he also knows that she would not do anything to harm his sister. But the betrayal which he has faced is a lot for him to handle. But still cant get pass his behaviour for the past 3 episodes - With Aai, Usha Maushi and Sai (she was wrong i agree, but didnt deserve this).

Waise i have noticed, Pakhi does not respect anyone i guess- Doesn't she call Usha Maushi as Usha - the so called MAratha bahu.

agreed to what you are saying but if you are to see the effect anger has on the brain, it is extremely dangerous.. People don't think from any logical perspective tbh..

I say this from personal experience, i have made some grave mistakes while I have been angry and have hurt people I love immensely.. like my sister... I will not lie but I have called her degrading names in anger and have insulted her, she has done the same to me...

But when i realized my mistake or I should frame it better when I was able to think logically I realized my actions were extremely wrong and i moved to rectify it.

I have said things like this about my own sibling in anger and I still regret those.. but we were able to talk over it, it took time to get over the incidents but we did and we are honestly closer than before....

So my whole explanation is on how anger affects the human brain... that is why it is the biggest vice a human can possess

As for didi she is not worth it because she is entitled and selfish... the less I say about her the better.

Originally posted by: raji02

i was initially against public humiliation. but now i am very eagerly waiting for it. let her take down chavans in sai joshi way. i would be hailing her. they should not be able to lift their heads while going out of the house. disgusting creatures.

Even I was, but now I am fine with it, because of how Virat is not bothered about the his image or CN reputation when its a result of his behaviour, then he should not threated Sai with the inzaam. I want to slap him when he keeps threatening. Too many times its been mentioned what would the neighbours think, when Sai was banging, when Sai herself said neighbours would know and when Pakhi mentioned what would the neighbours say. When he is not bothered , why should Sai bother and Sai is making sure everyone knows Devi was and is married. So that no one can put her in the house and keep her locked or throw the husband away when he comes to visit her...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yes the whole concentration was on punishing Sai.. In normal situation everybody is like tumse se baat mei baat karunga/karungi let me tackle the situation first. Here priorities are different. Thats why I asked this question in your thread, why are Chavan men so obsessed with punishing their wives as they like when they think they were wrong.. The degree of punishment also depends on them.. They could be denied food, made to clean the house, thrown out of the house ..anything. Will Virat stay the whole night outside Sai's house holding his ears or wearing apne puraane juton ki maala when he realizes his mistake?

And what's funny is that when he is told that he behaving like a true Chavan he is always shocked. 😆