Anokhi vs Shaurya: Parallel scene I want to see -

So, Shaurya does not seem to be guilty of what he told Shagun in the initial episodes... Not even ounce of remorse for asking woman to give up her career for sake of marrying into Saberwals... He clearly seems to be still angry about it and at this stage he doesn't just want to have her back... He is moving on and Shagun could probably screw up his chances to now be with Anokhi...

Based on recent episodes... I do want Shaurya to finally meet Shagun and lash out at her for coming back after leaving him for her big dreams... She can go and have her fulfilling career...

Meanwhile Nikki should take stand against Vineet for not 'allowing' Babli to work and support her dreams... She should lash out at him for being abusive towards Babli's aspirations...

Both of these scenes in parallel could just bring back original flavor of differences in their thinking... And then after this... Go ahead and continue in the lala land unaware of huge gap in their way of thinking...

I feel Shaurya thinks Anokhi wants to have her career for sake of her family and meet their needs... He might not really know depth of her dreams and aspirations... Anokhi on the other hand just knows basics of his hatred towards his mom... Not his expectations and checklist... Not 100% sure if it was ever said in episodes earlier...

i completely agree with respect to shaurya and shagun...totally true analysis....

But babli and Vineet....nikki is babli's younger sister...babli should take a stand for herself...

It's not anokhi's job....people should help themselves...

And in earlier episodes...anokhi stopped Vineet from manhandling babli..once at kapurthala and at Vineet's house...

i want to see babli's struggle..her winning herself..

Anokhi for sure will support her...no doubt...

But Nikki is not responsible for babli's condition...in a way babli herself is..

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

i completely agree with respect to shaurya and shagun...totally true analysis....

But babli and Vineet....nikki is babli's younger sister...babli should take a stand for herself...

It's not anokhi's job....people should help themselves...

And in earlier episodes...anokhi stopped Vineet from manhandling babli..once at kapurthala and at Vineet's house...

i want to see babli's struggle..her winning herself..

Anokhi for sure will support her...no doubt...

But Nikki is not responsible for babli's condition...in a way babli herself is..

I am not sure if I could convey my point of view here... But let me try by setting this from my personal life...

Whenever someone on job used to rant about the work, my first reaction used to be if you don't like it... Just resign na.. Why cry and crib all the time... And when I heard things like.. What if they fire me for being open and honest it just make me anger used to know no bound...

Being a person who had previously left jobs without any offer, I was like.. Dude you have skills, capabilities and everything required to be great at your profession... Why worry about being employed here or anywhere... Your life is your responsibility... And if you decide to depend on job for your life... You are loser... " I always had this confidence and certainty in my skills that for me, I can easily find jobs or means to earn... I can take tuition, start my own work, help around but not be over dependent on my work life to prove my worth...

Was I wrong here? I didn't think so... Till one fine day, one of my really good friend slammed me...

Every person is different, everyone has different needs and I should not be judging them based on my life experiences only... I am blessed to be part of family who is well to do and supportive.. Does not mean everyone will be same off...

That's the time I realized I have always been so insensitive to people who survive because they have this job... My friend was unemployed for an year and my only solution to her was keep developing skills and it's not to not have job.. She was rejected in 10 job options because of skill gap maybe.. I just have learnt that life is different for every person.. And it's not easy...

Babli here has seen the worse.. She has an abusive husband and let's suppose he kills her someday because she raises her voice.. Who could she blame? And given the character of Vineet... He can do that...

Some people are meant to be leader.. Like Anokhi and Astha.. But Astha never set path for her own family.. Anokhi can help Gayatri and Kanchan grow professionally and help Babli...

Babli as a character has definetly developed from being intemidated little damsel to be the one to find herself a job.. She is now willing to... She has actually taken some good decisions in the past like not having a child and all.. But that does not make her as strong as Anokhi... She will take smaller steps but it would take time...

It's again life experiences that matter and both Anokhi and Babli have seen abuse, but Anokhi was lucky to have Astha and support from Rama.. Unlike Babli... She will constantly need some leader in life to show her the way and Anokhi might be the one...

And not to forget Anokhi is also not winning any of her battles at this point khud se.. It's Shaurya or Astha who keeps doing her favors too... So, there are levels of confidence here...

This isn't to say Babli is absolutely useless... Anokhi and Babli are different people.. Anokhi can depend on Babli for things she is good at and Anokhi can help Babli.. My cousin takes career advice from me, and I take cooking advice from her.. That's how it also works in real life...

I don't think Babli or anyone is blaming Nikki.. My only concern I still remember how Babli supported nikki without her husband's knowledge while paying fees when Shaurya was the one to literally create problems for Anokhi. Now Anokhi is lost in lala land without caring... They must stand and support each other..

Seriously without wasting much time on tej devil and her psychotic eyes obsessing over S can we get more of babli please? Poor girl was really talented but due to a bad parent got stuck in domestic violence. I hope she escaped from the home, divorce his ass and she Reema anokhi can together be a girl gang having their time and fulfill dreams. She needs so much love ❤️ and maybe down the road a good supportive bf, maybe even ahir. A nice contrast to shakhi the man being supportive of the female, working women and all. S can learn from this.

I hope S bursting out of anokhi regarding career women also makes her crash to reality that it's the same man who always found fault in her. Shagun shouldn't be only reason of heartbreak, then S can realise his mistake and learn it's not wrong to chose career, but wrong to make someone pick from family and career. From a long time women are managing it. Just cause he knows half baked truth of astha and shagun (it's a moot point now she's back) he can't paint them all black and white.

Character consistency is never the forte of itv writers unless it is a finite show. They can focus on only one track at a time. To top it there is the pressure of trps and have to work on a tight schedule. It is like they are writing the episode today, shooting tomorrow and releasing it the day after. So many threads are left open. The Kapurthala people except Aastha have almost vanished. We don't know how Rama is doing. If Bhalla has mellowed down or he still abuses her. Has Raja mended his ways or still bent on revenge?

Ignoring all that will try to explain Anokhi and Babli situation. Anokhi or Aastha can do only so much unless the victims themselves make an effort. Aastha could help Anokhi because she wanted her help. She asked for it. Anokhi cannot help Babli because Babli is not asking. And Babli is not asking because she knows if Vineet throws her out of the house, she has no one to fall back on. She doesn't have a job and Anokhi is living on her scholarship and meagre income from the canteen. Anokhi knows that too and that is why she doesn't push her. Unless Babli manages to stand on her own feet and earns enough confidence that she can survive on her own. Same way Aastha also could not help Gayatri because she did not ask for it. Gayatri was not confident enough. She too doesn't have support from family. Aastha or Anokhi can motivate them to an extent but the thirst to do something on her own has to be there.

One of our teachers used to say, you can take the horse to the pond but you cannot make it drink. (I don't know if there is a proper saying. I remember this version only)

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

So, Shaurya does not seem to be guilty of what he told Shagun in the initial episodes... Not even ounce of remorse for asking woman to give up her career for sake of marrying into Saberwals... He clearly seems to be still angry about it and at this stage he doesn't just want to have her back... He is moving on and Shagun could probably screw up his chances to now be with Anokhi...

Based on recent episodes... I do want Shaurya to finally meet Shagun and lash out at her for coming back after leaving him for her big dreams... She can go and have her fulfilling career...

Meanwhile Nikki should take stand against Vineet for not 'allowing' Babli to work and support her dreams... She should lash out at him for being abusive towards Babli's aspirations...

Both of these scenes in parallel could just bring back original flavor of differences in their thinking... And then after this... Go ahead and continue in the lala land unaware of huge gap in their way of thinking...

I feel Shaurya thinks Anokhi wants to have her career for sake of her family and meet their needs... He might not really know depth of her dreams and aspirations... Anokhi on the other hand just knows basics of his hatred towards his mom... Not his expectations and checklist... Not 100% sure if it was ever said in episodes earlier...

Shaurya's chhoti soch will soon be forgotten it seems. Now everything will be about Devi and Shagun conspiring against Shakhi and them fighting against it. After Shagun turns evil, whatever Shaurya did to her will be justified. Just like Devi and Tej's behaviour towards Shaan and Aastha is being justified because they did not fight enough for Shaurya. It is all about Shaurya. Shaurya ke saath jo achha kare wo achha, Shaurya ke saath jo bura kare wo bura. We don't even care that Shaan and Aastha actually suffered even more than Shaurya because they are adults. Shaurya will act all holier than thou. Anokhi will fall hopelessly in love with him and forget her ambitions. She might ultimately settle for a guest lecturer job at SIAC.

Sorry for the rant. I am losing patience with the show. Devi's manipulations is causing me acidity and Shakhi's sudden lovely doviness is causing me diabetes. Watching it only to have some fun here in the forum.

Originally posted by: Idiotboxer

Shaurya's chhoti soch will soon be forgotten it seems. Now everything will be about Devi and Shagun conspiring against Shakhi and them fighting against it. After Shagun turns evil, whatever Shaurya did to her will be justified. Just like Devi and Tej's behaviour towards Shaan and Aastha is being justified because they did not fight enough for Shaurya. It is all about Shaurya. Shaurya ke saath jo achha kare wo achha, Shaurya ke saath jo bura kare wo bura. We don't even care that Shaan and Aastha actually suffered even more than Shaurya because they are adults. Shaurya will act all holier than thou. Anokhi will fall hopelessly in love with him and forget her ambitions. She might ultimately settle for a guest lecturer job at SIAC.

Sorry for the rant. I am losing patience with the show. Devi's manipulations is causing me acidity and Shakhi's sudden lovely doviness is causing me diabetes. Watching it only to have some fun here in the forum.

I was just discussing this with haal-e-dil (sorry don't know your name yet.. If you don't mind, can I know your name) yesterday that the only reason why I am watching this show on Premium Hotstar and giving it views for each episode is because this forum is fun and I enjoy trolling and discussing characters...

I am so far not too addicted to the show that I won't be able to quit if it gets horrible.. I started off by participating in Anupama forum post revelation... Where she had strong dialogues and zero actions of strong woman... Couldn't take it... Then saw clips of Anokhi and I was like... Hmm looks interesting, active forum... Time to make a move🤣

also tagging

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I was just discussing this with haal-e-dil (sorry don't know your name yet.. If you don't mind, can I know your name) yesterday that the only reason why I am watching this show on Premium Hotstar and giving it views for each episode is because this forum is fun and I enjoy trolling and discussing characters...

I am so far not too addicted to the show that I won't be able to quit if it gets horrible.. I started off by participating in Anupama forum post revelation... Where she had strong dialogues and zero actions of strong woman... Couldn't take it... Then so clips of Anokhi and I was like... Hmm looks interesting, active forum... Time to make a move🤣

also tagging

u paid for premium wow...is it for ipl😆

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

my name is riya. Lol it seems we keep coming back to our previous conversation😆

u paid for premium wow...is it for ipl😆

My parents paid... I just use their account 🤣 but hotstar ko kya pata hai...

Plus I watch several English shows there... So, it's good to have premium..

Originally posted by: Haal-e-Dil

Seriously without wasting much time on tej devil and her psychotic eyes obsessing over S can we get more of babli please? Poor girl was really talented but due to a bad parent got stuck in domestic violence. I hope she escaped from the home, divorce his ass and she Reema anokhi can together be a girl gang having their time and fulfill dreams. She needs so much love ❤️ and maybe down the road a good supportive bf, maybe even ahir. A nice contrast to shakhi the man being supportive of the female, working women and all. S can learn from this.

I hope S bursting out of anokhi regarding career women also makes her crash to reality that it's the same man who always found fault in her. Shagun shouldn't be only reason of heartbreak, then S can realise his mistake and learn it's not wrong to chose career, but wrong to make someone pick from family and career. From a long time women are managing it. Just cause he knows half baked truth of astha and shagun (it's a moot point now she's back) he can't paint them all black and white.

I hope the show does come back to its original plot. I don't care about Shaurya... I want Anokhi to come back to that strong-willed woman who would counter wrong things at cost of hurting her loved ones (her father, for example).

I don't know why makers are currently so obsessed with Devi... And Shagun... I hope her heartbreak is not too intense.. Ki i can't watch the show... She was sooo strong as a woman.. She was shown heartbroken and max the way she was in the train to Chandigarh...