What is all of your views on love?

is it sacrificing or is something to fight for without giving up.

Doesn’t have to be limited to the above
Any guesses or thoughts on how Virat and Sai think about love

I don't believe in love only😆. My believe in love is only limited to the fictional characters, irl I don't believe in love only, True love toh durr ki baat hai.

Tbh love is both sacrificing and fighting till the point of not giving up. It depends on the situation, if you see your love is happy with a different person, it's better to sacrifice your love for the happiness of your love. But if you see that person is really not happy, you've to fight for that person, fight for that person till the last drop of your blood.

Lemme give you the example of Pulkit, he sacrificed his love when he got to know Devi is happy with another person. He didn't bother for 10 years, was happy with his daughter and Devi's memories but when he got to know she's not happy, he came running to her. Yes he didn't fight for her that what's making his love doubt. But he does love Devi Truly because he didn't give up when Devi needs him the most

As some wise man said not my words...which I follow

You should ‘fall’ in love.

What should fall here is your ‘ego’, then you can see from other’s perspective. Then there is no conflict. When there is no conflict you like each other’s presence and try to keep it. Then giving, sacrifice and adjustments come naturally. 👍

sorry if It is a jelebi. But that’s what I came to understand about love. It’s like a muscle too , keeps growing if nourished. I don’t believe in love at first sight. Sorry :)

Originally posted by: Andy3456

I don't believe in love only😆. My believe in love is only limited to the fictional characters, irl I don't believe in love only, True love toh durr ki baat hai.

Tbh love is both sacrificing and fighting till the point of not giving up. It depends on the situation, if you see your love is happy with a different person, it's better to sacrifice your love for the happiness of your love. But if you see that person is really not happy, you've to fight for that person, fight for that person till the last drop of your blood.

Lemme give you the example of Pulkit, he sacrificed his love when he got to know Devi is happy with another person. He didn't bother for 10 years, was happy with his daughter and Devi's memories but when he got to know she's not happy, he came running to her. Yes he didn't fight for her that what's making his love doubt. But he does love Devi Truly because he didn't give up when Devi needs him the most

Beautifully said with example.

I don’t believe in true love . I don’t believe in love at first sight either. I believe in comfort and basic compatibility with each other.
Rest will follow with some effort on both sides

Originally posted by: sadiltl

As some wise man said not my words...which I follow

You should ‘fall’ in love.

What should fall here is your ‘ego’, then you can see from other’s perspective. Then there is no conflict. When there is no conflict you like each other’s presence and try to keep it. Then giving, sacrifice and adjustments come naturally. 👍

sorry if It is a jelebi. But that’s what I came to understand about love. It’s like a muscle too , keeps growing if nourished. I don’t believe in love at first sight. Sorry :)

Well said. I wasn’t talking about love at first sight, even I don’t believe it. I just wrote thisOS and suddenly thought of this 😃

Aahhh love!!!

The most beautiful feeling on this planet...

for me love is sacrifice yet worth fighting for till there is nothing left to fight for..

I love being in love! Honestly the most beautiful feeling in the world.. though heartbreak sucks!
mom more of a dreamer of love tbh...

love is magical! But it can also be cruel... like every thing has its pros and cons love to has them.

Love calls for sacrifice of ego, jealousy, anger, entitlement not love itself

Loves calls to fight for happiness, togetherness, compassion, and ofcourse love itself..

sometimes people sacrifice their love because that is the right decision but sometimes people fight the world for their love...

Love calls for adjustment without changing who you are...

There is this beautiful quote from a walk to remember by Nicholas sparks that sums up love for me-

“Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins, but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes.”
As for Virat and Sai I feel they have never seen a healthy romantic relationship.. they have seen a love of mother, father, cousins, friends, family but never what happens when two people fall in love.. how does one move forward...

That is why this separation is so significant because it is their realization that love doesn’t not co exist with ego and love cannot exist without trust...

For Sai, she never saw a couple in love. She saw her Aaba loving her Aai till the last day of his life but never saw a living couple who are in love. Pulkit and Devi is the first couple in her life whom she saw are in love. And also, she didn't see them behaving in love, may be that's why she can't decipher Virat's feelings for her because she never witnessed the spousal love. But yes, for her love is fighting for the last drop of blood.

For Virat, I really don't understand his pov in love, he also never saw a couple in love in his life (considering Mohit and Karishma actually didn't fight for their love, they just married each other) may be that's why he thought his infatuation to be his love. But circumstances, made him to sacrifice his "love" for another love. So for him love is something sacrificial.

Sairat's relationship isn't toxic, till the day they allow a third and fourth person enters into their relationship, between them, I don't think so their relationship will be a healthy one. They need to let go off their ego, jealousy, selfishness as well their selflessness, they won't experience true love. Sai needs to understand Virat's POV of love and Virat needs to understand Sai's pov of love.

These are my opinion and POVs, I may be wrong

Originally posted by: notaquitter

is it sacrificing or is something to fight for without giving up.

Doesn’t have to be limited to the above
Any guesses or thoughts on how Virat and Sai think about love

This is a complicated question. Well,I don't know genuine love and don't believe much. Especially, the first sight ones, or kho jaana types,you know,flying hair,beautiful eyes, the mesmerising slow motion chuckle,it seems like comedy to me.

For me,somewhere, love is both ,sacrifice and fight, but both for a common aim here,which is happiness of the other. For instance,let me say simply , sorry of it does not makes sense, changing your certain habits for the other will make them comfortable and cared, so they will be happy. And if you fight for them as if it's your own,they feel protected and gain trust in you, again happiness.

So, this is love. I guess one should aim for the others happiness genuinely, then automatically love and all allied aspects come along.