The two-faced guilt trap - Page 18

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Malini didi aur subtle 😲 Aap bahut hi hopeful ho 😆

Subtle matlab indirect, underhanded. Malini Didi can’t start directly spewing venom like her mom na.😆

I guess we are destined to remain in a society where a woman isn't expected to have any agency 😆

Everything must be spelt out for her....a man must tell her when their relationship is over otherwise she can't comprehend anything....there should be no expectation that she ever have a mind of her own.....passivity is now the default expectation. Ok cool😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I guess we are destined to remain in a society where a woman isn't expected to have any agency 😆

Everything must be spelt out for her....a man must tell her when their relationship is over otherwise she can't comprehend anything....there should be no expectation that she ever have a mind of her own.....passivity is now the default expectation. Ok cool😆

👏 this bas 2 ansoo baha liye and woman and sympathy card khel liya and mil gayi sympathy..mission accomplished.. it gets funnier when the same.people believe this passive aggressiveness then give lectures on empowerment and Independence and wanting to.see that when they thing the women are so fragile and own no brain of their own.. thay they need to be told everything word to.word and only then they will get things .. rofl 2 totally different things..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

By that logic, he "tied" Imlie with marriage too.....lol so Imlie should also sit and do these daily tantrums like Didi ki humaari shaadi bachaao?

If there is no communication in a relationship and you are not getting any answers since so many days, what exactly are you "saving" with token hanging around? Malini has already shown she doesn't hesitate to walk out of his house on a whim so I find all these "trying to save her marriage" excuses even more hard to buy from her then.

When did I say that Imlie is not tied with the marriage!

Plz don't twist my words!

By your replay, Why Imlie didn't backoff of the marriage from the start?

There was no hope for her relation to grow!

Adi was hating her, scolding her everyday, calling her names, squash her self steam, tried to get rid of her several times, he got married in front of her, he told her several times, You are nothing, our marriage is not legal, I am not your husband, I cant give you anything, this is will not work!

But she still has her faith. And her faith is what made this relation stronger!

You will tell me now, but she has left!

Yes, she is brave! But not all womens are brave as her! And she know the truth!

But Millani is just weak! She don't have the strength to even recalled the lame jock and connect the dots!

So Adi have to tell her direct on the face, and break her heart this time, so the 3 of them sort out the mess that the 3 of them has created!

I am totally with Imlie side!!

I completely agree with AY.

Here coz Imlie is a known party and Malini doesn’t know the truth, she is innocent and she should be protected?

As Imlie is used to atrocities of life she should continue to bear them? So unfair. And why Malini have to live in a loveless marriage, she deserves to be happy too.

First of all, Imlie should be confident of herself. Every time she says Malini treated as her equal. In what she is beneath Malini? I don’t understand.

I think they should concentrate on building Imlie’s confidence first...

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

👏 this bas 2 ansoo baha liye and woman and sympathy card khel liya and mil gayi sympathy..mission accomplished.. it gets funnier when the same.people believe this passive aggressiveness then give lectures on empowerment and Independence and wanting to.see that when they thing the women are so fragile and own no brain of their own.. thay they need to be told everything word to.word and only then they will get things .. rofl 2 totally different things..

I think I've reached my quota limit of being pakaaoed for the day so maine toh haath jod liye ji😆.....as if the epi wasn't pakaau enough ki ab yeh sab bhi sunein baith ke. Humein maaf karo.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

In which point did I say that Millani is full bichaari, a saint , a divi who don't have any wrongs?!

I am totally with you in everypoint!

You are most welcome to go and see my posts about Millani

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156330385

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156416217

I am just saying that I understand her reaction! But that is not mean that I am justifying it or I am with her! And that she done good!!

I dont know, why you are reacting like this!

If I am not totally with you, that mean I am against you!

That why I hesitate to reply to this thread!

You didn't want the negative vibes of spamming and old versions stuff to be in this thread

I was totally at your side , I understand your stand, and appretitate your efforts, and I was annoyed by it too!

But if I had another pov of a little thing, that is different of yours, why you do all this attack?!

And replaying as I did a sin! By only sympathy a little with Millani , and whitewash everything that I ever said and wrote in this forum!

Isn't suppose to be a healthy discussion and thread that we all free to put our different perspectives? Why do I have to think twice before posting my idea?

So is that mean a new role for this threads, If you don't match our thinking go and open your own thread! You are not welcome

I am really disappointed, but it is clear to me now, and I will follow the new role!

Just enjoy the ride!

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I dont know, why you are reacting like this!

If I am not totally with you, that mean I am against you!

That why I hesitate to reply to this thread!

You didn't want the negative vibes of spamming and old versions stuff to be in this thread

I was totally at your side , I understand your stand, and appretitate your efforts, and I was annoyed by it too!

But if I had another pov of a little thing, that is different of yours, why you do all this attack?!

And replaying as I did a sin! By only sympathy a little with Millani , and whitewash everything that I ever said and wrote in this forum!

Isn't suppose to be a healthy discussion and thread that we all free to put our different perspectives? Why do I have to think twice before posting my idea?

So is that mean a new role for this threads, If you don't match our thinking go and open your own thread! You are not welcome

I am really disappointed, but it is clear to me now, and I will follow the new role!

Just enjoy the ride!

Nobody is.saying you shouldn't post.. you posted your viewpoint and that is fine we countered it by what we thought is right.. nobody is attacking you.. we are just beyond tired of malini and her whitewashing that's it.. Don't take it personally..you said what you felt is right and we are OK with it...let's just agree to disagree and moveon ..😃 we all won't be on same page all the time.. that is the nature.. nothing against you personally 😳 Don't overthink 🤗

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I dont know, why you are reacting like this!

If I am not totally with you, that mean I am against you!

That why I hesitate to reply to this thread!

You didn't want the negative vibes of spamming and old versions stuff to be in this thread

I was totally at your side , I understand your stand, and appretitate your efforts, and I was annoyed by it too!

But if I had another pov of a little thing, that is different of yours, why you do all this attack?!

And replaying as I did a sin! By only sympathy a little with Millani , and whitewash everything that I ever said and wrote in this forum!

Isn't suppose to be a healthy discussion and thread that we all free to put our different perspectives? Why do I have to think twice before posting my idea?

So is that mean a new role for this threads, If you don't match our thinking go and open your own thread! You are not welcome

I am really disappointed, but it is clear to me now, and I will follow the new role!

Just enjoy the ride!

I have no idea what you've understood or what you've presumed but you are welcome to whatever disappointment you have decided.

I've had a long and tiring day and I really don't have the patience left to decipher what you want to imagine and accuse me of. Your choice if you want to paint me as some ghoul who can't handle opposing opinions.

Have a nice day.