The two-faced guilt trap - Page 17

Created

Last reply

Replies

181

Views

13.4k

Users

33

Likes

875

Frequent Posters

MuteButton thumbnail
Dazzler Thumbnail 4th Anniversary Thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

There is no equating Aditya/Pari and Imlie/Malini. Prakash knows the truth. Malini does not.

She cannot download on Imlie just because she does not want to hear the truth from her husband. And it is not new. She has been this way from the time she collapsed the first time. Her problem is with Aditya. She needs to deal with Aditya; not misbehave with Imlie. If she is losing her husband’s attention, she asks Aditya why. Not give a bhaashan on supposed manners to any onlooker; especially Imlie.

There is just no understanding or empathizing with what Malini did in the last episode.

AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Word.. that Prakash has an ulterior motive he has been vicious from day 1 lustinf over imlie wanting her for himself trying to break adi imlie wih stupidest reasons so.he could have her.. the scenario is totally different even if malini wants adi for herself here and told imlie off she is still married in her head to adi unlike that stupid Prakash. Besides imlie wasn't trying to snatch adi whatsoever or landed in the room after planning ke inka moment kharab karna hai ya kuch bhi she just entered on her mother's instructions and apologized right away and felt weird she wasn't coming IN BETWEEN in anyway like that Prakash likes to plant himself.. imlie had no motive behind this . It was no planned move


Exactly. I don't know why that crucial difference is being missed. Imlie determinedly tries to keep herself away from coming between Adi-Malini in any form and still Malini talks such crap to her.....uske baad we are expected to find Malini's "jealousy" understandable? 😕😆.....Woh Pari even before knowing the truth very much still used to taunt Adi and make sly statements cuz he clearly disliked Adi....toh Adi ne bhi palat ke jealousy dikha di. How is an Imlie who just innocently showed up with a glass of lassi being put in the same category? Malini ki endless insecurities bhi ab sab Imlie ki galti hain ki woh apne khud ke so called "love of the life" ko 1% bhi nahin jaan paayi? *rolls eyes*....I have no sympathy for this lameness.

MuteButton thumbnail
Dazzler Thumbnail 4th Anniversary Thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


LOL I don't really bash him in general and even in his dumbest moments, I can see some pattern more or less to what he's thinking/doing....yesterday's scene didn't provide that which is what made it more irritating than usual😆


😆 I hope they clear it up the way they did the PD/Delhi dialogue. Dekhte hain.

AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli


Rofl adi should set her free.. isn't that the other way round.. that the woman should set adi free if she is so.dukhi and insecure.. she is the one clinging onto him.he did just fine without her and to quote malini when was the last time adi even missed this madam.. never caz she is not that important never was.. so who is caging who then...who can't even think ke.if they indeed have become so distant maybe it was never meant to be..


And when someone can't even give you a response when you ask him when was the last time he missed you.....😆....what do you say to that woman who then STILL keeps staying with that man? Who's "caging" whom then? He isn't even giving you token assurance and you still desperately want to cling to him....so how is HE responsible for your state anymore then? You've shown your capability to exit from his life when you want to throw a tantrum....lol not like he dragged you back to his house zabardasti....so please cut the faltu ki nautanki.

Edited by AreYaar - 4 years ago
AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

And am scared.. let me go and grab all the comfort food.before hand to deal with sadma in case the outcome isn't what we are looking for😆


Waise to SP posted the promo once again today idk what they are trying to hype aisa kya hai


LOL main bhi darr darr ke dekhungi aaj....maybe I'll wait for your update first😆

Josupra thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 30 Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

You speak my mind!


-------

I didn't find Millani at the very dark side on the nock door thing, I can totally understand her reaction here 🙈


She is already frustrated and don't know what is happing, her relation is on it is way to be broken, her husband had change without any reason, he is not showing any affection toward her for more than 2 weeks, she is already jealous from Imlie and her mother words still alive in her mind! So once Imli come all of that has just bomb on her face 💔


I really felt bad for both today! 🙈


Adi has to MANUP, period!

Why he needs Imlie conformation to do so?


It is not fair to Milani , if he cant have to proceed a normal life with her anyway! And he don't love her anymore, why he keep her by his side! Just send her free!


And then deal with imle!


In the limited interactions we had, you and me agree on a lot of things 🤗


I didn't had a problem with Adi's reaction today but if he doesn't call out Malini's uncalled for behavior with Imlie today, I will have a problem with that.


@bold.. Exactly, why does he need Imlie's agreement to end Malini and his relationship. He knows that relationship will not work because he doesn't love her and loves some one else, so it should be only his decision.

Guiltyo0o thumbnail
4th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


You're making it sound like Adi has CAGED Malini into staying with him 😕😆.....who's stopping her from leaving? She already left his house once, she's most welcome to leave again.....why exactly does she need Adi to "set her free".....he stopped holding on a while back and any woman with half a brain would have walked out on him.....lol but Malini didi is the one who insists on clinging to him.


I'm honestly at a loss for why I'm expected to sympathize with Malini after THIS episode out of all😕😆


Yes he is!!

He tied her with marriage!


They are not in a GF/BF relation to just walk away anytime you feel like to do!


Any women will fight to save her marriage with the one she love, and she still have the idea that he shared the same feeling with her!


Until he confess he is not likely coming back to the old Adi she loves, he didn't love her from the beginning, and this marriage is beyond fixing and it is over and no chance for a workout, she will not back off!


If she after confess didnt backoff, I will see her at the dark side!


I am totally with you on the point , that she is annoying, she avoid the truth, she maybe stupid also for not putting all the clues together already! , she is only acting to be the good one in front of all!

And I am seriously want to go to her and slap her to just WAKE UP SIS!

But in the same time , I can understand her reactions

Edited by Guiltyo0o - 4 years ago
AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o


Yes he is!!

He tied her with marriage!


They are not in a GF/BF relation to just walk away anytime you feel like to do!



By that logic, he "tied" Imlie with marriage too.....lol so Imlie should also sit and do these daily tantrums like Didi ki humaari shaadi bachaao?


If there is no communication in a relationship and you are not getting any answers since so many days, what exactly are you "saving" with token hanging around? Malini has already shown she doesn't hesitate to walk out of his house on a whim so I find all these "trying to save her marriage" excuses even more hard to buy from her then.

AreYaar thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton

There is no equating Aditya/Pari and Imlie/Malini. Prakash knows the truth. Malini does not.

She cannot download on Imlie just because she does not want to hear the truth from her husband. And it is not new. She has been this way from the time she collapsed the first time. Her problem is with Aditya. She needs to deal with Aditya; not misbehave with Imlie. If she is losing her husband’s attention, she asks Aditya why. Not give a bhaashan on supposed manners to any onlooker; especially Imlie.

There is just no understanding or empathizing with what Malini did in the last episode.


Thank you. I was starting to wonder if this wasn't apparent after still having to read justifications for Malini's behavior from this episode 😆. What a day. After a point, I guess you cannot reason with people if they are determined to twist Malini into something she is not. *shrugs*

Guiltyo0o thumbnail
4th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Josupra


In the limited interactions we had, you and me agree on a lot of things 🤗


I didn't had a problem with Adi's reaction today but if he doesn't call out Malini's uncalled for behavior with Imlie today, I will have a problem with that.


@bold.. Exactly, why does he need Imlie's agreement to end Malini and his relationship. He knows that relationship will not work because he doesn't love her and loves some one else, so it should be only his decision.


@bold: Aren't we? 😍 I am totally with you!


To be honest, I only open this thread now to read your post!


Because, I know no one will understand my take, and my POV


I has the courage to only replay to you with my thoughts, coz I know you at least will understand my point and will not consider it as I did a very bad thing that is sympathy with millani


I understand that ppl just tired of her acting and drama, me too really I share the feeling


But I love to see both sides ☺️

Edited by Guiltyo0o - 4 years ago

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".