Does Virat really love - Page 3

Ofcourse Virat loves Sai. And In true sense. He is protective, caring, responsible, attracted and emotionally attached. I also believe he is very modern in his outlook in the way he treats her. He lets her be herself, he doesnt want to change her, he allows her to pursue her dreams and also makes it his prioriy. This is being beautifully potrayed by Virat. Only thing he wants her to change is to show some restraint and change her attitude a bit because her antics might get her into trouble not only with the family but others too! This too comes from his caring side.

As any other person, he has weakness which could stem from his upbringing or otherwise naturally..

He is a bit too emotional and gets carried away. His thinking becomes blurred due to this. His trust in his family could be due to the fact that he always had seen only positive side of them. He is now seeing their true colors, thanks to Sai.

I dont agree when people say he follows his family blindly. He has some prejudice towards them as well as Sai so he takes time to listen and think before he responds. He has always done the right in the end...even in Amay's case, he was only stopping Sai because her approach towards it was wrong, not her intentions. I liked how he gave back nicely to Pakhi that day. He said he expected that Pakhi would stand with Shivani just like Sai. That is his character!

Sorry I am a bit biased towards him. because I think most of the time he thinks with cool mind. He just needs time!

Originally posted by: laksh

Hi,

Interacting with you, other than on EDT 😆.

Have shared my views below.

Virat's love can be seen in all of these

- Cares for Sai

- Believes that Sai is a person who is good at heart and would never doubt her intentions. Would also not encourage others who questions her integrity or intentions.

- Considers Sai's dreams to be his dreams

- Trusts that she would never lie (her mouthing of jhooth in the scene where Kaku denied Sai food, was enough for him to understand what was happening)

- Understands Sai many a times/ understanding is in progress

- Respects her privacy, has never tried to cross his limits

- Has clearly let his family know her place and position in his life (eklautha bahu and him leaving the house if she is required to leave)

- works on or fights with his family to look at Sai in a different light, asks them to accept her, vouches for her, expects them to respect and love her

- Will stand up by Sai if she is right

- Support Sai whenever needed

- Forgives Sai whenever she makes mistakes

- Works on mending his relationship in anyway possible to keep Sai in his life - regrets whenever he has made a mistake and apologises

- Puts up with Sai's anger, dislike, hatred - expecting that some day she will understand him

- Goes out of the way to bring a smile on her lips or to cheer her up

- tries to fill the gap which formed after her Dad's death

- Understands her pain even if she had not shared it with him (explaining to Kaku about Sai's state on the day they were planning to go Ladakh)

- Sincerely waiting and yearning for her attention and love, giving her space and time for her to accept the relationship, to come in terms with her feelings

- attracted by her

- feels jealous when she talks about someone else (it is another indication of love)

- feeling insecured - doesn't want her to leave him and the feeling that he won't be able to stay without her

- letting his friend/ex that she is his wife and defends Sai against Pakhi (many a times)

Virat started to get attached to Sai first. He always cared for her. He didn't like to stay away from her.

He had subconsciously started to like her, felt the need to spend more time with her, to get to know her, to get lost in her chirpiness, to hear her more.

He started to get attracted to her much later. It wasn't like he was smitten by her. His attraction came much later and was a gradual one.

Virat and Sai have bonded to some extent, but will take time for it to strengthen. Just like anyone else, Sai has a few flaws.

Virat knows them, has noticed them from the days of Gadchirolli. One cannot deny the fact that Sai is impulsive, stubborn, bold, does things on her own without seeking anyone's approval and without keeping anyone in loop, takes all matters in her hands. Virat knows all these traits or character hers.

However, Virat believes that Sai is good at heart, her intentions are good, that she can never harm or hurt anyone intentionally. He not just believes this, but also asserts this to people who doubts her intentions or who questions her actions.

It is not only about when he fell in love, he kept falling in love with her but realised it only now.

Everyone have their own principles. He loves his family, sacrificed his love for this same family.

And he fought against this family when they asked Sai to leave the house, he has fought against the same family many times, standing by Sai.

In the latest episode, he never believed in anyone who spoke against Sai. He kept trying to reach Sai and she didn't pick his call.

Even when he came to know from Pakhi's parents, that they saw her with Devi in a cab, he was only thinking where Sai could have taken Devi. He did not doubt her, right after he came to know that.

He defended Sai against Pakhi too saying that he trusts that Sai would never go against his word. I could only see his trust on Sai.

He was made to suspect if what they were saying could be true, much later.

It is not that he was believing his family/friend blindly, they only reminded him of what Sai had said/challenged. It only made him think if Sai was really taking such a step.

About yesterday's dialogue that she will have to face punishment, it has got to do with the fact that he had asked her to stay away from this matter until he investigates further, yet she had decided on her own to get his sister married to Pulkit.

He also only said that if Sai has taken such a step, she will have to face the consequences.

I would only like to say this, even if Sai and Virat loved each other for many years, and if years later, Sai had done the same, Virat would have still felt cheated, would have felt as if his trust was broken.

If one cannot do or take such a big decision on their own, even after loving each other for many years, in this scenario, Sai is taking a decision when she has not even accepted him to be her husband. I don't blame her to have not accepted him as her husband.

Her intentions may be right, not her approach. It is going behind one's back. Whatever be the reasons, she had. She would have felt that this is for the good of Devi, she might have understood Kaku, her actions, her intentions, but even then, she should have never agreed to Pulkit to do such a thing and should have never helped him.

It is only natural for Virat to get upset that she took this decision on her own and that she didn't wait for him to investigate further. It will only hurt him that she never gave him a chance to deal with the matter and most importantly, took decision of his sister on her own. The decision, which he himself might not have taken without involving his family. Even if he had decided to get Devi married to Pulkit, it would all be in open and not secretively.

He might be ignorant of his family's deeds, can he be blamed if they had planned and plotted things during his absence? How was he supposed to have known what they did when it was hidden from him?

This doesn't mean that he cannot get upset with Sai. Also, just because he is upset with Sai, it doesn't mean, he doesn't love her.

I will wait and see how his feelings progresses in future to start to judge his feelings.

@bold. I promise I did not lift this up. We just think alike 🤗

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Ofcourse Virat loves Sai. And In true sense. He is protective, caring, responsible, attracted and emotionally attached. I also believe he is very modern in his outlook in the way he treats her. He lets her be herself, he doesnt want to change her, he allows her to pursue her dreams and also makes it his prioriy. This is being beautifully potrayed by Virat. Only thing he wants her to change is to show some restraint and change her attitude a bit because her antics might get her into trouble not only with the family but others too! This too comes from his caring side.

As any other person, he has weakness which could stem from his upbringing or otherwise naturally..

He is a bit too emotional and gets carried away. His thinking becomes blurred due to this. His trust in his family could be due to the fact that he always had seen only positive side of them. He is now seeing their true colors, thanks to Sai.

I dont agree when people say he follows his family blindly. He has some prejudice towards them as well as Sai so he takes time to listen and think before he responds. He has always done the right in the end...even in Amay's case, he was only stopping Sai because her approach towards it was wrong, not her intentions. I liked how he gave back nicely to Pakhi that day. He said he expected that Pakhi would stand with Shivani just like Sai. That is his character!

Sorry I am a bit biased towards him. because I think most of the time he thinks with cool mind. He just needs time!

see above @laksh

Originally posted by: sadiltl

see above @laksh

Oh wow 🙌 🤗