The two-faced guilt trap - Page 16

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I'm also more inclined to buy this....let's see what we end up finally getting in the epi as his explanation for this situation😆

Aaj ka epi toh bahut high stakes lag raha hai like it will decide Babusahib ka fate going forward😆

And am scared.. let me go and grab all the comfort food.before hand to deal with sadma in case the outcome isn't what we are looking for😆

Waise to SP posted the promo once again today idk what they are trying to hype aisa kya hai

Originally posted by: wizardofoz2

Yes malini was being clingy as opposed to getting to the root cause of his absence for 4 days. Her behavior with imlie during the lassi scene was in line with her building resentment for adis care/concern for imlie egged on by her chudail mataji. It was expected but was totally unjustified and downright cruel given the kind of relationship that malini had seemed to establish with imlie , saying they are sisters and all. Now we know all that was dikhawa subconsciously to try to fit into the husbands family and to endear herself more to adi. She has an unhealthy attachment to him and is looking to run away from facing the facts. She ideally should have had a private showdown with him and demand to know the trut. I for one am pissed off with dids behavior towards imlie. What will she do when she knows that imlie had to forgo her haq towards adi to save her didis marriage?

Exactly, more than anything I'm disgusted with how Malini is treating Imlie right now even without knowing the truth.....just on the basis of some insecurities and half-baked suspicions. She has no right to talk to Imlie like this even if Imlie barged in accidentally to the room.....ek tareeka hota hai baat kehna ka bhi if you want to ask people to respect your privacy as a couple....maybe you can talk like this to a stranger somewhere but to the girl you claimed was like a sister to you? You talked to her like this simply cuz you are having a meltdown in your desperation over Adi? It just makes me so hopping mad....I cannot abide by any justifications or excuses given for Malini in that scene....and I can't get over it no matter how much it will be whitewashed in the coming days. I will remember that Imlie apologized three times for an honest mistake and all Malini gave her in response was cold aloofness and belittling.

I don't even care in the future if she feels some "ehsaan" that Imlie tried to save her marriage with Adi and sacrificed so much for her....what she's doing right now has made her fall too much in my eyes and I don't see any rising up from this.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I can't speak for others and their extrapolations but I can clarify a few things from my perspective:

1) The issue never was about whether Adi-Malini can hug😕😆.....that misses the whole point of this thread by a mile.

2) Malini asked the right questions? REALLY?😆.....The right question should have been to ask him again where he was the 4 days that he still isn't answering for....the questions she asked him instead here were all about GUILT TRIPPING .....a desperation to cling to him shown both physically and emotionally as she was literally trying to WILL him into becoming the Adi who groveled in front of her......lol these are the right questions? Or are are these just the usual antics to try to PAPER over their problems, never REALLY communicate and just somehow "solve everything" with one hug again....THAT'S how Malini's mind actually works....GHANTA right questions.

3) Malini telling Imlie not to interfere between pati-patni is obviously not in the same zone as Adi telling Pari not to interfere cuz Pari knows the full truth and tries to deliberately interfere between Adi-Imlie when Adi tells him to back off.....Imlie was not trying to deliberately interfere, she herself tries to not come between them and still Malini tried to "show her her place".....so I'm at a loss for how the two things are being compared. 😕

1. I didn't say this is the issue raised in this thread, just said I didn't see any issue with this

2. Oh I agree, Malini should have asked a lot of other questions, right from the bridge collapse instance but she never asks, I had a problem with her nor asking any questions at all, and her asking why there are differences in their relationship now and if she has done anything wrong is at least s good start. At least she didn't pretend there is no issue, like she usually does

3. I was comparing Adi - Pari scenes before pari learnt the truth. Be acted in jealousy then and Malini acted in jealousy now. Agreed Imlie didn't do anything to deserve but it came across to me as Malini is jealous because her husband is giving attention to someone else and not even talking with her. And it isnhuman to do all kinds of idiotic stuff when the green monster strikes. Was she right is how she talked with Imlie, NO, but do I understand where she is coming from YES

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

It is not fair to Milani , if he cant have to proceed a normal life with her anyway! And he don't love her anymore, why he keep her by his side! Just send her free!

And then deal with imle!

You're making it sound like Adi has CAGED Malini into staying with him 😕😆.....who's stopping her from leaving? She already left his house once, she's most welcome to leave again.....why exactly does she need Adi to "set her free".....he stopped holding on a while back and any woman with half a brain would have walked out on him.....lol but Malini didi is the one who insists on clinging to him.

I'm honestly at a loss for why I'm expected to sympathize with Malini after THIS episode out of all😕😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah I'm also more inclined to buy this....let's see what we end up finally getting in the epi as his explanation for this situation😆

Aaj ka epi toh bahut high stakes lag raha hai like it will decide Babusahib ka fate going forward😆

You think? 😆 We will be bashing him again in a week's time 😆 He just cannot help himself 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I can't speak for others and their extrapolations but I can clarify a few things from my perspective:

1) The issue never was about whether Adi-Malini can hug😕😆.....that misses the whole point of this thread by a mile.

2) Malini asked the right questions? REALLY?😆.....The right question should have been to ask him again where he was the 4 days that he still isn't answering for....the questions she asked him instead here were all about GUILT TRIPPING .....a desperation to cling to him shown both physically and emotionally as she was literally trying to WILL him into becoming the Adi who groveled in front of her......lol these are the right questions? Or are are these just the usual antics to try to PAPER over their problems, never REALLY communicate and just somehow "solve everything" with one hug again....THAT'S how Malini's mind actually works....GHANTA right questions.

3) Malini telling Imlie not to interfere between pati-patni is obviously not in the same zone as Adi telling Pari not to interfere cuz Pari knows the full truth and tries to deliberately interfere between Adi-Imlie when Adi tells him to back off.....Imlie was not trying to deliberately interfere, she herself tries to not come between them and still Malini tried to "show her her place".....so I'm at a loss for how the two things are being compared. 😕

Word.. that Prakash has an ulterior motive he has been vicious from day 1 lustinf over imlie wanting her for himself trying to break adi imlie wih stupidest reasons so.he could have her.. the scenario is totally different even if malini wants adi for herself here and told imlie off she is still married in her head to adi unlike that stupid Prakash. Besides imlie wasn't trying to snatch adi whatsoever or landed in the room after planning ke inka moment kharab karna hai ya kuch bhi she just entered on her mother's instructions and apologized right away and felt weird she wasn't coming IN BETWEEN in anyway like that Prakash likes to plant himself.. imlie had no motive behind this . It was no planned move

Originally posted by: Josupra

1. I didn't say this is the issue raised in this thread, just said I didn't see any issue with this

2. Oh I agree, Malini should have asked a lot of other questions, right from the bridge collapse instance but she never asks, I had a problem with her nor asking any questions at all, and her asking why there are differences in their relationship now and if she has done anything wrong is at least s good start. At least she didn't pretend there is no issue, like she usually does

3. I was comparing Adi - Pari scenes before pari learnt the truth. Be acted in jealousy then and Malini acted in jealousy now. Agreed Imlie didn't do anything to deserve but it came across to me as Malini is jealous because her husband is giving attention to someone else and not even talking with her. And it isnhuman to do all kinds of idiotic stuff when the green monster strikes. Was she right is how she talked with Imlie, NO, but do I understand where she is coming from YES

She will go back to pretending there is no issue literally in the next episode...so I find it beyond hilarious that everyone thinks this is a "new Malini" they got to see simply cuz she asked Adi what changed between them.....😆....she's literally asked him some variation of this many times before...including the day he came back from PD. But if you want to presume that's some big shift, your call I guess *shrugs*

I still disagree with your premise for the Adi-Pari example for the reasons I already explained....you are making it sound like we should equate the two situations when there are obviously different factors at play. So let's agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

You think? 😆 We will be bashing him again in a week's time 😆 He just cannot help himself 😆

LOL I don't really bash him in general and even in his dumbest moments, I can see some pattern more or less to what he's thinking/doing....yesterday's scene didn't provide that which is what made it more irritating than usual😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You're making it sound like Adi has CAGED Malini into staying with him 😕😆.....who's stopping her from leaving? She already left his house once, she's most welcome to leave again.....why exactly does she need Adi to "set her free".....he stopped holding on a while back and any woman with half a brain would have walked out on him.....lol but Malini didi is the one who insists on clinging to him.

I'm honestly at a loss for why I'm expected to sympathize with Malini after THIS episode out of all😕😆

Rofl adi should set her free.. isn't that the other way round.. that the woman should set adi free if she is so.dukhi and insecure.. she is the one clinging onto him.he did just fine without her and to quote malini when was the last time adi even missed this madam.. never caz she is not that important never was.. so who is caging who then...who can't even think ke.if they indeed have become so distant maybe it was never meant to be..

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly, more than anything I'm disgusted with how Malini is treating Imlie right now even without knowing the truth.....just on the basis of some insecurities and half-baked suspicions. She has no right to talk to Imlie like this even if Imlie barged in accidentally to the room.....ek tareeka hota hai baat kehna ka bhi if you want to ask people to respect your privacy as a couple....maybe you can talk like this to a stranger somewhere but to the girl you claimed was like a sister to you? You talked to her like this simply cuz you are having a meltdown in your desperation over Adi? It just makes me so hopping mad....I cannot abide by any justifications or excuses given for Malini in that scene....and I can't get over it no matter how much it will be whitewashed in the coming days. I will remember that Imlie apologized three times for an honest mistake and all Malini gave her in response was cold aloofness and belittling.

I don't even care in the future if she feels some "ehsaan" that Imlie tried to save her marriage with Adi and sacrificed so much for her....what she's doing right now has made her fall too much in my eyes and I don't see any rising up from this.

Malini dear forgot that she was romancing with Aditya with the door open during the movie night after the bridge scene .... Tabhi couple privacy had gone out of the window...😆

Her words might be right, but her tone and the way she cut Imlie down was so scathing, so hurtful and that is what i have a problem with... Telling is one thing but insulting someone is a completely different thing, especially someone who considers you a sister and who in her own words has saved her husband life. Malini insulted Imlie yesterday and that is why , whatever little sympathy I felt when she was begging Aditya to speak went out of the window in one shot.

Agree with you that today's episode is really going to be high stakes, I hope they give us a good episode before and if they have to shut down for Covid and have a good bank as they can no longer shoot on weekends.