Originally posted by: asmi_joya
I have been pretty vocal about why I am not with Sai in this track..However I do want to point out an issue ..the only one that I have with Virat and his attitude towards Sai.. He comes across extreme when it comes to Sai's mistakes..Lets go everyone else's in the name of family and ghar ke bade.. Even for that matter Pakhi was extremely rude and appeared to have crossed her limits when it came to the talk in the morning, yet he is fine talking to her and giving her the updates of the case in the evening. Cant forget how he brushed the entire hiding a kid and the marriage of ghar ke bade under the garb of its about past lets talk about future..I understand its part of his character.
However when it comes to Sai , he tends to come out with his extreme worst. I am not okay with him saying Sai mere kahe k against nahi jayegi. Why can a woman not have her own view point , why cant she take her own decisions or have a difference of opinion?Why is it not about being wrong or right?Why is it about her going against his words? He did the same when Sai asked PD sir ke yaha kyun nahi ja sakti and he says kyuki main keh raha hun..Never did he mention its not safe for you to go that's why.His talks were mostly surrounded with "You cant defy me" attitude. Today also he says , she cant go against what I have said/I believe. This attitude of Virat combined with insecurity, distrust and jealousy can lead to a damage in their relationship , even if it entails a lot of love from his end.
Coz sai is only person who instigate him to 2 d extreme limit with her nhi batungi attitude , jo hand holding track mein kyunki meh keh rahi wali bahut baad mein aayi , usse pehle sai manage to instigate him , family members fuel it. Virat never had problem with sai going out coz d very first dialogue which came out from his mouth was sai tum kabtak vapas aaogi uske baad sai who got instigate by ninad said aapse kisne kaha mein padhai ke liye ja rahi hu , virat had inquired from her from does she know PD from before & why is he only calling u alone in Sunday which sai brushed aside & moved on . Ye concern nhi. When Ashwani asked her then also virat said plz tell d reason but sai who kept on repeating nhi bataungi. Aise kon behave karta virat ke saath.
Normal parents will also not let u go without knowing d reason .
Regarding sai mere kahe against nhi jayegi shows that he thinks his words had some value for her sadly his belief is false on sai coz she don't have any value for his words as she only do what she think is right , she care a damn for virat's pov , amay track se ye baat sabit ho chuki hai .
She is one who keep insulting virat infront of his family by always going against him .
Yes virat was wrong in hand twisting & definitely wrong in stop in food thing