With "Friends" like these - Page 11

I found it rather funny that Malini was roaming around with the sindoor?! Total *facepalm* scene tha woh.

Why do I think Imlie will be the one encouraging Malini and Adi to play their holi and also request BBS to put the sindoor on Malini! Oh the expressions Adi will give...ekdum meme worthy honge!

On a more pondering note- how will Imlie be treated now? Just like a guest? It would be interesting to see if Imlie suggests she stay as a paying guest.. I want that kinda confidence from her. I was pretty disappointed that Imlie being such a smart girl had no idea what an ID card or adhar card is?! I think the creatives are so enamored by Imlie and Adi ka chemistry, like us, that they have sidetracked that Imlie has to rise and shine!

Originally posted by: mltr16

Bigamy vs naajayaz debate is a never ending one. I do sympathise with Malini some though. She is a gudiya that will smile happy, talk happy but everything is on the surface. In her own personality as flawed as it maybe, she is right in wanting to spend time with her husband and wanting an "honest" relationship with him. Unfortunately, she chose the wrong mate.

LOL if she is such a gudiya, why get married? 😆 She clearly does not look ready for marriage from any angle if these are her ideas about marriage and partnership.....even more hilarious that she has been written as a "mature college professor" and her thinking is like that of a 16 year old in fantasy land.

I would have sympathy for her if she wasn't putting on such a double faced act.....the put on attempts at mahaanta and being "large hearted" when that is just not what she is feeling....makes her look very superficial and artificial.....and superficiality will never win you brownie points in my books *shrugs*

The story should have been primed to draw sympathy towards her as the "unwitting" victim who got caught up in this storm of relationships.....and yet she is so far from all that......lol all of the sympathy I feel is only for the girl who is literally fighting for survival and respect on an elemental level and still holding her head up high....still trying to think for others more than herself. I don't know how I'm supposed to feel sympathy for a grown woman this desperate to just get attention from all corners rather than trying to communicate properly with the people she claims she loves the most.

Adi's mistakes we have all acknowledged here many times....he hardly gets a free pass.....we call out all his flaws, blunders, delusions. So why is Malini expected to be treated like a delicate darling when she is being this delusional? Simply not knowing the truth doesn't give her an automatic sympathy pass. She's had plenty of opportunities to step up and face the glaring signs in her face.....after a point her choosing not to makes me indifferent to her then.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Arre, didn’t you hear her logic about marriage. Two similar people should marry then their thinking matches too. So if Malini thinks that sindoor Aditya lagvayga then Aditya should also have had the same thought at the same time. Batana kya hain usme, they are wheels of a same car so they should totally get without communication what the other wants. 😆

Communication woh kya cheez, phone ki to zaroorat hi nahin hain, unki similarity should be more than enough for Aditya to understand that sindoor is waiting for him 😆

Amazing that she is not even thinking that she does not even know that where he was. He said he will come and talk to her in the evening and I am still shocked that she did not follow him to get clarification on her question or to find out what has upset him.

Last time she told him about the receipt because she was feeling guilty and did not want to have any secrets between them, poem was not her idea so fine but iss time phone call ke baare mein nahi batana hain to keep their relationship bedaag? 😛

LOLL main toh woh phone call ke baare mein bhool hi gayi....and even Adi didn't think to come back and check ki kaise pata chala Prakash ko😆.....maybe they will show him and Imlie discussing it later once she is back in the house.

As for communication from Malini didi....lol I guess they will put in some token scene of her calling Adi to "inform" him that she is waiting for his sindoor daan to her😆.....but Adi will likely be busy playing Holi with Imlie then toh won't be able to attend his phone....and direct rangon ki dukaan banke lautega with Imlie😆

Guys, was there a hint of insecurity in Aditya when he was musing about Imlie's feelings for him? I mean its the case of he knows but he does not know and she has not said the words.....He knows that she considers him her husband and that will not change and all her actions for him are only for that reason in his opinion. But now its more about Aditya, the man himself right and her feelings about the actual person... Was there a hint of fear too or just insecurity?

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Btw am I the only one who noticed BK changed outfits from bus stop to home 🤣🤣🤣

That's true. 🤣

Originally posted by: pamk06

Guys, was there a hint of insecurity in Aditya when he was musing about Imlie's feelings for him? I mean its the case of he knows but he does not know and she has not said the words.....He knows that she considers him her husband and that will not change and all her actions for him are only for that reason in his opinion. But now its more about Aditya, the man himself right and her feelings about the actual person... Was there a hint of fear too or just insecurity?

Waise overconfidence ki dukaan hai. But the fact that she has been able to push him away not once but twice is what is making his vulnerability regarding her resurface I think. Like anyone new to love, he wants to hear her say she is as affected as him too. That he is not the only one experiencing this ocean of feelings. So, yes there is a tad bit of fear that she may not be able to reciprocate as much as him. But pata hai use ki the emotional sickness is rampant on her side too - especially when that conductor went and pushed her or when he held her hands etc

Originally posted by: pamk06

Guys, was there a hint of insecurity in Aditya when he was musing about Imlie's feelings for him? I mean its the case of he knows but he does not know and she has not said the words.....He knows that she considers him her husband and that will not change and all her actions for him are only for that reason in his opinion. But now its more about Aditya, the man himself right and her feelings about the actual person... Was there a hint of fear too or just insecurity?

Well that insecurity has been there since a few days, right? On both sides.....Adi keeps thinking that if Imlie really wanted to be with him as much as he wants to be with her, she wouldn't have been able to send him away so easily😆. Kal bhi yehi soch raha tha that Imlie told him to leave itni jaldi.

And Imlie also keeps thinking that it sounded like he didn't want to talk to her on the phone so he doesn't miss her as much....and then that once he goes back to Malini, he will forget about her😆....kal bhi Prakash ko bol rahi thi I don't think Babusahib will try again to approach me after I told him to leave.....lol so she does think that will be enough for Adi to back off cuz he doesn't feel for her as strongly as she feels for him😆.

Dono isi confusion mein back and forth jaate rahenge until they manage to directly tell each other how much they yearn for each other....ki nahin jee paate ek dusre ke bina.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Waise overconfidence ki dukaan hai. But the fact that she has been able to push him away not once but twice is what is making his vulnerability regarding her resurface I think. Like anyone new to love, he wants to hear her say she is as affected as him too. That he is not the only one experiencing this ocean of feelings. So, yes there is a tad bit of fear that she may not be able to reciprocate as much as him. But pata hai use ki the emotional sickness is rampant on her side too - especially when that conductor went and pushed her or when he held her hands etc

Yeah, and this ties in with that point from the Malini flashback about jealousy.....Adi has never experienced that uncertainty before cuz he's never been in love before....he's never felt the fear of losing someone before like he's feeling with Imlie.....that is what has him totally preoccupied right now.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL if she is such a gudiya, why get married? 😆 She clearly does not look ready for marriage from any angle if these are her ideas about marriage and partnership.....even more hilarious that she has been written as a "mature college professor" and her thinking is like that of a 16 year old in fantasy land.

I would have sympathy for her if she wasn't putting on such a double faced act.....the put on attempts at mahaanta and being "large hearted" when that is just not what she is feeling....makes her look very superficial and artificial.....and superficiality will never win you brownie points in my books *shrugs*

The story should have been primed to draw sympathy towards her as the "unwitting" victim who got caught up in this storm of relationships.....and yet she is so far from all that......lol all of the sympathy I feel is only for the girl who is literally fighting for survival and respect on an elemental level and still holding her head up high....still trying to think for others more than herself. I don't know how I'm supposed to feel sympathy for a grown woman this desperate to just get attention from all corners rather than trying to communicate properly with the people she claims she loves the most.

Adi's mistakes we have all acknowledged here many times....he hardly gets a free pass.....we call out all his flaws, blunders, delusions. So why is Malini expected to be treated like a delicate darling when she is being this delusional? Simply not knowing the truth doesn't give her an automatic sympathy pass. She's had plenty of opportunities to step up and face the glaring signs in her face.....after a point her choosing not to makes me indifferent to her then.

Iss liye kyunki woh aurat hai 🙄🤷‍♀️ and woman card bhi toh khelna hai na along with victim card somehow aurat ki galtiyan kabhi broader way main dikhayeinge nahin ya acknowledge nahi kareinge..

She is beyond artificial now all her cutesy doll acts are beyond cringe and put on I am sorry for myself that I feel just tiredness seeing her make a joke of herself instead of using common sense ..or feeling for her.. i feel sorry for myself that I am expected to feel sorry for this caricature of a character who would never ever grow up and will be forever act like she is 14 with her kabhi conflict Hkne hi nahi chahiye and sab smooth chalta hai shaadi main expectations.. not like anyone goes in a shaadi to expect ladai jhagde and arguments but you know on a basic level roz ka nok jhok bhi nahi Hoga type expectation she should have married a robot then ...oh wait she did from her POV adi was no less then one but ab he has started feeling things to she has a problem it was a all fine until he was acting as a mannequin for her to bandho with her arm and flaunt 😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Arre, didn’t you hear her logic about marriage. Two similar people should marry then their thinking matches too. So if Malini thinks that sindoor Aditya lagvayga then Aditya should also have had the same thought at the same time. Batana kya hain usme, they are wheels of a same car so they should totally get without communication what the other wants. 😆

Communication woh kya cheez, phone ki to zaroorat hi nahin hain, unki similarity should be more than enough for Aditya to understand that sindoor is waiting for him 😆

Amazing that she is not even thinking that she does not even know that where he was. He said he will come and talk to her in the evening and I am still shocked that she did not follow him to get clarification on her question or to find out what has upset him.

Last time she told him about the receipt because she was feeling guilty and did not want to have any secrets between them, poem was not her idea so fine but iss time phone call ke baare mein nahi batana hain to keep their relationship bedaag? 😛

The way Malini has made such a public declaration of wanting Adi to colour her first without even informing him is ridiculous😆.

She has not been able to even talk to him & expects that he should also want to celebrate their first Holi the way she wants. Ab woh antaryami toh nahi hai na😆 .

But this is why I get irritated with her. Now she has said her wish to everyone & when he returns already coloured she will get upset, cry over it & present Adi as some kind of a bad husband who did not complete her simple wish😆. Again making an issue out of nothing.

I don't understand how she expects to resolve the distance between them if they do not communicate. If Adi is not talking to her himself, are you going to let the issue fester? Har dusri baat pe toh badi zidd karti hai, baat karne ke liye bhi zidd kar sakti hai.

Or is it again an ego issue for her ki why should she make the first move? If you want to improve your relationship & your partner is not showing interest, then you will have to take the initiative. Aise toh problem kabhi solve hogi hi nahi.

One more prediction I will make is that she will get upset with Imlie's warm welcome by the family. I for sure know that they will give a warmer welcome back to Imlie than they gave to Malini because there is more apnapan in Imlie's bond with the family.