Originally posted by: faja
Yeah, Ani always flips, he is so inconsistent in this thoughts and actions and often contradict when it comes to Bonditha.Ani was shown too blind folded in the case of Mini. However, Mini acted behind a mask by taking his side and proclaiming the goodness of his act. She was being a true hypocrite. Ani as always shown only belive what in fornt of eyes,his brain goes on a leave it mini or sampoorna. Here Bonditha is openly rebelling and showing jealousy , so he will go on laming mode, but as you said him not trusting Bonditha for person she is might come up, as it always happened in every track.
No doubt him doing rasamas and faking marital expectations of society is completely eye sore. The only logic that I could see in the logic less track t is Manorma is an adult and she knows what she is doing.She cannot be manipulated unlike Bondita, because of her ignorance or innocence and they will part ways on mission, so he will take the wrath of society or wont give a dammit as Manorama will go and live the life she wanted .He never tried a peaceful reconciliation with Bonditha in educating her, even if not y himself, but not by her mother too. His emotional abuse on the kid is intolerable. The fact here is he himself is shown uncapable of explaining those to Bonditha in monologues. There were still better ways
@ Bold He was never shown afraid of society for himself.He is afraid of the power of society in manipulating Bondita and he could not make her understand as before.To a greater extend Bondita fall prey to those manipulations of sampoorna and coaxing of Kaka..So he came up with the most unacceptale and stupid idea, which he himself cannot undo. He will face the consequence too..
@Bold- I agree completely.
But going by the nature of Bondita, her character description till date is shown as someone who questions the society, instead of getting manipulated by it. Why is she then suddenly getting controlled by people? This fact is a troubling question.
Remember when Sampoo tried to mislead her during the SR track she gave it back to her as "Aap kuch bhi galat maat kaho mere patibabu ke baare mei. Ek kaamre mei rehne se thodi na sabit hota hai ke hum pati-patni hai? Hum ek doosre ki chinta karte hai, ek doosre ka khayal rakhte hai, wo kaafi nahi hai ek pati-patni hone ke liye?" The Bondita who had this much of faith in her relationship that she did not allow anyone to dictate it is now getting manipulated. What caused this? Ani's behaviour and his inability to provide her assurance.
The thing is Bon might have not been so induced by people, if it was not Ani. When it comes to Ani, she cannot think reasonably. An example- When those ladies told her about the symptoms of love, she did question it, but temporarily. "Dil ki dhadkan tham jayegi to mai marr nahi jaungi?", she asks. But even after questioning it, she immediately checks her heartbeat upon seeing Ani.
What I want to say is that Bon considers him as her sansaar, as her everything. She was happy when she saw Ani built a bathroom for her, but she felt special when those ladies talked about it. What Ani has done for her till date is immeasurable for her and she wants to reciprocate it. She wants to return the same affection Ani has given to her, in ways which are possible for her. When she could not find those ways on her own, she asked those ladies for advice. To her Ani is the best patibabu and she wants to be the best patni in return. She choses all those ways which society puts in front of her because she can do everything for him. When Ani, inspite of that, refuses to call her as wife she starts feeling unsafe. Insecurity starts creeping in her mind regarding his relationship with Ani, her sansaar. She can't let the relation she values the most go for a toss and she tries every illogical and unreasonable way.
Bon would have questioned about chamatkaari sindoor, but she did not because it was again for Ani. Bon cannot think straight when it is about Ani and Ani denying the relationship she considers the world makes Bon so insecure that it adds fuel to the fire.
I feel Ani needs to understand this. Ani is trying to bring back the Bon who does tarks, but he fails to realize the root of the problem lies not in the society but in the fact that his relationship with Bon is the topmost priority for Bon which actually prevents her from thinking logically. She just needs a tough assurance and security from Ani regarding their relationship and then she can be the previous Bondita who fights with the society for Ani, not with Ani for the society. Ani failing to give that will make Bon go more under the influence of society, of people like Kaka and Sampoo. Bondita too would not have been manipulated, like Manorama, if Ani gave that sense of security.
But it isn't Ani's fault too. He himself does not have a clarity regarding his relationship with Bon, how is he going to make her understand? Uske liye to pati-patni sirf romance karte hai🤪 Usko pehle khud samajhna padega.
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